>> WELL, A LITTLE BIT OF SAD NEWS, BUT IT WILL PROBABLY NOT
IMPACT YOUR LIFE TOO MUCH.
KHLOE KARDASHIAN AND TRISTAN
THOMPSON THEY’VE BROKEN UP
OFFICIALLY TEN MONTHS AFTER THE
BIRTH OF THEIR BEAUTIFUL LITTLE
DAUGHTER TRUE.
DAUGHTER TRUE. >> THIS THING, TRISTAN, WAS
THERE SOME KIND OF CHEATING
SCANDAL EARLY ON.
>> BEFORE SHE HAD THE BABY.
>> BEFORE SHE HAD THE BABY AND
KHLOE TOOK HIM BACK WHICH, BY
THE WAY, LOTS OF WOMEN DO.
YOU’VE DONE IT.
>> I’VE DONE IT.
>> WE SHOULDN’T JUDGE THEM,
OTHER PEOPLE.
OTHER PEOPLE. THAT’S WHAT CHOICE IS ALL ABOUT.
>> I GUESS WE DON’T, AGAIN, ALL
OF THIS IS NOT 100% CONFIRMED.
THERE IS A PLACE CALLED
HOLLYWOOD UNLOCKED THAT REPORTED
THAT THE PAIR WERE CALLING IT
QUITS.
QUITS. THERE WAS ALLEGEDLY AN AFFAIR
BETWEEN TRISTAN AND THE BEST
FRIEND OF KYLIE, KHLOE’S SISTER.
>> A GIRL NAMED JORDAN WOODS.
THIS GIRL RIGHT HERE.
>> THESE TWO HAVE BEEN FRIENDS
FOREVER.
FOREVER. THEY’RE IN BUSINESS TOGETHER AND
ALL OF THAT STUFF AND THE NEWS
OUTLET SHARED THAT TRISTAN AND
KYLIE’S BEST FRIEND WERE SEEN, I
GUESS, CANOODLING AND THAT’S THE
WAY THEY’RE DESCRIBING IT AND
SHE DID NOT LEAVE THE HOME UNTIL
THE MORNING HOURS SO WHO KNOWS
WHAT WENT ON?
>> NOT ME!
>> CAN WE GO BACK, YOU GUYS?
WE HAVE TO GET THIS RIGHT.
>> VERY IMPORTANT.
>> YES.
>> YES. THE OUTLET SHARED THE NEWS IN AN
INSTAGRAM VIDEO WITH THIS
CAPTION.
CAPTION. ONE OF OUR CONTRIBUTORS WAS AT
TRISTAN THOMPSON’S HOUSE AND SAW
WHAT WENT DOWN.
KYLIE, WE NEED YOU TO ADDRESS
SOME THINGS WITH JORDAN WOODS.
>> ANYWAY.
>> ANYWAY. NOT CONFIRMED.
NOT CONFIRMED. >> IT DOESN’T LOOK GOOD.
>> IT DOESN’T LOOK GOOD AND
THERE ARE PEOPLE -- KHLOE
COMMENTED ON THIS VIDEO WITH
SHOUTING EMOJIS.
SHOUTING EMOJIS. >> YEAH.
>> YEAH. >> AND KHLOE’S CLOSE FRIEND
MALIKA COMMENTED ON THE POST
WRITING STRONG FACTS.
>> AND TRISTAN SAID IT WAS FAKE
AND THEN DELETED THAT.
>> A LOT OF WOMEN CAN RELATE TO
THIS.
THIS. SOMETHING HAPPENS IN A
RELATIONSHIP AND THEY COME TO
YOU AND SAY I’M CHANGED.
I’M DIFFERENT.
I’M DIFFERENT. I’M NOT THAT GUY, AND THE
QUESTION IS --
>> IT HAPPENS WITH WOMEN, AS
WELL.
WELL. >> WITH WOMEN, TOO.
>> WHEN IS IT A WHOOPS AND WHEN
IS IT A PATTERN?
>> SOMEBODY ONCE SAID TO ME
YEARS AGO BEFORE ANYTHING
HAPPENED WITH ME, YOU KNOW WHAT?
THE FIRST TIME YOU SEE YOUR
PASTOR OR YOUR PRIEST AND THE
RABBI.
RABBI. THE SECOND TIME YOU SEE YOUR
LAWYER.
LAWYER. IF IT’S CHRONIC BEHAVIOR.
>> IF SOMEONE SAID, LET ME PLAY
A GAME WITH YOU.
YOU’RE NEWLY MARRIED AND YOUR
HUSBAND GOES ON A BUSINESS TRIP
AND COMES BACK AND SAYS I KISSED
THIS GIRL AT THIS BAR AND WE HAD
TOO MANY DRINKS AND IT WAS A
SALES THING AND WILL YOU FORGIVE
ME.
ME. THE WIFE SAYS YOU CAME TO ME,
YOU DID TELL ME AND CONFESSED.
OKAY.
OKAY. THEY HAVE A CHILD AND THEY GO ON
A BUSINESS TRIP AND HE COMES
BACK AND THEY HAVE A BABY AND A
HOME NOW.
HOME NOW. I COULDN’T SLEEP.
I COULDN’T SLEEP.
I WAS TOSSING AND TURNING.
I WAS AT A BAR, AND I KNOW I
PROMISED I WOULDN’T DRINK AND WE
WON THE SALES AWARD AND THERE
WAS THIS GIRL AND I’M TELLING
YOU THIS.
YOU THIS. WHAT DO YOU DO THEN?
>> SO THEY HAVE A ONE-NIGHT --
>> WE KISSED AND NOTHING
HAPPENED.
