Trip Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. What happens if you
are talking to a girl and she says she has a boyfriend? Specifically in the time
period where you first meet her. That initial interaction. Well here's
what's happening. When the girl says she has a boyfriend,
there's one of two things happening. Either one she actually has a boyfriend
or two she's just saying that to you because unfortunately a lot of women are
nervous and don't know how to reject a guy. It's a very easy way to
just say okay let's get this guy out of here cuz I say I have a boyfriend that
means that he has no chance. That's her way of saying shoo. There are
three different scenarios where this might happen.
I want to go over each one of those so you know what to do when she says "I'm
sorry. I got a boyfriend." The first scenario is when you go up to a girl and
you go to approach her and in literally the first three seconds, she goes "Sorry I
have a boyfriend." This could happen at the bar. A lot of these times it
happens when you approach a girl during the day. You go up to her and she's like
"Oh sorry. I have a boyfriend" because she knows that you're trying to hit on her
and pick her up or get her number. So she'll say that. In that case, what
do you do? In that case, I would just walk away. There's nothing to say there,
there's nothing to do. This girl doesn't want to have anything to do with you and
I don't know why you'd want to sit there and try to work so hard to get this girl
to pay attention to you when she's obviously like "I really don't want
to talk to this guy." Or she actually has a boyfriend and she's
telling you the truth. She's letting you know "Alright this is not
gonna happen between us. Goodbye." What I would do is just walk
away. Don't bother. Don't try to learn any funny lines or anything that's gonna
help get you in there. Just move on. There's another scenario where she says
"I have a boyfriend." This happens maybe midway through
your interaction with the girl. Let's say you go up to a girl, you guys
are talking, you're hitting it off and she's having a good time.
You're like "Whoa. I think I have a chance here.
I think this girl is attracted. I think this is working.
I'm building that tension. She's interested but then all of a sudden she
says "I have a boyfriend." This is one of those cases where I would say nine times
out of ten, she actually has a boyfriend.
Why? Because you can tell. She's enjoying the interaction. She's
not trying to get you to leave so why else would she say I have a boyfriend?
I would assume that she means it. So if she is having a good
interaction with you, you guys are enjoying each other, you're picking up on
those signs that she's interested, but then she's like ah, once you go
for her number. You're like "Let's hang out sometime. Let me grab your number.
Or let's grab some coffee right now. Let's hang out. Or you're at the bar and you're
like "Let me get your number" and she she's like "I'm sorry. I have a boyfriend."
Like she feels bad having to say it to you well she actually has a
boyfriend. And at that point again, I would say nothing, do nothing, just move
on, there's nothing you could do. I would say this though. One thing to
prevent this and getting into conversations with women where all of
a sudden you're like oh no I've been talking her for 25 minutes and she's just being
friendly but yet she has a boyfriend is you need a flirt sooner. Don't
wait 45 minutes to get her number.
Don't wait 45 minutes to try to bounce her around the bar or to try to take her
on an instant date and get some coffee somewhere. Try that sooner in the
interaction. You want to go for a number or bounce her somewhere at least
like 15 minutes in the interaction if it's going well. So make sure
you prevent that going into conversations with women who have boyfriends
by flirting sooner. Here is the third case and this happens quite a bit.
You're talking to a girl and you're not really sure if it's going well or not
yet like if she's sort of interested but she's sort of not. Like you're still
trying to see if she's interested in you yet. Because what I talk about mainly
in my program Hooked is when you're displaying your personality, when you're
getting a girl attracted, it takes more time. A guy knows a lot faster
whether or not he wants to be with a woman generally speaking than a woman
does. She needs to get to know you and see some of your more behavioral
traits to see if she's actually attracted to. Like are you this guy who's
masculine and "alpha" so to speak and that takes more time.
Let's say you're talking to a girl, you're doing this and maybe like three
or four minutes in, she all of a kind of gets disinterested and says "I have a
boyfriend" like kind of out of nowhere without you even trying to get her number
or doing much flirting. At this level I would say there's a good chance
we'll say it's a 50/50 chance that she actually has a boyfriend or doesn't.
