I hate texting on a very visceral level
but sadly it's a reality in today's dating
scene.
And sometimes you sexy Single Ladies send
out a text and he doesn't respond.
Here are three simple steps that you need
to take if you threw that text out there
and you've just
heard crickets.
Hey there out a little chick from sexy
confidence.com where I help you, create
your love story and here are three simple
steps to take if you send out that text
you're throwing out that love out there,
but you know what?
You don't see anything.
The last text is just the one you sent
out.
Step number one is wait seven days.
Don't freak out.
It happened in his life.
I know waiting seven days before reacting
is a really long time in this on-demand
world that we live in but you've got to
take the time.
I mean, from the moment I started writing
this video.
I decided to buy something on Amazon and
by the end of writing this video it was
already delivered to me.
So I get it.
We live in an on-demand Society.
We are so used to getting everything we
want when we want it, but you have to
realize that sometimes **** just comes up
in people's lives.
Last thing you want to do is continue
pounding his phone when he's in the middle
of something very important.
Don't send him what I call the double text
double text sending more than one question
to a person without having gotten a
response to the first question.
He saw your first text.
He didn't respond for a reason and that
reason may be you or it could be that his
grandma is in the hospital.
We don't know just wait seven days go get
a life.
Go do something else.
Text your.
Do whatever you gotta do don't send them
another text for 7 Days step.
Number two on the eighth day.
Give yourself one day to grieve the.
Of this relationship.
Give it a cry call your friends.
Tell him how much you hate guys and that
you're never going to meet another guy
again, and he's just the worst then move
on to either step to be or step 3 step to
be send him the closure text.
Now look if you've only gone out with a
guy once.
And he's now not responding to any texts
don't send them the closer tax just save
yourself a little bit of time and energy
you're not going to get a response.
But if you've been seeing a guy for like
three to six months and you're kind of
like me and you just need this closure
internally, then sure I'm not gonna get
mad at you.
If you want to go ahead and send him that
final word text and this is kind of a fun
little strategy because this text I'm
about to show you actually allows you to
have the last word and be the one who's
actually breaking up with him and the.
Looks like this I don't think this is
gonna work out.
I wish you the best my advice you be the
bigger man or be the bigger woman keep it
positive and end the whole thing on a high
note or even better be the one to break up
with him with that type of text.
It's a little bit of fun and finally step
three is put all of your emotional energy
into finding and meeting new guys some
people when they get rejected, They just
crumble into pieces and decide to give up
on finding love all together others.
However, use that frustration in that
negative energy from that past situation
and turn it into positive energy.
They use that fuel that rejection to fuel
them forward and say, you know what screw
that guy I deserve better.
I'm going to find something better than
him and you know what that does is going
to regret it when he sees me out and about
with my incredible boyfriend my incredible
husband, and he's going to be thinking of
himself,
**** should have responded to that text.
So stop wasting your emotional energy on
that guy who didn't respond to your text.
Put it all into getting back out there set
a goal for that upcoming weekend go out
and meet at least three to five guys not
given weekend that you go out and you
know, what good things will happen good
things will come and if you want a little
more tips on how to be able to text guys
when to text them what to text then head
on over to love texting.com.
You can be able to download three free
texts that are going to help you through a
few dating situations be able to spark a
little interest in the new guy that you
need.
This old Bud.
They've already lost.
And also, of course if you want any
resources that will help you through every
single stage of dating love and
relationships head on over to sexy
confidence.com where we have a ton of
amazing stuff.
I hope you through so many of these
ridiculous phases in this ridiculous
dating world.
We all find ourselves in.
So thank you so much for watching and I'll
speak to you you sexy single lady next
week.
Bye.