hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 signs you are
a sigma male now let's begin number one rejecting expectations everyone's heard of alpha males and
beta males alphas stand at the top of our social hierarchy they lead with decisive voices confident
attitudes and strong personas betas on the other hand are followers they sink to the bottom of our
social hierarchy they're submissive insecure and weak willed they settle for less and run
away from conflict but alphas and betas aren't the only kinds of male personalities out there
the sigma male is the rarest of the three male archetypes unlike an alpha or a beta a sigma male
doesn't care about social standings or hierarchies they ignore social norms trends and expectations
to a sigma male there's no correct way to dress speak or act society has a rigid list of male
expectations created by alphas and idealized by betas but sigma males discover their own path they
create their own definition of what's attractive cool and confident just take clothing for example
alpha males are trendsetters they confidently push the boundaries of what's attractive and what's not
beta males copy the styles created by the alphas they wear expensive clothes and famous brands
they want to gain respect or bolster their reputation but their lack of confidence
shows right through but sigma males don't create fads or follow them you'll never see
them wearing something popular or trendy because sigma males don't care what society likes or
dislikes so if you march to the beat of your own drum if you reject social
trends and expectations then you may be the rarest male archetype the sigma male
number two material insignificance sigma males are minimalistic they don't prioritize
the same luxuries as other men because they don't need material things to complete them
they don't rely on luxuries to create or enhance their personality just think about fancy cars for
seconds the beta male may spend tens even hundreds of thousands of dollars on a sports car they think
an expensive car will make them more desirable more attractive more confident but it won't
that's why a sigma male drives whatever they want they're just as confident driving a rundown
wagon as they are a bright red ferrari they know material goods are not a substitute for self-worth
so instead of chasing luxuries a sigma male focuses on immaterial accomplishments if
you're a sigma male you dedicate your life to the pursuit of your passions you seek knowledge
skill and wisdom day after day your life is not driven by what you have it's driven by what you
can do number three self-management are you self-employed do you resist people in power
sigma males like alpha males struggle with authority they make terrible followers and
worker bees unlike betas who do as they're told sigma males break the rules on a regular basis
in the workplace sigma males feel stuck like they're sitting in stop traffic they don't want
anything or anyone slowing them down they want to solve problems their own way they want space
and flexibility to rethink reinvent and reshape that's why sigma males work best on their own
they're dedicated self-starters they flourish when they have complete control many sigma males are
business owners risk takers and creative thinkers they confidently tackle high stakes positions
and difficult challenges but if someone tries to control them the sigma mail will not go down easy
number four mysterious privacy sigma males keep their passions close to their chest
they're called private selfish and secretive by others but here's the real truth sigma males
do shield their passions and interests it's not because they have something to hide it's
because they don't feel the need to share a sigma mail does not advertise their accomplishments
many people talk about their passions to earn the approval of others they tell people about their
successes because telling someone gives them a little ego boost but sigma males don't want or
need outside approval they keep their passions to themselves because telling themselves is more than
enough this can make sigma's very difficult to understand it takes a long time to get to
know them friends may feel like they're always unwrapping new layers of this complex archetype
even though it takes a long time sigma males are the most rewarding people to connect with
and befriend underneath that quiet exterior is a confident passion unlike any other number five
humble leadership in their careers and their lives sigma males are lone wolves
but in the right circumstances they can be inspiring leaders too alpha males use
power and aggression to lead but sigma males lead by example they pour their hearts into their work
and their dedication inspires others to follow in their footsteps they rarely intimidate or
dominate others and they rarely want to sigma males generate as much power and respect as an
alpha without lording over anyone sigma males don't care about titles and standings they don't
use their position or paycheck to get their way instead they create the best product that they can
they learn improve and streamline because they want to make themselves proud they have a humble
yet disciplined mindset but that mindset is why sigma males become such respected leaders
number six independent pursuits have you ever turned down a leadership position sigmas make
great leaders but they don't always enjoy leadership positions many sigma males have
been pursued they're chased and revered for their innovative ambitions and relentless drive but they
prefer to make it on their own they're rarely tempted by the perks of any leadership position
they don't find meaning in titles paychecks and authority now many sigmas think they'll get more
done on their own and they're usually right so they turn down leadership positions and pursue
success independently yeah they may make less money they may have less job stability they may
not know what their future holds but they have a chance to pursue their passions to the fullest
and for a sigma nothing is more important number seven the sigma lifestyle no one lives their
lives quite like a sigma male they're picky about their lifestyles their routines and their habits
and there's no one who can change the way they live for a sigma male nothing is worse
than a controlling person they can't stand it when someone tries to change their lifestyle
sigma males do what they want when they want anyone who tries to impose expectations onto a
sigma male may get kicked to the curb now this may sound stubborn or selfish and in some ways it is
but deep down sigmas value themselves for who they are they're willing to change they're
open to new perspectives but they only make changes if they genuinely want to make changes
sigma males don't cater to the people around them they don't transform their lifestyles to make
others feel better they're unflinchingly true to themselves and that's one of their best qualities
number eight confident introversion most alpha males are commanding extroverts they use their
social aptitude to gain control over the world around them but sigma males are rarely extroverted
instead they're independent and solitary introverts they don't like to be the center
of attention they rarely talk to strangers and they spend most of their time alone on the outside
a sigma male looks like any other shy introvert that's why sigmas go unnoticed sigmas have the
confidence and self-security of an alpha but they keep to themselves they don't leave lasting
impressions on everyone in the room they listen far more than they talk and they approach social
interactions with modesty and control but that muted exterior hides a rich interior world their
intrinsic confidence can surpass even the most powerful alphas they live and lead from the inside
out so don't be fooled by their quiet exterior a sigma male may seem shy but they're far from it
number nine room to breathe sigma males require a lot of personal space they need plenty of
flexibility to do their own thing to chase new ventures to travel and explore they need to
satisfy their internal drive to learn and achieve and they don't want anyone to hold them back
so if you're a sigma male you may make radical changes in your life you may disappear for
days on end you may become so absorbed in your passions you forget about the rest of the world
your friends and family may worry about you they may question your decisions but your pursuit of
innovation is one of the strongest parts of your personality so take as much space as you need and
don't let anyone stand in your way number 10 the outlier there's plenty of information circling
about alpha males and beta males but many people struggle to place themselves in either category
you hear their personality traits and lifestyle habits but nothing sounds familiar nothing seems
to fit your personality so if you don't fall into either category you may be a sigma male
sigma males are far and away the most diverse of the three sigma males by
nature defy labels and archetypes they exist outside the usual categories and expectations
they don't fit into any of the most common groups because they themselves
are uncommon they walk a path that only they could walk so if this sounds like you if you aren't an
alpha or a beta you may fit into this diverse category you may be a sigma male hey thank you
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