- Whoo hoo hoo.
- Slowly falling into the hole, oh my god.
- We broke the bed.
- Are we rolling?
- We really broke this bed, in like,
the least sexual way possible too.
Jen are you ready?
- Yeah.
- Hey what's up you guys, it's ladylike,
and we're comin' at ya with another IDK.
- Whoo whoo whoo!
- We don't know!
- Today we're talking about
- [All] Crushes.
- How to get them, how to find them,
and how to make sure you don't get anything from them.
(laughing)
- Cooties.
- Let's do it.
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How can you tell if someone likes you?
When I like someone, I go out of my way to run into them.
- They return your calls, they text you back?
- Yeah.
They wanna hang out with you
as much as you wanna hang out with them.
- I'll be like, oh, you were gonna go see this movie
at 8:10 p.m., wow, here I am.
- More compliments than usual.
- If they touch your upper arm, if they're just like,
"Hi, how are you doing?"
- Yeah.
- A girl I liked in high school,
I just sat next to her every day at lunch
and slowly but surely leaned in
(snickering)
to like her shoulder, and then one day she leaned back,
and I was like, "Oh, okay!"
We're dating now.
What's your best pickup line?
- Let's rearrange the alphabet,
so I can put "U" and "I" together.
- I can tell you one that didn't work for me.
"Hey, I just wanted to let you know that
I think you're really attractive,
here's my AIM screen name."
And I wrote my AIM screen name on his hand with a pen
that I had brought with me and then I walked away
and I thought I had nailed it.
And it never worked out.
- Shanti doesn't have pickup lines,
she's just very straightforward and you just,
you know what you want and you just make it known.
- I mean that's pretty much it.
- It works.
Has it not worked though?
How do you know if a nice guy likes you?
What if you take it as flirting,
but they're just being nice?
- If you really can't tell
if they're being nice or being flirty
than you should be 100% flirtier.
- Just grab their face.
- Yeah.
And caress it.
- It took me until maybe like six months ago
to be aware that I was a flirty person.
I was floored when I found this out.
When people were telling me I was like,
"Oh I think I'm just like, nice."
And people were like,
"You are the biggest flirt that I know."
When I liked someone I knew hands-down that I liked them.
And so there was never any question in their mind
if I liked them.
If they have a boyfriend or a girlfriend,
they're just being nice, they don't like you.
How old were you when you had your first crush?
- There was a boy in my kindergarten class,
his name was Kelly.
And I used to have dreams that he was a mermaid.
- Aw.
- And that's how I knew that it was love.
- Love, yeah.
- Rocky, from the cartoon Rocky and Bowinkle.
- The squirrel?
- Interesting.
- Yeah, the squirrel.
- I mean I definitely had my fair share of animated crushes.
One of them being Aladdin.
- Oh.
- Oh yeah.
- Also Simba.
- Oh yeah Simba.
- Simba was so fine.
- I just remember my first crush,
when we were in third grade,
she always got pulled out of class to go to advanced math,
and every time she walked by her hair would bounce.
Nine year old me was like,
"she's smart and she has bouncy hair."
How do you deal with unrequited love?
- When I was little I really thought there was
something romantic about pining,
but it really just made me more miserable.
- Time is the best thing.
Time and distance.
- Time, yeah.
- And she's getting married.
- I am getting married to someone I love
and am attracted to.
Like, so not all crushes are gonna be unrequited forever.
- When I was younger I used to just
torture myself constantly by like,
seeing if their minds would change,
- Yeah.
- And like, writing poems,
- Mm hmm.
- Listening to Evanescence,
and they might like you as a person
but if they're not like, into you
you can't really change their mind.
- If you're in my life and you're making me sad, mad,
frustrated or just generally unhappy,
I shouldn't be putting myself around you.
- Crushes.
- They're a thing.
(laughs)
- That happen.
- To you.
- Know what you deserve and allow yourself to get that.
- Hey y'all, click on that playlist over there
to see more videos from our channel.
- Some of our favorites are in there.
- And some we like just okay.
- But watch anyway.
- Because we love you.
- Yeah.
We love you.
- I'm sleepy.
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