- If you were to do exactly what I share
with you in this video,
it will completely reverse the energy dynamic
where instead of repelling them,
instead of them running away
as a natural byproduct of chasing them,
the energy will be magnetic
to where then the energy comes towards you.
And in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly what to do.
Now, the first thing to realize
is that if he is running,
then that means someone is chasing.
That's the energy dynamic to first off become aware of
because people respond to us
based on the energy we are putting out.
So the energy of somebody running away
is because someone is chasing,
someone chasing is having the energy that is very repelling.
It's almost like people are playing according,
not necessarily to the games we play but,
I used this analogy before,
but if you imagine a dog and you start chasing a dog,
the dog is gonna start running from you.
It's gonna start playing with you, normally,
and what happens is that becomes like a game in a way
and that is the energy dynamic that's at play.
Now, realize that really attracting love
and having magnetic energy,
it's about feeling the energy inside of yourself,
of feeling whole, feeling complete, feeling magnetic
and really activating your heart center.
And when you activate your own heart center
your energy field literally goes out even further
than it would if you were just remaining in your head.
And that's why there's different elements
of your own energy that if you begin to harness
will completely transform the way you show up in the world
and how magnetic your energy is.
Now, one of the things that happens though
is when we are projecting energy out at somebody else,
they feel that because we're thinking about them.
Think about that, when we talk about chasing
and if he's running, the energy you feel
when you think about him is energy
that is going towards him.
So if the energy is, I wish he would do this,
I wish he would come to me,
I feel that lack inside my body,
because there's an intention to control the dynamic
and you're thinking of him,
it's almost like thinking of him is the location
the energy is going wherever he is in the world.
So you're feeling, I lack, I lack, I lack, I lack,
you're sending him that lack energy
and he's feeling that repelled energy.
And the thing is
is it's not necessarily, I mean, from one perspective
you could look at that and be like, okay,
well instead I'm gonna like soothe
the way I think about him.
And I'm only gonna think positive thoughts about him
but if there's an attachment to the control
of how this person is reacting, they're gonna feel
that resistance because people don't like that energy.
So what I recommend doing instead
is instead of sending the location of them
and sending them energy,
pull your energy back,
pull your energy back.
That's one of the most powerful ways
to retain your own magnetic energy.
And
this is something that energetically,
'cause we have in a way, we do,
we have free will in this reality
and if we're projecting our energy at somebody else,
it's like our energy's leaving us
and we're feeling less potency.
But if we pull our energy back,
then what happens is we end up bringing it back to us
to where then we can harness that energy ourselves.
So one of the other dynamics of this though
that I recommend that gets a little bit deeper on this
is realizing that maybe we have a pattern from childhood
of projecting our energy at somebody else
and trying to create safety through sending energy,
through controlling our environment.
And when we pull our energy back,
we're also in a way stopping a cycle
because the cycle might be
that I'm going to abandon myself
to make others happy.
I'm gonna abandon myself to make someone else happy
and hopefully get their validation and approval
so that I can feel safe.
And what that really is
is it's like an abandonment issue.
It's feeling like the fear of being rejected.
Sometimes, a lot of times this kind of personality
as well like the people pleasing personality,
it has trouble being the most authentic self,
even a polarizing self
because it wants to make everyone else happy.
So one of the things to do
is to bring the energy back
to stop abandoning the self
and to start being
the most authentic version of you
because that is the most magnetic.
Now, when we talk about
the most magnetic version of you too,
it's important to understand that the energy
you're embodying is being emanated out.
And if you wanna find a one-on-one reflection
of somebody that would resonate with you at a deep level,
it's important to understand,
how are you showing up in the world?
And by that, I mean, are you doing what you love?
Are you passionate about your life?
Because if not, you will meet somebody else
that is also not passionate about their life most likely
and tends to be a one-on-one reflection.
So the key to this is
instead of focus on chasing,
the energy should be brought within
and focused on the self.
Have you ever noticed the people that really,
really wanna attract love
normally create a lot of resistance
and they really, really want it
which means they really, really lack it?
You hardly hear people are like, yeah,
I really, really really wanted love
and then I really, really was looking for it
then I really, really found it.
How often do you hear that?
Not that often
because normally it's when people let go
of the outcome and they're not even looking,
they're just being
that then they're in the right spot at the right time.
They're with their friends out and they meet somebody.
They just so happen to run into somebody
or they reconnect with someone like...
This energy is something that happens
when you are in a being state, when you're being present
because one of the most magnetic qualities
about you is when you are present,
when you're not trying to live in the future or the past
and you are embodying who you are
because it's who you are, not because of what it'll get you.
'cause sometimes people hear this
and they're like, okay, what I'm gonna do
is I'm gonna be this specific way.
I'm gonna be present to the energy.
I'm gonna meditate and then I'm gonna go out
and I'm gonna focus on attracting love.
But it's more so about doing it for you,
being that energy because it's who you choose to be
and being present to the moment.
