- Sure he can like you,
but will he value you?
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So, can a guy like you after one night stand?
Okay.
So yes he can, but it's a very fragile situation.
With less than 50% chance that it will work long term.
However, if you seem to be into him,
you have nothing to lose to try.
And at the end of the day if it doesn't work out
you can look at it as a learning experience.
Okay, ladies.
So let me give you four scenarios of one night stands,
and I will tell you how to behave so it works out
the best way for you, given the situation.
Keep it in mind that all of them
will have the same answer on how to behave after.
However, the likability of it to work out will be different
relating to that specific situation.
So the first one.
Let's see for instance maybe he was fun,
charming, handsome.
Promised you the world,
you felt weak in your knees and it happened.
Now how do you behave after?
You act normal, stay calm and collected,
fully in charge of your emotions and you keep it casual.
He is not your boyfriend, it was just fun.
If he's interested he will get in touch again.
Stay casual, do not let your emotions take over,
just let it flow naturally.
Watch my video, "How To Behave With A Guy After Sex",
as this will be your best chance to keep him interested.
And you will be able to find that video
just by following the link right here.
And I will also drop it down
in the video description box below.
However, because you are already in a fragile position,
it's very likely that it will not work.
Yet it is your best card,
and you don't really have much to lose.
The second scenario would be,
he seemed like a catch, you approach him and it happened.
Ladies, this is the least one to ever work out.
Why?
As you've been the one pursuing him,
so it's already a turn off for him.
Please watch my video,
"Why You Should Not Pursue A Man".
Which you can find just by following the link right here.
However, saying that,
if you pursued him before having sex
and after you seemed aloof,
this might create an intrigue for him.
Where he might think, hmm, why isn't she chasing me now?
Was I not good enough?
So he might pursue you after because he's feeling intrigued.
Yet, if he does approach you,
it will most likely be for sex again.
Ladies, the time that having a one night stand
where you are the one approaching the guy
can potentially work is,
if he can't really get the girls himself,
or he feels like you are out of his league.
So, he might actually feel lucky to have you
as he can't get you himself.
The third one,
you've been friends for a while and it happened.
Now this could possibly work.
If you again stay calm and collected,
if you are in control of your emotions
and you let him pursue you after.
Ladies, you letting him lead is crucial.
Otherwise he will feel pressured, controlled, overwhelmed
and turned off.
Ladies, please watch my video,
"How To Control Your Emotions",
which you will be able to find just by following the link
right here and down in the description box below.
Number four,
he asked you out, you went on a date,
maybe on a first, second or third date,
later it happened.
I would say this is kind of 50/50 chance,
as it really depends how much
was he truly into you during those dates.
Was he also the one asking you out and pursuing you for it?
Was he trying to get to know you
and was into what you are about?
Or was he just charming you to get the cookie?
Again, to behave correctly after is crucial.
As if you are already emotionally involved,
it will be very difficult not to lose control.
Especially if he tries to play some games on you,
and you are still not exclusive.
Therefore, please watch my video,
"Games Men Play On Women",
that you can find just by following the link right here,
and I will also drop it down
in the video description box below.
Ladies, it's a simple rule in life,
nothing what comes easy is valued or appreciated.
Think of it yourself.
Do you appreciate things that come on a plate for you?
Sure it can be fun for a a bit,
but it does not have a value of something you have been
investing your time over and over again
and energy to get.
It's the same thing ladies.
Ladies, please watch my video,
"How Men Fall In Love",
which you will be able to find
just by following the link right here
and also down in the video description box below.
However ladies,
on the bright side I would say give it a chance.
Don't lose hope.
It does work out sometimes,
if you nail at every single detail.
And if you want to nail at every single detail,
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So thank you so much for watching my queens.
Kisses from London.