HAPPENED. >> OH.
>> OH. >> AND THEN THE THIRD TIME.
THE QUESTION IS, LIKE, IT’S BABY
STEPS INTO WHAT -- AND THEN IT’S
TWICE AND IS IT A PATTERN IF
THEY TELL YOU A THIRD TIME THAT
THEY DID IT AGAIN?
DOES THAT MEAN IT’S OVER?
>> IT TELLS ME THAT HE NEEDS TO
GET A NEW JOB, BUT THAT’S WHAT
IT SEEMS LIKE ON THE SURFACE.
THAT’S NOT GOING TO CHANGE IT.
THE PROBLEM IS IN THE
RELATIONSHIP AND WITH HIM, YOU
KNOW.
KNOW. YEAH.
YEAH. SO THE PATTERN IS JUST -- IT’S
JUST WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT’S
ALREADY INSIDE YOU, YOU KNOW
WHAT I’M SAYING?
YOU’VE GOT TO DEAL WITH WHAT’S
CAUSING THE BEHAVIOR.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. >> NOT JUST THE BEHAVIOR.
>> DO YOU THINK IT’S WHAT’S
LACKING IN A RELATIONSHIP OR DO
YOU THINK IT’S JUST THAT SOME
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR
SOMETHING BETTER THAN WHAT THEY
HAVE?
HAVE? SOMETHING MORE EXCITING?
SOMETHING NEWER.
SOMETHING NEWER. >> YOU ONLY KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW.
>> I KNOW THAT BAD THINGS CAN
HAPPEN IN GREAT MARRIAGES.
>> YES.
>> YES. YOU KNOW, BUT I JUST REMEMBER
WHAT A WISE, WISE FRIEND SAID TO
ME YEARS AGO WHEN I WAS
STRUGGLING WITH IT, HE SAID
KATHIE, IF YOU CAN’T FORGIVE
YOUR HUSBAND, FORGIVE YOUR
CHILDREN’S FATHER.
CHILDREN’S FATHER. AND AGAIN, THAT’S DO YOU WANT TO
BE RIGHT OR RIGHTEOUS?
I LOVE THAT GUY.
THAT GUY THAT’S THE FATHER OF MY
CHILDREN, THAT GUY IS AWESOME
AND IT GOT MY EYES OFF OF MY OWN
PAIN AND LOOKING AT THE SAME
THING FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE.
I WAS SO GRATEFUL FOR HIM AND I
NEVER FORGOT IT AND I SHARED IT
WITH LOTS OF PEOPLE BECAUSE WE
GET WRAPPED UP IN OUR OWN PAIN.
I’M ALWAYS THE ONE TO SAY
FORGIVE OR ELSE YOU CAN’T ASK
FOR FORGIVENESS LATER FOR
YOURSELF, BUT THERE ARE ALSO
THINGS WE’RE NOT SUPPOSED TO PUT
UP WITH JUST BECAUSE.
A LOT OF PEOPLE IN THE FAITH
WORLD THINK -- AND THIS IS A
SCRIPTURE THAT’S BEEN
MISTRANSLATED FOR MILLENIA IN
THE NEW TESTAMENT, WIVES SUBMIT
TO YOUR HUSBANDS.
THE WORD SUBMIT MEANS HIPOTASU,
AND IT HAS NOTHING TO MEAN TO
SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND, IT MEANS
TO REACH DOWN AND LIFT UP IN
SUPPORT.
SUPPORT. HOW DO YOU GET SUBMIT.
WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LOVING AND
SUPPORTIVE OF OUR FRIEND, TOO.
>> DO YOU THINK A LOT OF WOMEN
THINK I AM SO DEEP IN NOW I HAVE
KIDS, WE HAVE A MORTGAGE, I
CAN’T.
CAN’T. I CAN PUT UP, I CAN TOLERATE.
>> TRUST IS A THING BECAUSE IT
HAPPENED TO YOU.
IT TAKES A LONG TIME TO BUILD
TRUST AND IT TAKES AN INSTANT TO
DESTROY IT.
DESTROY IT. YOU’VE GOT TO BE WILLING TO PUT
IN THE WORK TO COME BACK AND
BOTH OF YOU HAVE TO BE.
>> RIGHT.
>> RIGHT. >> YOU KNOW.
>> BOTH OF YOU HAVE TO BE.
>> SOMEBODY DID SAY BECAUSE IT’S
EASY TO BLAME THE OTHER PERSON
AND SAY THEY DID THIS AND THEY
DID THAT, ONE THING THAT
RESONATED WITH ME WHEN SOMEONE
ASKED ME THIS, IF YOU WERE TO
LINE UP THE THREE MEN YOU’VE
EVER LOVED AND ASK THEM WHY
DIDN’T THE RELATIONSHIP WORK?
ASK THEM.
ASK THEM. EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT HAVE
BROKEN UP, IT DOESN’T MATTER.
WHAT WILL THEY SAY THAT WAS
CONSISTENT?
CONSISTENT? THAT’S YOUR THING.
YOU NEED TO WORK ON THAT THING,
BUT SOMETIMES I THINK --
RIGHTEOUS WASN’T THE RIGHT WORD,
WHERE WE THINK THAT, YOU KNOW,
WELL THAT PERSON IS HORRIBLE AND
THAT’S WHY IT DIDN’T WORK.
THAT PERSON IS THAT WAY.
SOMETIMES WE JUST NEED TO TAKE A
LOOK.
LOOK. I’M NOT SAYING WE DESERVE
ANYTHING, BUT TAKE A LOOK AT
OURSELVES.
OURSELVES. >> ISN’T THE DEFINITION OF
INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THING