Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to tell if a girl likes you signs she is flirting
with you. Okay, have you ever been in that situation where you think maybe she's flirting
with you but you don't know? And the last thing you want to do is make things awkward
or uncomfortable, right? Have you ever been there? Do you know what that feels like? Then this video
is going to be a huge relief for you. But not only am I going to share with you how to tell if a girl
likes you and the signs that she's flirting with you, but I'm also going to share with you one of
the biggest mistakes you must avoid when a woman flirts with you. So you need to make sure you know
what to do. So make sure you pay close attention and watch to the end. Now before we dive in,
if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm
a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your
dreams. And the best part is as a certified coach, what I teach you is based on science
not mind games. So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs
up. If you saw this video on signs she likes you, you know that one of the ways a woman pursues you
is by flirting with you. And I asked you guys in that video if you wanted a video on signs she's
flirting with you so you can tell. And you guys loved the idea, you said you wanted it,
so here we are today. But if you have not yet seen that video on the sign she likes you and how women
pursue there is a link in the description below. Make sure you watch it, it's insanely helpful. So
with that, let's talk about how to tell if a girl likes you and the signs she's flirting with you.
The first sign is if she touches you. Women touch men they are attracted to. As humans,
that's just kind of what we do, right? Now she may do it kind of playfully. It may not look
super obvious. She may give you a little playful shove. She might bump up against you a little bit.
When she's talking to you she might touch your arm and then, you know, off and on with with her
hand. She may give you a hug. It may feel super super natural. Maybe every time she sees you she
gives you a big hug. She might sit close to you so that you touch if you sit next to each other.
It's probably not going to be super obvious but if you start paying attention to it
and you notice she touches you frequently, dude, that's a really good sign that she's flirting
with you. This is actually one of the most common ways that women flirt with men. So pay attention
for if she touches you. The next thing you need to know about how to tell if a girl
likes you and if she's flirting with you is that she hints that you are cute.
What is flirting? Like if we break it down and we just sum it up really simple? What flirting
is is it's basically saying, "Hey, you're cute, and I'm cute, and, you know, we should get to
know each other better." That's all flirting really is. And so if she's flirting with you
she's going to be hinting that you are cute. She's probably not going to just boldly tell you, "Hey,
you're cute." That would feel awkward because she doesn't know how you feel about her etc. etc.
So she's probably going to be more subtle about it and hint that she is interested
and hint that she thinks you're cute. This is a good way to let you know she's interested
without making things awkward. Now how is she going to do that? What is it going to look like
if she's hinting that she thinks you're cute? It could be something as simple as, let's pretend you
say, "Holy cow, I am hot." And she says, "Yeah, I know, I noticed." Or she might mention you got
a new haircut and, "Hey, did you get your hair cut? It looks really nice." Or, "Wow,
that shirt really makes your eyes pop." If she is drawing positive attention to the way you look
she's hinting that you're cute, okay? She is flirting. Okay, before we get to the other signs
I want to mention that big mistake that I told you I was going to teach you about. One of the biggest
mistakes that men make when they see the signs that a woman is flirting with them, I have so many
men come to me and they're like, "Melannie, I saw the signs that she was interested and
it didn't go good at all. Like she ghosted me or she rejected me I think maybe she was toxic." And
I'm like, "Well that's possible. Tell me what happened." And they explained what they said,
how the situation went, and I, oh dear, she's not toxic. She felt awkward, she felt embarrassed,
and the attraction died. She maybe even was creeped out. This has actually happened to
me before. For instance, several years ago I was at a dance because I love to dance and I saw this
guy across the room and I was like, "Shut up, he's really attractive. That's the kind of guy I want
to go out with." And so I flirted from across the room and he picked up on the signal and he
approached me, asked me to dance. And we started talking, and he was a competent guy in so many
areas, but some things he said made me feel stupid and they made me feel awkward, they made me feel
embarrassed, and I could not wait for that dance to be over, you guys. I felt so uncomfortable. And
I never wanted to dance with him again and I never wanted to go out with him. So the biggest mistake
that men make when they see these signs that she's flirting with them is they don't have a game plan.
