This Is Embarrassing! Real Life Stories [0:00:00]
Here’s the deal, gents.
In today’s video, I’m going to be sharing with you embarrassing stories from my life.
Why?
Because embarrassment, anxiety, the fear of inadequacy has held me back many times in
life.
Hopefully you can take at least one tip and you can apply it to your life to become the
man you know yourself to be.
[Music] So first up, this embarrassment this does
not define you as a human being.
I was so embarrassed growing up of where I lived.
I lived in the small old beat up trailer and I had this tiny room I shared with my brother.
It had holes in the floor.
I didn’t want anyone knowing where I lived.
And the most embarrassing moment ever was whenever I was a senior in high school and
I was on the football team and these cheerleaders came to decorate my place.
Somehow they got a hold of my mom and she allowed them in the house and she thought
it was a great idea.
I remember coming home and I was so embarrassed because I really liked one of the cheerleaders.
I felt that she would – I would never be good enough for her.
Guys, don’t let your circumstances, don’t let these feelings of inadequacy they are
not you.
You are so much more.
So, my next tip for overcoming embarrassment, become a time traveler.
And by that, I mean imagine yourself in the future, looking at yourself now with the decision
you need to make.
One is the easy one, one is the hard one and it’s embarrassing.
Well, in the future how are you going to feel if you choose the easy one?
No, you’re not going to feel good, you’re going to regret making the wrong choice.
So, that feeling of regret is incredibly strong.
And I’m going to apply to me, whenever I wanted to talk and approach women, it was
something that, ah, I just can’t do it.
I’ll be so embarrassed if she says no.
But think about, well, what if you never find out, what if that could have been an amazing
relationship.
So now, that you know the time traveler tip, imagine how you would deal with this situation.
So, you’re about to take a vacation with a woman you’ve been dating for the last
couple of months.
You guys are going from just you know a relationship to getting more serious and you’re heading
off to the Bahamas.
So, you’re going to be spending a lot of time, normally you only see her over the weekends.
Now, there is a secret you’ve been hiding and that is you’ve got ED – erectile dysfunction.
This is something that you’re okay over the weekend, but, gosh, a full week?
You know how are you going to be able to – how are you going to perform?
And you are worried you’re stressing out about this.
What decision should you make?
Should you actually go through the embarrassment of seeing a doctor and talking and actually
making this happen or just wing it?
You know it’s like what – what decision are you going to go with?
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My next tip for dealing with embarrassment, take ownership.
When you screw up when you mess things up when it’s your fault, be accountable to
yourself.
Be responsible and say that is on me.
So, my friend Sean let me borrow his car, his family’s car.
I’m driving around, I went on a date, and I hit another car.
Now, I didn’t see any damage, I thought it was all fine.
We exchanged a little bit of information, but guess what?
I did not tell Sean, I did not take ownership for that mistake and within a week his family
is asking, hey, what is going on here?
We just got, you know, contacted from the insurance company, the other guy is claiming
something, what’s the story?
I was so embarrassed.
And I should have – it would have been a lot better if I had been proactive.
And, yes, they understood and they were just happy that I wasn’t hurt.
They’re good people, but I did lose a bit of their trust because I was so embarrassed.
Take ownership of your mistakes.
Tip number four to avoid embarrassment, learn from it and learn ways to avoid it in the
future.
So, I lit a fire in my backyard.
Yeah, we were just, you know, burning some wood.
I left it unattended and guess what?
I then lit an entire swamp.
I burnt like it had to be like probably 20 acres near my house that was not my land.
And guess who came out?
The volunteer fire department.
And I was so embarrassed.
I owned up to it, but I also realized you can never leave fire unattended.
I know this, I should have known it, but you know I’ve got excue, oh, I went checking
on my kids.
No, I should have been there with the hose the entire time.
You’ve got learn from your mistakes, otherwise if you keep repeating the same thing, come
on.
Yeah, learn from your mistakes, get better, improve.
My next tip for getting past embarrassment, realize it could have been a lot worse – a
lot worse.
So, I love leather soles.
The problem with leather soles when something is wet, they are slick.
[0:04:58] I’m going down some stairs a few years back
and I slipped and I fell right on my butt.
And I was so thankful that I did not hit my head because I could have had a serious head
injury.
I could have knocked myself out, but, I was embarrassed.
I had to go change my clothing.
I think I even tore those trousers.
But you know what?
I did not have a serious injury.
So, guys count your lucky stars when you’re embarrassed because it can always be worse.
Next up, put yourself in the viewers perspective and realize how trivial this embarrassment
or this feeling of inadequacy is because when it comes down to it most people are concerned
with themselves, their own worries their own problems everything going on in their life.
And if you see someone trip and fall on their face, I’m not laughing at them.
This happened to us in Ukraine.
I was with my Yuri and we see a woman just trip and fall.
And he was – we took care of her.
I mean you – it’s decency, it’s being a human being.
It’s not about being – and that takes me to the last tip about being perfect.
You’ve got to get a way and I think as you age as you mature you realize how imperfect
we are.
You’re going to fall, you’re going to make mistakes, but it’s about being able
to get back up.
What you want is and what I would be embarrassed of is not even trying to improve.
Getting back to my early point, guys, about you are not your circumstances you are not
your embarrassments.
All of us deal with this embarrassment with this anxiety at some points in our life.
Hopefully you can find one of these tips you can use some of these information to improve
your life.
It’s about picking yourself up and continuing forward.
Whoa!
We’re not done yet, guys.
I want to hear from you down on the comments.
What do you think of this video?
Could I make it better?
And I want to hear some of your stories.
Maybe you’ve got some embarrassing stories like, Antonio, your stuff I’m going to put
to shame.
And you put it down there and you tell us how you use this to become stronger, how to
become a better man.
That’s what I love to hear, guys.
If you know of a man that can use this information, please pass it along maybe give this video
a thumbs-up a like.
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So, guys, I’m linking to them down in the description and that’s it.
Take care.
I will see you in the next video.
All right?
Bye.
I’m not who I think I am.
I’m not who you think you I am.
But I am who I think you think I am.
Does that make sense?
Basically, again, step away from the looking glass, gentlemen.
Do not – you’ve got to develop that confidence that inner strength so that you can become
the man you know yourself to be.
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