Hey friends. This is Kirk and Kim. How are you doing? Well hey, we're here at the TV
station. About ready to go on TV and share a really cool gold nugget about
relationship. -Absolutely. You're going to make it such a difference for you and
for the one you love. -So watch closely. This is something you can do today to
make a really big difference. -I gift of touch it's an important part of any
relationship and it helps couples connect on a deeper level. But if you're
struggling with that, Kirk and Kim Duncan can help. You're always to connect more. 3 key elements. We're
talking about the gift of touch today though. -We are. And the reason why we're
talking about this number when it's Valentine's Day. And number 2, in a month
from now, we have a live event here in Salt Lake City called Royalty And
Romance. Man, it helps couples get super saucy is super connected. -Oh. -You just need
that. -Yeah. I mean if you're thinking, "Alright. How do I spice up my life
with my significant other?" You go to something like this and it helps you.
-It's not boring. -No, it's not boring. -Absolute blast. So, what we want to do because today's
Valentine's Day. We want to talk about something that's really important that
you could give here today on Valentine's. -I love that you're touching her. -Because
you guys are touching a lot actually. -Yeah. -I feel like you're always showing
each other affection. And a lot of people have the gift or the love language of
touch. Right? They like it. And others don't know how to do it very well.
-Yeah. -And that's true. -Part of the sharing and loving each
others is you do give each other gifts but one thing to remember is something that
you can give that really sinks in deep to them is literally the gift of touch.
And so today on Valentine's Day, when you're with your sweetie pie or the
one you love, as you give them their gift, then offer this to them: Ask them to give
you their hand and you start to give them a little hand massage.
-I can already see she like so much. -It does so much for the brain. It lets go in and endorphin so
immediately all good. -like just a little... -Squeeze. And when they go, "What are
you doing? I'm going to give you a hand massage." And you will find them smile and
light up and just look at you like, "What are you doing?" It's like. "No, I just want
to touch your hand and just kind of squish your hand a little bit." -And how
long are you doing this? -Like 5 minutes. -5 minutes minutes. -But you
gently you're squeezing hand and you practice giving love through touch. -And
then the other person practices receiving. Sometimes, we want to push that
away and it's so easy to like want to not receive. But it's just open up and
receive and it will really make such a difference in the connection that you
have as a couple. -Do you need to ask them? Do you need to say, "Will you just please
sit here for a minute while I do this? I want you to receive this." -Yes.
-And then the receiver needs to try and o receive. -Yes. -Okay. -How do you receive?
Like just what...? You just sit still, smile... -They just enjoy it? -Enjoy it. -And does the receiver
give one back after? -Absolutely if they want to. -Remember that touch goes further
than the skin. It goes into the heart and it goes into the deep compartments of
the mind. And touch helps you feel accepted. -I know and look. When Kirk
massages my hand, I feel amazing. And I also feel like I matter. And that, that's
important. -It just goes to your core. -Yeah. -It's amazing how something even
very simple can't do so much for what's inside.
-Exactly. -Oh, I love that. Yes. And I used to be like, "Oh, my gosh me, ma." It feels so
good. So, do a little touchy and tickle. -It's our hands or shoulders or... -I even like
this. -Yeah. -The hair. -Just like this it's sweet. Seriously. -I can sit all day today.
Today, people don't feel very accepted and I loved
and this is above and beyond a gift, is the gift of touch. -And it's such
an easy thing to do. It really. And it really so much. Okay, so tell us about the
March conference again. -So, in a month, we're now in the 14th,
it's called royalty no romance. And today for Valentine's special, instead of 197,
it's 97. Register. Surprise your spouse and go, "Hey, let's go."
-Less than $100 to improve your relationship. That's how you register.
You want to register before the end of the day to get that really good deal.
It's March 14th through 16th. And we'll put all the information on our website.
3 key elements. You guys are so wonderful, thank you. Hey my friends, what did you
think about that? -You know you love massages on your hand. -Yes, I do. -What about your
shoulders? -And my shoulders. -What about your feet? -And my feet. -So, you see, if you
just take what you've learned here and apply it. And if you're not a person who
does massages for your spouse, what happens is you just start and they'll
love it. And if you push too hard and it hurts, they'll tell you.
They'll tell you. -Can I just share a little simple secret though?
I will tell you that one of the things that really make such a difference in my
Kirk's relationship is when I know he's stressed out, oh! The simplest thing I can
do. I don't say anything because I don't want to try and fix the situation or
whatever. But I know if I walk in to his office and I just start massaging his
neck, oh! He loves it. Major stress reliever. right. Major... -And it connects
the 2 of us together better. It's just it's amazing. And honestly, I feel like
she cares. -Yeah. -I feel like she cares and that's what matters. -Yep. So, take some
steps, take some action and get started.