Today my friend, we're going to talk about the concept of investment. And I don't mean
investing into your wealth. I mean this idea of getting a woman to invest in you
and how this all works. I'm going to give you an example of how it works with a really great
question. When you get a girl invested in you, and this is different than attraction. Attraction
happens first. She's interested, she's attracted. But then you want to get her invested in you. This
is what gets her to respond to you, to want to meet up with you, to want to have sex with you.
By the way, sex is another form of investment, which means she becomes even more invested in
you after she has sex. That's not what today's video is about. It's more about something you
say to her or a question or a type of question that you're going to ask her that gets her more
invested in you. And like I said, when this happens, you're gonna see a more powerful
response from her in terms of wanting to see you, be with you, and have sex with you. Real quick,
I want to note this, there's sometimes people in the comments who say this is only about sex,
this is only about casual sex, this is just about picking up women. And yeah, there are a lot of
videos about that. But understand that this is not just about picking up girls and having sex.
This is stuff I mean, pretty much every single one of my videos, is important for relationships too.
In fact, most of the time I'm talking about relationships. And not that neither is better
than the other. To me, it's all the same. Whether you want a relationship or a casual relationship,
so be it. Whatever you want to do, you want to do. But understand that a lot of this stuff,
if not all of the stuff that I talk about on this channel, is for both. We're talking
about the whole general idea of getting a woman attracted to you. And she has to
be attracted and invested in you to have sex with you and to be in a relationship with you.
All this stuff counts. Let's continue here. What you're going to do is you're gonna ask
certain questions that's going to get her invested. Let me explain a little bit more
about invested and then we'll get to the question. I know everyone's gonna want the question, but
you're not gonna be able to use it without understanding how it works so it's gonna be
pointless for you anyway, so just listen for a second. The idea here is when you are making her
invested in you, she's gonna want a return on her investment. You ever heard that, a return
on your investment? The reason why you invest into things is so you get a return? If I invest
$500, let's say into the stock market, I'm gonna want a return. I'm gonna want
something back more than $500. I'm gonna want for example $1,000. Double, triple, whatever.
I'm gonna want a lot more than I put into it. She's gonna want to get a return on her investment
when she invests into you. And a great way to do that is by qualification. Getting her to qualify
herself to you as if you guys are in an interview and you're the one who is giving her the chance
to work for you. It's like she's the one who's trying to get you. She's the one who's trying
to get the job, so to speak. We do that with qualification questions. I wrote a bunch down here
and I'm going to give you the examples. I don't want you to use these examples. Because they're
not going to necessarily pertain to you. But I am going to teach you how to come up with your
own that will pertain to you and we're killing two birds with one stone here because one, it's going
to get her to qualify and it's going to make sure you find someone who's going to be a good fit.
One of the examples, one of the questions is... "I think it's important that people know how to
cook for themselves and I love cooking. Do you ever cook nice meals for yourself?" That's one
example. Here's another one. "Are you one of those girls who just kind of sits around all
day and watches TV or do you actually have some interesting hobbies?" Another one is "I'm curious,
how many books did you read this year?" These are questions that are getting her to qualify herself,
prove herself to you and say "yeah, I cook for myself. I love to cook." Or she's gonna say "no,
I'm not one of those girls. I definitely have interesting hobbies. I like to do this, this
and this." Or she's gonna say "I've read a bunch of books this year. I've read 5, 10, 15 books,
whatever. Or maybe she hasn't read that many books or she doesn't cook for herself, whatever. If she
doesn't answer in a way that you like, she's disqualified. So again, we're doing two things
here. One, finding out if this person is someone you want to hang out with and be with. And two,
it's getting her to try to prove herself to you which makes her more invested in you. Because
if she's trying to do this, psychologically she's going to put more work in because
she's already trying to prove herself. The idea here is we're asking questions, or a question,
at the very least, to get her to qualify to make sure she's someone that you want to be with.
Remember, you're the prize. You're the guy who's making sure that these women are good enough to be
with you. We're gonna flip the script here. We're reversing the whole situation. It's not about you
trying to impress the girl. It's about you getting her to try to impress you. What is a question
that you can come up with? What's something that you like to do or that you want in a partner?
Maybe it's something with political beliefs or religious beliefs or something you're really
interested in or a specific value of yours. Like you really value time with your family. You can
ask her a question about that. And you're doing it in a slight teasing way. You're not going to be
like, you're actually someone interviewing someone. You're gonna be a little bit light
with it like "okay, so let's be honest. Do you ever cook nice meals for yourself? Do you actually
cook food for yourself or are you just one of those girls who orders Postmates and doordash
and whatever all the time? Or can you actually cook yourself a good meal?" So you're doing it
like you're teasing her, but you're actually half serious and want to find out really what's
going on and trying to learn about her. I want you to come up with your own question. And I
know there's gonna be people joking around. But take this seriously. Let's learn from
each other here. I'm really curious. Let's see one of yours. Why don't you write down
your example down below in the comments. I'll be there in the comments and I'll tell you if it's
a good one and maybe I'll even tweak some to see if you're on the right page here. But come up with
your own and let's try to use this and know to use this the next time you're talking to a girl.
Even if it's over text message or in person either way. It's something that you can use
when you're communicating with someone. I don't love using it over text because text should be
used to get to the point where you've met up with her. But it could be something you might text her
if she hasn't been responsive and it gets her to respond to you. It can be used for that as well.
Let's see in the comments. Write that down below and I'll see you in the next video.