Hey, welcome back. Coach Mossab here with another video in this one we're gonna talk about
what to text a girl if she's not responding. So she's no longer responding, what do you
do to get a re-engage, that's what we're gonna cover here. Stay tuned.
So when it comes to texting a girl, there's a few things to know. In this video the first thing we're
going to cover is why she's not responding in the first place then after that, I'm going to cover a
few things that you can text texture to get her responding back again and then after that I'll
finish off by showing you how you can prevent this from happening again in the first place,
how to hook her consistently so that she doesn't stop responding to you. So, start off with knowledge
about why she's not responding to you in the first place. So you exchange numbers, you're
texting each other and then she stops responding, what are some reasons for this? So, the first one
is that her attraction is simply not high enough from the interaction that you had beforehand. So
especially if you're trying to get numbers really quickly, you're not establishing that
good conversation before you exchange numbers, she's gonna be a lot more prone to just
having a polite conversation and then sort of just blowing you off or ghosting you through text. If
her attraction is not high enough, she's not gonna be invested enough to continue a conversation with
a stranger that she really doesn't know and is not attracted to. Makes a lot of sense for her to
just politely put you down or stop responding all together. The easiest thing to do about this
is to simply have a stronger interaction before you exchange contacts. There's something I talk
about a lot on this channel because something a lot of guys do is to rack up a bunch of numbers
that really don't lead anywhere. So, they're maybe scared of the interaction or they're
just hoping it goes well and they just want to get to the numbers so they can get out of there
but they're not really taking the time to make sure the girl will even want to see them again. So
if they're not having that solid interaction, she's not going to, right? She's not going to want to.
Now number two is that maybe she was attracted in the beginning, but you didn't strike while the iron
is hot. So, the reason to exchange contacts is to get her and yourself out on a date. If you don't do
that and you maybe exchange contacts a month ago and you're still texting, you're just having this
conversation on the phone because maybe you're scared to ask her out or for whatever reason you
just haven't yet, first of all gonna be distracted she's probably talking to other guys and she's not
going to be as inclined to go out anymore, right? If you had asked her maybe the day or two after
you exchange the contacts and set something up immediately and struck while the
iron was hot, you would have had a much better result than now where it's completely fizzled
out. So, attraction is very highest when you first interact, when you first meet and when you first
exchange contacts and as time goes on, that's it's very quickly going to wear off. So if you don't
strike while the other one's hot, you're going to lose that opportunity to get her out on a date
and continue building attraction and comfort with her. But now what can you do to get her to respond
or to get her to come out with you after she's stopped responding? Now the first thing you can do
is to figure out a solid event or a solid thing that you want to do with her, something that you
want to make sure that's something that she wants to do and something that she would be excited to
come out for and then you simply want to invite her out to that event. The thing is with text is
that you can't be creepy if you are offering good value. So if you're you know inviting her to cool
things, you can text her that as many times as you want. You can even double, triple text or whatever
and as long as you're offering value it's not creepy, it's a good thing but if you're just
continuously texting four times in a row. Hey, hey, hey, what's up then yeah, that's a very lower value
behavior that isn't going to get you anywhere. But if you're constantly inviting her to new things
even if she's not responding, that's totally, okay, you just say hey there's this you know party
whatever it is hey, I found this new bar. We should check it out and if you offer invites in this way,
she could think oh maybe I should go out with this guy, maybe I'll check it out and then she'll
respond to that one because again you're offering value you're just waiting until there's one that
you know strikes a quarter that she wants to go to or maybe she's less busy whatever the case may be,
you want to constantly offer value in this way and just wait for the response. And if you make
sure that it's an event that she wants to do something in an outing that she would
would enjoy, that she likes then chances are higher that she would say yes. But even if not, if you
just think that it's a cool thing that you would both want to do a new restaurant, whatever it is,
then the chances are higher that she'll respond to that rather than just a hey
or rather than some way of you know seeking to get her back because what a lot of guys will
do when she's not responding is they'll amp up, they'll chase even harder, they'll send