I know for myself anytime I focus on something
that I want whether that's abundance
or growing on YouTube or whatever it is,
if the intention is on the outcome,
it has a very different energy than when I do it
just because I love it, because I wanna enjoy the process.
There's a difference in the energy
that you can literally feel.
So one of the things I highly recommend
is looking at what you're attached to
and also becoming aware of why do you think
you're attached to it.
Why would you be chasing somebody else?
What do you believe?
This will help you, this might help you a lot right here,
what I'm about to say,
what you believe this person will bring you,
the meaning you give into this person that you're chasing,
you believe that this meaning thing
you believe that the person is actually the thing
that you're chasing but really,
it's the meaning you're giving that person.
You may be believing and give it a meaning
that this person's gonna help you heal from,
subconsciously gonna heal from childhood.
Or it feels very familiar,
this energy feels familiar to mom and dad growing up.
So in a way we're trying to heal
the familiar patterns of childhood.
We may believe that they are
going to help subconsciously validate us.
And that belief is what we're actually,
that meaning is what,
is the most challenging thing to let go of.
And a lot of times is mixed though
because there's an end result.
It's like, I must have this person as my husband
or wife or whatever it is.
And it's like this, all this pressure
and pressure creates resistance.
So one of the most powerful things to do
is to pull your energy back
and to become aware if you're putting someone on a pedestal
because when you put someone on a pedestal,
you create something called excess meaning,
excess potential.
And when it is natural for you to attract love,
it's not on a big pedestal and it's also not down here,
it's just natural for you.
And when you're being yourself
and you're in your heart center,
and you're activating that energy,
it is extremely powerful.
Now when we talk about excess potential as well,
this will also completely change the energy dynamic.
When it comes to chasing
and just being in your magnetic frame,
magnetic frame of reality, your body,
it also means being in your body,
the question I have to ask you is
'cause this, for a long time,
I was doing the opposite of this,
is are you the star of your own movie?
Are you the star of your own movie?
Because when we're chasing,
we're then playing the cameo role.
We're trying to get the attention of the star.
And remember if you treat someone like a celebrity,
they're gonna treat you like a fan
or they're gonna treat you like a cameo.
Now, the thing I recommend you do
is to pull your energy back
and to recognize your star role.
Now this isn't like an ego thing,
a narcissist thing where it's like, okay,
I'm the center of the universe
and I'm the director and I'm this and I'm that,
it's more so being aware though
that you are the star of your own movie.
Not that narcissism is when you're the star
of everyone's movie.
You're the star of your own movie
and normally what I found
that really changed a lot for me when it come
to having magnetic energy
is prior to me going through my transformation
a year or two ago, I would value,
so my sense of values,
values are like virtues we live by
that make up our sense of identity.
My virtues and my values
were the ones given to me when I was younger.
So I would value people's validation.
I would value making other people happy.
I would value these things over my own authenticity,
over vulnerability.
And what I eventually realized
is that was like a shadow part of myself
that was trying to get my needs met from childhood.
And when I realized this, I then started to wire in
values I chose, which is vulnerability, authenticity,
being bold, not being attached to outcome,
these are values that I then
had a certain level of integrity.
I had to live it.
I had to exist in reality in that way
because it's who I choose to be.
That changed everything.
And what we'll find is that
if we're chasing somebody else, we might value validation.
We might value
certain things, what people think of us,
over who we actually are.
So when you start living to certain values too,
it's very magnetic and attractive
because it's almost like you're living according
to your own set of rules in a way
versus being and tagging into other people's frame.
So this really changes a lot when we talk about this energy.
And when it comes to magnetic energy,
when it comes to all of this,
it's really about awareness of the energy
and choosing to have magnetic energy
because it's who you are.
Now with that being said,
I'm gonna make sure this video goes out,
I think on Monday or Tuesday.
But the reason being is that we have
a 21-Day Confidence Love Challenge coming up.
This is 21 days to a more confident you
that has you more magnetic than ever,
for releasing codependent patterns,
becoming aware of the attachment styles
and letting those go and becoming more secure,
becoming more emotionally available
and stop attracting emotionally unavailable people.
I did a magnetic love challenge a year ago,
this is in a way some similar concepts
but it's a completely new challenge
and the focus is confidence.
So removing the fear, the anxiety,
the judgment that we have around ourselves
and in the insecurity so that we can be confidently
who we came here to be to attract love easier than ever.
So if you wanna join the Confidence Love Challenge,
today is the best day to join
'cause I'm gonna have this go out
when the three bonuses go away,
So a day before the bonuses go away.
So if you wanna join, go ahead
and go to confidencelovechallenge.com
or click the link in the description box below.
And then also the next most powerful video to watch
after this video is the three ways to become so irresistible
that they never want to leave.
Watch this video right here.
In this video,
I'm gonna show you the three easy ways to get it
so where you have irresistible energy
so that people don't leave you.
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