Like you're not sure. Then at this point what I want you to do is test
her a little bit, like tease her. You say "Oh you have a boyfriend. Cool. What's his name?
What does he do?" See how fast she responds to it and whether or
not she responds, fast or slow, doesn't really matter. Just kind of tease her a
little bit for it as if you're kind of questioning whether she's telling the
truth and then switch topics immediately and keep talking to her. Because
what you need to do is stay in the interaction because she actually maybe
doesn't have the attraction for you yet and she needs more time so maybe
something happened where she just like wants to get away from you or it's not
working out. So I want you to push. I want you to actually stay there and keep
talking to her and try to continue to build attraction because sometimes a
woman needs more time. She might kind of like half reject you by saying she has a
boyfriend but is still single because she's lying and you
continue the interaction. You guys keep talking for a while then maybe 10
or 15 minutes in you're like "But seriously we should hang out sometime.
Do you actually have a boyfriend? I don't think you do" and then she'll say "No I
really have a boyfriend." Okay goodbye nice to meet you. Or she's like "No I don't
actually have a boyfriend." And you're like cool. And don't give her shit for it. Just
play past it. You don't want to make it too weird or awkward.
Just say "Okay cool we should hang out sometime." So that's the
part where you want to continue and ploy so to speak in terms of you
moving forward and not giving up so fast.
If meeting girls and actually doing this approach is very hard for you, I teach
this all in my program Hooked and I want you to learn about that right now.
What's going on man? If you are watching this right now that means that
you are struggling with meeting and dating women and probably not just any
women, but the ones that you're really attracted to. Those ones that you really
want. Not the ones that you just want to settle with because that's what you
think you can get. And listen, I totally get it. I totally get it. I was there once
too. I was a very very shy guy. A very nerdy guy who really only settled with
what I could get. But now I'm at the point where I've really discovered and
tapped into some of the secrets in terms of being able to meet and attract the
women that are anywhere. I'm talking on the street, during the day, maybe at a bar
or club or at night, anytime. And this is something that I really want to share
with you. And you can do it too. A lot of guys they just don't think that
they have it in them and they think they need a lot of money, they
need to be really good-looking guys like actor model looking guys to be
able to get the types of girls they want. But let me tell you, this is not true.
I've helped guys all over the world be able to get the women that they
really want and the secret to doing it is really all about your vibe and your
personality and the way that you display that with a woman and I talk all about
this in my program called Hooked. What Hooked is is a video course that really
breaks down what attraction is to a science. You need to understand how
attraction really works because you probably have it all wrong right now. You probably
think, like I said, you need a lot of money or looks or some kind of status or
be some sort of celebrity to get the kinds of women that you want. But it's
not true. You need to understand how to tap into attraction by understanding how
to break it down to a science. And I've done that for you in this program. But
that's not all. What you need to learn is not only what attraction is but
how do you apply it? How do you make it part of you? How do you make it part of
the person that you are so you can display your personality and your vibe
out wherever you are to meet and attract the girls that you want. And I have some
great techniques and I have an amazing step-by-step system basically.
It's just like you watch the beginning, go all the way to the end,
follow what I say, apply it and then it starts to work for you. This is an entire
video course teaching you exactly what to do with any girl you meet any time.
It doesn't matter if you're looking for a relationship or you're looking for just
casual sex, one-night stands or if you're looking for a specific type of
relationship. Or maybe it's just she's your friend but you guys sleep
together and that's it. It doesn't matter what you're looking for because
attraction works the same way. It's all about how you apply it and so that's
what's all inside of Hooked and I want you to check it out. All you got to do is
go to www.getherhooked.com. Go to that link. I'll put a description down below and
you can see it right here on the screen. Go to www.getherhooked.com so you can
learn more about this and get your hands on this program and it's so affordable.
I want to get it into the hands of as many guys as possible so check it out.
www.getherhooked.com com. Learn this system, what it takes. It doesn't matter if you're
shy or you're short or you're bald or you think you're this big nerd.
I've been able to help all types of guys be able to tap into that attraction and
be able to create that vibe with any woman they meet and it's happened over
and over and over again. So don't forget to check out
www.getherhooked.com so you can see what it can do for you.