How do you know if your ex still has feelings for you?
In this video, I'm going to be talking about seven signs that your ex still has feelings
for you and stick around to the end because I'm going to be sharing with you a surprise
twist that will kind of reveal how your ex might still have feelings for you even if
it seems like they don't.
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Okay, so the first sign that your ex still has feelings for you is if they take an interest
in your life.
Now the people in our lives take up mental real estate.
We don't really keep up to date on everyone that we know, we only keep up to date on the
people that we actually care about.
So if your ex is keeping up to date on things that are going on in your life, they're asking
questions or following up or wanting to know, hey, how did that presentation go?
Or, hey, how did that exam go at school?
Or something like that.
Then those are a good sign that your ex actually still has feelings for you because they're
thinking about you.
They're wanting to know how your life is turning out.
That's the first sign that your ex still has feelings.
The second sign is that they inconvenience themselves for you so they might go out of
their way to help you in some way.
They might maybe help you move, or they might offer to drive you to a place, they might
have a conversation with you when you're feeling down or they might offer to review your work,
if you're working on some sort of project or something like that.
If your ex is willing to go out of their way to help you in some way, then that means that
they care about you.
That means that they are willing to take you into their life and devote some time, some
energy, some emotional experience towards being there with you.
Okay?
That's definitely a strong sign that they still have feelings for you.
The third sign is if they cut you some slack, right?
We all make mistakes and if maybe you agreed to do something with them at a certain time,
but maybe you forgot the time and you thought it was 5:00, but it was really 4:00 or something
like that and they're willing to cut you some slack.
That's a good sign that they still care about you.
They're not going to just write you off because you made a mistake.
If something like that happens, then it's a strong sign that they're willing to be a
little bit lenient.
They're willing to be a little bit more forgiving.
They're willing to give you another shot.
That's a very good sign that your ex still has feelings for you, maybe even likes you.
Okay?
Because they're willing to go out of the way to continue to keep you in their life.
The next sign is if your ex keeps conversations going, they keep interactions going.
They kind of draw things out a little bit longer than they need to go, or they kind
of keep texting you and keep the dynamic going.
That's a very good sign that your ex still has feelings for you because they actually
enjoy interacting with you to the point where they want to continue letting things unfold.
Now obviously that means that they feel a positive emotional experience towards you,
but you know, even if they have a negative emotional experience and they're willing to
engage with you on something where they're feeling upset, when they're angry at you,
They're maybe even resentful towards you.
If they're willing to engage in that and have that discussion with you, have that conversation
with you.
That means that they still have feelings for you.
Now, the next sign that your ex has feelings for you is if they're wanting to take things
beyond the platonic level, they're willing to go beyond just talking about things in
a friendly sort of way.
Now, if you've seen some of my other videos, you know that you really don't need to worry
about the friend zone, but oftentimes people's exes, we'll try to keep things from going
past the platonic level because they don't want to give their ex false hope.
So your ex probably doesn't know exactly how they feel about you.
They probably don't know if they want to get back together with you right now.
And so because they're uncertain about how the two of you fit into each other's lives,
they don't want to lead you on until they have that degree of certainty.
So oftentimes your ex will try to avoid giving you false hope, but if your ex is willing
to flirt with you, if they're willing to go beyond platonic, if they're willing to talk
about, you know, hey, maybe you should come back to my place, or, you know, maybe we can
talk about getting back together in a year's time or something like that.
And that means that they're not concerned about this false hope thing because there's
a part of their mind that sees you as being in a relationship together with them again,
and they're not afraid to cross that line.
Okay?
So there's definitely a lot of feelings still there in that circumstance.
The sixth sign that your ex still has feelings for you is if they're making plans in the
future and you are in them, okay?
So this means that your ex is mentally thinking about the future, they're thinking about things
that are going to happen in the future, maybe things that are going to go to shows, concerts,
movies, dates, hikes, whatever.
And they're seeing you in that picture.
This means that you mentally speaking, are a part of their future.
They're seeing a future and you are in it.
That means that they want to bring you into their future, okay?
This means that they still have very strong feelings for you.
This means that they maybe even wanting to get back together with you.
This means that you hold a place in their future, at least mentally speaking.
Okay?
And that's a very good sign because it means that, that they care about you enough to keep
you in their life or at least consider keeping you in their life.
And the very last sign, direct still has feelings for you is that they have a lot of strong
emotional reactions towards you.
And of course the hot side of things where, you know, hey, let's get together.
Let's go meet up.
Hey, I think I love you.
Again, I'm not sure my feelings are kind of strange, but I think I'm starting to warm
up.
I think I felt a butterfly.
Of course, all of that stuff is a strong sign that your ex wants you back now on the other
end of the spectrum, your ex might have very strong negative emotions towards you.
And this is a strong sign that they really do have feelings for you because they're responding
in an irrationally negative sort of way.
They might say things like, oh, I never cared about you.
Oh, well, our relation-- I never fell in love with you.
You were a jerk the whole time.
Right?
Now, obviously that's not true.
If the two of you are in a relationship, they obviously cared about you, otherwise they
wouldn't have gotten into the relationship in the first place, and obviously you weren't
a jerk the whole time, otherwise they wouldn't have gotten together with you because nobody
wants to be in a relationship with somebody who's a jerk, right?
If your ex has these irrationally strong "away from" emotions towards you, that's a very
good sign that your ex still has feelings towards you.
They're just masking these positive feelings behind a kind of puffed up suit of armor that
makes them seem impenetrable, like I never cared because I never loved you in the first
place or stuff like that.
It's obviously not true.
That's how it can seem like your ex, might not care about you, but really they still
care about you a lot, so I hope this helped you out.
I hope this gave you some ideas about whether or not your ex has feelings for you.
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Anyway, this has been Clay.
Talk to you in the next video.
Take care.