They don't know what to say. Again, like the guy I danced with, he thought he knew exactly what to
say, he thought he knew exactly what to do, but he didn't. So do not assume that you just know
what to say and what to do. You need to make sure instead of just assume. I have a free masterclass
for you that's going to teach you about that game plan. You need an effective game plan. And that's
going to teach you about those skills. So check out the link in the description below so that when
you flirt with a girl and when she flirts with you it's like amazing and fun and you can attract
her and you can get that dream girl instead of it ending in rejection and being super super
awkward. Because you deserve to instead just get the girl, right? So make sure you click the link
in the description below. I'll also put a link in the pinned comment. Make sure you watch that free
masterclass so you can be successful. Sound good? This is how you make sure you keep the attraction
alive instead of it dying like it did for me that night that I wish I could forget. Okay, next thing
you need to know about how to tell if she likes you and a sign that she is flirting with you is
if she hints that she is cute. Okay, we already talked about how she'll hint that you're cute,
but if she's flirting with you she wants you to notice that she's cute too. Now there are various
ways she could do this. She may draw attention to how she dressed, maybe she has a new outfit and
she thinks she looks really cute in it. Or she may draw attention to her hair or something like that.
Basically if she's trying to get you to notice her in a positive way it's because she's trying
to leave the door wide open for you to notice she's cute and compliment her and
flirt back. If she's trying to get you to notice she looks nice or maybe get you to say that she
looks nice she is flirting with you. So is this making sense so far? Are you enjoying this video?
If you would like more videos like this one on flirting and signs she's flirting with you
make sure you comment "flirt" in the comments below to let me know. And I'm also thinking about
doing a video, now that we've we have a video on signs she's flirting with you, would you like a
video on how to flirt with her effectively so you're successful when you flirt with her? If
you would like that, again, comment "flirt" down below so that I know. Tell me your thoughts in the
comments. It helps me so much. Thank you! Okay, the next thing you need to know about how to tell
if a girl likes you is if she goes out of her way to do nice things for you or to interact with you
she's probably flirting. For instance, does she ever just do nice things for you that she doesn't
have to do? Maybe she just randomly brings donuts or something like that. Unless you are her boss
and she's trying to get a raise, it's probably because she's flirting with you. The same is true
if she just finds ways to interact with you, to be where you are, to happen to be working on the same
thing you're working on. If she's looking for ways to interact with you and do nice things for you
she's flirting. Next up on how to tell if a girl likes you is if she asks for your help.
Now I want to be careful with this because toxic women will use and abuse this while a classy
woman uses it as a way to flirt. For instance, a classy woman she'll do kind of like the cliche,
"Hey, this is super heavy. Would you help me move it?" She's doing it to break the ice.
She's doing it to get your attention. She's doing it for a way for her to talk to you,
okay? So if she's asking for your help with little things that's completely appropriate and it's a
way for her to flirt and get to know you better, get you to notice her. What is not healthy and
what is actually toxic and a sign she's using you is if she asks for really big things. If she asks
for money, if she wants you to send her gift cards so she can she keep chatting with you online,
if she asks you to pay for her car repairs, things like that, that can be a massive
sign that she is using you. You want to avoid that. But if it's something little like, "Hey,
there's this really heavy box and I can't move it. Would you maybe help me with that?"
that's her flirting. Okay, let's sum up what you have learned so far about how to tell if a girl
likes you and the signs that she is flirting with you. First up is that she touches you.
When we like people we touch them, right? So she might playfully shove you, she might hug you,
whatever it is, if you notice that she touches you frequently that's a good sign that she's
flirting. She's flirting. Next up, she hints that you are cute. Again, at its core flirting is,
"Hey, I'm cute. Hey, you're cute. Let's get to know each other better." So if she's flirting
she's trying to hint that you are attractive. Now this leads us to the next sign and way to
tell that she's flirting with you and that is that she hints that she's cute. She wants you to notice
that she's cute. The next thing you need to know about how to tell if a girl likes you is that
she'll go out of her way to do nice things with you and interact with you. It's a really really
common way that a girl flirts. She's trying to get your attention. And the next thing is when she
asks you for help. Again, you want to make sure these are little things not big things. You don't
want her to take advantage of you. Now remember what I mentioned about the biggest mistake
you can make when a girl flirts with you. Please please please, I have so many men come to me
disappointed and hurt and I don't want that for you as well. You need to make sure you have that
game plan. You'll learn more about that in my free masterclass so click the link in
the description below right now and watch it. It's totally free, no matter what time of the
night or day you can watch it immediately. So check it out. Thank you so much for watching,
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Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Hello
my wonderful friend! Today's video is on signs- Nope. It's not. Well, kind of it is. -make things
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