How to tell if it’s love or
lust
Number 1.
Fantasies over Dreams You discuss tomorrow night’s plans but not
next month’s events.
You are more focused on fulfilling your fantasies than your dreams together.
That is a huge sign that your bond is limited to physicality and not emotions.
In contrast, love includes discussion about your goals and dreams in life.
When in lust, you hardly care about it.
The main concern of lustful relationship is when are we meeting, on the bed?
Number 2.
SEX-TALK ratio is 80:20 Getting straight to the point, your plans
include meeting horizontally, most of the times.
80% of the times it’s about your place or mine, and the rest is 20% talking which also
includes sex.
Love means your real feelings which can be expressed outside the bed and that is how
people in love behave.
Get it in your head that if you can’t talk about real life with them, it is all about
getting your booty and love is nowhere to be found, not as of now at least!
Number 3.
A lot of fire, but no warmth!
You have the fire to have amazing sex?
But not enough warmth to share your real feelings?
My friend, we should tell you, that the road you are heading on, might take you to the
road of love but at this moment it’s all about lust!
In love, the warmth of your breath is what matters but in lust, hotness of your body
is the concern.
If you can’t cuddle after sex, you know you are not in love!
Number 4.
Looks do Matter It is something that is controversial, but
as a matter of fact, when you are in love, looks hardly matter.
What attracts you more about a person is their thoughts and intelligence and not their structure.
However, in lust, the assets are the main aspect that makes you feel lustful towards
that person.
There are more chances that he is just to get into your pants if you have gorgeous breasts
and a structured ass.
Well if he mentioned the word “love”, you are one of the lucky girls out there.
Number 5.
Sex is on the mind!
ALWAYS!
Nothing matters to a person other than getting laid if it’s a relationship based on passion
exclusively!
You are no exception to this case if he calls you for calling over or making plans for banging
you.
In a relationship full of emotional feelings, plans of a movie or meeting just to have an
ice cream is all that a person needs if sex can’t happen.
Number 6.
Intensity of feelings We have always heard that in love you feel
calm and it turns out that it is actually true!
The rush of volcanoes in your body is only during the initial stages and we all know
it’s just infatuation that makes you feel that way, Once you have taken the leap of
faith and discovered love with that person, you know it’s about being at peace.
Things are the opposite way when we talk about being lustful, you feel so much for the person,
mostly physically!
You are possessive, you think if they are texting someone else, all these thoughts are
exhausting but still, you do it no matter what!
Number 7.
You meet them exclusively Meeting them for fornication needs you two
to be alone.
Even if there is a chance to meet with friends and family, you avoid introducing them.
In such a situation, it is more than clear what your intentions are.
In love, it is about showing off your loved one and making it as public as it can get!
You bring them to every event that involves your family and friends, as that makes you
feel more close to them that way!
Number 8.
You aren’t friends The first rule of love is that you are closest
friends of each other, there is no closer friend than your loved one!
However, the situation is not the same when we talk about a sensual relation between two
people.
They are not friends, just lovers, the lustful ones!
You don’t have a bond of clicking pictures together, you have no traditions like other
couples who are in love.
You just have one mutual deal to break- the bed!
Number 9.
Fewer texts, More sexts Did he just message you?
If it’s mostly about putting his P in your V you should be smart enough to tell that
it is a zone where you guys are with each other just to bang!
Having morning sex for such a couple is fantasy but having breakfast after that is not on
their bucket list.
Yes, there is a possibility that you may lead to the other L road as well but it will take
time!
The reason behind this is that our brain is wired this way that you connect with people
you experience passion and pleasure with.
Number 10.
Conditions Apply!
Meeting your man definitely has some conditions.
For love, the meeting can be for talking, having a meal, making your day better and
even to make love but for lust, the only condition to be fulfilled is, whether sex is on the
table or not?
If shagging is the only reason you try to meet your partner, you can’t question the
thought that is coming to your mind right now!
Which of these signs is more relatable to you?
What is it for you?
LOVE OR LUST?
Tell us in the comment section below.
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