- Now, dating in your twenties
is very different than dating in your forties, fifties
and sixties and beyond.
Now, when you date in your twenties
you have absolutely no clue what it is
that you are going to do with your life
and you are also driven by this insatiable hunger
to get out there
and meet new people.
And before you know
you are going on these long sexcapades
where you don't even know
who the person is that's sitting in the bed next to you
and you look over
and you think, do I even like this person?
And then you wake up one day
and you are married,
you are completely blinded by all the hormones.
And then once you get to your forties and beyond
maybe you've gone through a divorce
or some really painful heartbreak.
And now you have a little bit more of a clear head
that you can bring to your love life.
You are more established, you know what you want,
and for us men our testosterone levels
tend to dissipate a little bit
which means we are no longer just completely driven
by our sex drive.
So naturally this means
that older guys tend to be interested
in different things in a woman than younger guys.
So in this video, I'm gonna be revealing to you
the three qualities that men over 40
are looking for in a woman, keep watching.
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Now, when I talk about the three things
that older guys are looking for in a woman,
the first two are completely backed by data
and then the third one is backed by my personal experience
having coached many men
on how to get there
and flirt and meet you.
Yes, you, see before I was a dating coach for women
I actually used to coach men
and a lot of my clients happened to be in that age range
forties, fifties and sixties.
So let's jump right into it,
the first thing that men over 40
are looking for, is intelligence.
The online dating site called Zoosk
actually did in a complete analysis
of over 600,000 online dating profiles created by men.
And what they did is scanned it,
scan these profiles looking for different trigger words.
And what they found is that
men as they get older
they use words such as I'm looking for a smart woman
or I'm looking for an intelligent woman,
they care more about that as they get older.
And it makes sense
if you are an intelligent guy
you wanna be with someone
on the same intellectual level as you are.
And you probably feel the exact same way
as an intelligent woman yourself.
The second quality that guys over 40
are really looking for is a nurturing woman.
Men in their forties,
want someone who's kind, who's caring
who's soft, who can ultimately just be a best friend.
And I think this is because as you get older
the relationship is just less so focused on sexual chemistry
and friendship becomes kind of the cornerstone
of the partnership between the two of you.
Now, of course that doesn't mean
that people don't want sex.
And sex isn't great in your forties, fifties, sixties
and beyond certainly
but it just means that
I think people become more pragmatic
as they are getting older
and they've realized that 99% of the time
that you spend with your partner
is spent not having sex, okay?
And it is spent as a friend
and enjoying your time together.
And men just naturally
are looking for that nurturing kind caring woman
that they can spend time with.
And finally, the third quality
that men are looking for
and is based on my own personal experience
having coached men in the past.
The third quality is youthfulness.
Now, I know what you are thinking,
I'm not saying that you need to be young
in order to be youthful.
Being youthful is just a mindset,
it is a type of energy that you bring to the table,
bring to the relationship, bring to the conversation.
And if you can come to a conversation
or a date with that exuberant, incredible youthful energy
where you're curious
or excited to see him,
you are excited to get to know him further.
These are the types of qualities
men are really looking for in a woman
because most guys
who are in their forties, fifties and beyond.
Just like you
they are probably going on a lot of dates.
And a lot of women
who are in that age group
tend to be a little bit more jaded,
they tend to be very serious daters,
they go into the date in that interview mode
and if you can differentiate yourself
by bringing that youthful,
excited, curious energy to the table
I assure you men will be deeply attracted to you.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments below
what quality are you most attracted to
in men over the age of 40?
Leave that comment right there below.
And if you are finally ready to get out there
and attract long lasting love
I have a free training for you
that's gonna teach you
what we call the seven little love steps
to attracting the man in the relationship you truly deserve.
I'll leave a link to that training
in the comments right there below
or anywhere on this page.
Thank you so much for watching,
I'll speak to you.
You sexy single lady next week, bye-bye.