long paragraphs or some might even get bitter and that's all stuff you don't want to do
and say like hey, why are you not responding to me. Oh, that's not gonna work and it'll only make you
lower, it'll only make you less attractive and lower value. Offer value in that way offer
to bring her out to cool things that she would she otherwise not be able to or cool events
that she would want to do and she'll appreciate that and she'll eventually come out down the line
and the text you send is very simple. It's just simply hey, there's this cool thing. We should go
on Thursday. Are you free? Something as simple as that will do a lot better than hey, what's up or
what are you doing. Anything that's very bland or repetitive or when you triple text and it doesn't
go anywhere. Offer something in terms of an event or an invite or a date and she'll be a lot more
likely to say yes. Offer value by sending things that are funny, right? So memes are very easy,
you can find them everywhere on social media and just on the internet. If you find something that
strikes a chord with you, you think is funny and especially if it's something that you guys have
talked about before, you can send that to her and then when she responds by laughing then you can
start the conversation again on a high note. So, a lot of times you don't want to for example ask a
girl out when the conversation's at a low point, you want to wait till a high point and a high
point is laughter, high emotion, excitement. So when she responds by laughing if it's a funny
meme that you both enjoy then you can start the conversation just say hey, where have you been
and then guide it towards asking her out on a date. Again strike while the iron's hot. Even if
it was cold, the conversation was cold before, now that it's reignited and it's fun, it's
light-hearted you can then lead that towards a date invitation to get her out on a date with you.
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button to stay on top of content just like this so that's how to re-spark a conversation to
get her responding again but how do you stop her from not responding in the first place,
the way to do that is. Again remember the high note thing I mentioned. So when you're talking
to her, when you're wanting to exchange contacts, make sure you do it on a high note. So, make sure
she's laughing, she's touching you, she likes you rather than having a very boring sort of subdued
conversation where she feels like she's giving you the number to make you go away. It should very much
feel like she's doing it on a high note, maybe just after you made her laugh or something and
also make sure that when you get the contact it's very clear what your attentions are with
the number. So you should say something like this exchange contacts, I want to take you out sometime
or we should go on a date. What's your number so I can contact you but you want to make sure
that it's very clear that you're changing the contact the number, the Instagram, whatever it is
to specifically invite her out later. So it's not just to text, it's not to be friends, it's not for
any of that but rather it's to logistically set up the date for when you're next going to see
each other. If it's exchanged on a high note and if she knows that she's giving you the number to
set up the next date, then the first text can just be hey, remember that date we talked about?
Would you want to do this on this date? So when you have that in motion already, it's
very easy to get her to come out and you can establish more attraction and talk more about
yourself and your commonalities and your mutual interest on the date. The other thing is
after you exchange those contacts, she knows that you're going to be inviting her out on a date,
don't immediately start texting and going back and forth just talking about your life and going
on through text. At the very beginning of the courtship process, texting should be very minimal,
it should again be just for logistical purposes getting out on the date and when you get on the
date, you'll have a lot more to talk about then for example if you text back and forth all the
time, you talk about a lot of the stuff that you would talk about in the date and then when you get
together, it's very awkward because you mentioned a lot of the stuff that you would have already,
that you would be talking about when you're in person. The more you talk about through text,
first of all the more it can be misinterpreted, the more it could fizzle out, the more could go cold
so save all that for when you're actually on the date. When you change the contacts, just wait. Don't
start talking about random stuff, just wait till a date idea comes up preferably in the near future
and then invite her out to that thing and it's very much as simple as that texting should not be
overly complicated. It simply a means to bridge the time between you when you first talk to her
and the first date that you went on and thinking about it in those terms makes it a lot easier
for you to carry yourself over text. Make sure you leave it on a high note, make sure she
knows what the purpose of your exchanging contacts is, make sure you don't just go back and forth all
day uh using up what conversational pieces stories that you would be using on the date through text.
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