Hi, I'm Paul Friedman founder of The Marriage Foundation and today's topic is
"How To Make Your Husband Fall Back in Love With You." No spells, no magic, no
magic wands. This is really how we do it and the truth of this is that this is
what we do, this is one of our sweet spots at The Marriage Foundation and so
there's no trick here, there's no manipulation. It's a very sincere clean
methodology and I'm gonna share it with you. Now I should let you know that for
those who don't have strong will. If you can't really control yourself, can't
control your mind, can't control the words that come out of your mouth
because of habits and instinctive reactions then we have a course to help
you but that's not what this is about. This is about telling you how to do it
so let's take a look at what's really happening, why did your husband fall out
of love with you? And you may in your mind come up with like one or two things
but I'm going to share with you what is sort of universal. People get married and
they have every intention of being nice to one another of treating each other
the way you did when you first got together very respectfully, expressing a
lot of appreciation, expressing a lot of compliments, really letting your husband
know how much you thought of him, how positive your attitude towards him was.
Then what happened was you became familiar with him, you started to see
ways that you can actually enhance what you were saying to him to make him
feel even better and then you became over-familiar with him. This is a
universal problem. We see this in every marriage that has gone so far as to
split up. I call it over familiarity, it is the number one killer of marriages
and this is where it begins. So, your husband came to you and wanted to marry
you for a very simple reason. He wanted your unconditional love and you were
going to give that to him but because of over-familiarity
and other things you started to pull back. Your heart wasn't as open as it was
and men are very simple creatures. Black and white, he started to feel rejected by
you and so he withdrew from you. So, what is the answer? How do you do it? It's very
simple, reverse the process but all at once, reverse the process. Start showing
him the kind of love and appreciation and recognition that you did when you
first got together. Light his fire again, don't hold back, don't say things like
"but that was years ago, things are different when you're married blah blah
blah." Look, marriage is a very spiritual thing.
It's based on unconditional love that's its foundation, the friendship of
marriage because there has to be a friendship is based on a choice that you
made when you chose him to love him unconditionally. That has to be brought
back. If you do that you don't have to manipulate him, you don't have to
convince him of anything. Your actions, your speech, your vibration
towards him all of that will be enough. He will want to be with you again. He
will fall in love with you again so that's it in a simplest form. Now what
you are up against is not his behavior but your own mind. You see the
human mind is connected to an animal body. Your animal body is reactive, it's
all about survival and you have allowed these survival indications, this
instinctive reactions to interfere with your heart's love and this is a common
battle for everyone on every single spiritual path and marriage is an
ultimate spiritual path. It's a battle between the body's drives taking place
in the mind and the souls love and you have to win that battle. When you do,
I didn't say if, when you do he will be attracted to you again. He'll test you
it's natural but then if you stay consistent with this his heart will open
to you, he will be in love with you once again. Now if you need help with this, you
can read one of my books, there's only two of them at this point,
"Breaking The Cycle" and "Lessons For a Happy Marriage" that gives you sort of a
framework so you have a context but if you're not able to take control over
your mind you may need the course. The course will take you step by step and
bring you to that place where you become who you were that loving beautiful woman
who he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, and that's where you have to
go. You have to do this the real way every
other way fails. You have to do it the real way, you have to go back to being
not who you were but who you truly are
your love. A woman represents that to a man in a way where he cannot get this
anywhere else. The last time he had unconditional love was from his mother.
You are supposed to replace that unconditional love as a wife of course
and he will come back to you, guaranteed. I hope this was helpful
for you. If you have questions, put it in the comment box. If you like this video
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Blessings to you, blessings to your husband who's waiting for you to make
these changes and blessing to your family which will be a hive of happiness