welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help people expand their
consciousness now on this video I'm with my good friend Victor
odo who's got his up guys how you doing he's got an awesome YouTube channel I'm
gonna link his below we're also doing a video on his channel and this video
today is going to be on something I actually get people that ask a lot about
it it's understanding more of how we can attract our soul mate you know a lot of
the videos on my channel are about the law of attraction in general I have some
videos that are geared at more of relationships but what I thought I would
do is bring someone on that actually has found his soul mates and somebody that
used the principles in a powerful way in order to do so so that they can kind of
give you guys a barometer or something that you guys could also do as well in
order to find your soul mate so I'm gonna go ahead and pass the mic over to
Victor now and Victor can kind of share his experiences and this will be the
three things that you must do in order to attract your soul mate and you're
going oh sure sure yeah it's interesting because I did these drinks completely
unaware that they're and they're actually good strategies it was just
kind of what I did naturally at the time but I can look back in retrospect and
see wow they were a huge impact on that outcome I met my soul mate we've been
married for almost 10 years now I'm very happy so I'll link up a picture right
here nice yeah number one is to work on yourself a lot of people I feel at least
have a similar youtube channel as him and I have a lot of people who kind of
like they want to better themselves but they're better at loneliness they want
it they want to meet somebody they want to meet their person but what I found is
you it's important to really become your best self
not as like an end result but at least beyond that path when I finally met my
soul mate even though I was kind of lonely the couple years prior to meeting
her I worked on myself big time I went through a phase where I was really just
into self-development I was doing a lot of reading and and trying to it overcome
like certain childhood issues I was tired of real strict
and wake up and I had like four different little meditation books that
would read and affirmation books I workout I eat healthy and I really like
build myself up I mean I was in a really bad place prior to that and then after
that I was a finally a match for the ideal I had in my mind and it just kind
of went on from there yeah and I think that's also important I mean a lot of
what I talk about is that we always get a reflection of who we are being and
there are certain things that also we bounce back and off of people when it
comes to patterns and if we are kind of feeling you know not whole and complete
we're most likely gonna attract somebody that also doesn't feel whole and
complete so when you we work on ourselves what we do is we you know in a
way fill up that cup so that then we have something we can give to someone
else but also we are more likely to meet somebody that actually resonates with us
because we are being the best version of ourselves so the idea is that the fit
you know the more we work on ourselves the more likely we are to get a deeper
reflection and then to meet our soul mate of somebody that's also done the
same type of work on themselves so then it becomes a very synergistic type thing
yeah that's a great point I'm happy you mentioned that yeah yeah yeah and then
so then the second thing I think you were explaining to me yeah is like is
actually put on a signal I know he talks about focusing and visualization and
putting out that tension and tension from what you want exactly intention and
again I did this not knowing that it's a wise strategy but I did this and my
ironically my wife do the exact same thing in her own little reality bubble I
was just one it was a cup again a couple years of doing my self development and
it wasn't that I felt like I needed to meet my soul mate it was more like I
felt like it was time and I deserved it and so I just sat there at the time I
was like prayed I like prayed out my window looking out at the Stars
just like I don't movie almost and I said God please it's I'm ready to meet
my soul mate I'm ready to meet that bed my forever person I think's the way
awarded I don't think I said soul mate but I really put it out there strongly
and my wife is we always talked about it she's the exact same thing again out her
window ironically and then like not too long within a few weeks after each of us
that we crossed paths for the first how was it was it a synergy was it a
synchronicity type thing or a very well it was we were actually - truth be told
we were in an AAA meeting I used to that was when I said I had a darker past my
wife and I both had like addictions in our like earlier earlier earlier years
and it was funny because my wife she was she's always late still to this day and
she was late for the meeting and there was like 10 tables and the
only seat available was right in front of me at my table Wow and when she sat
there was like oh my goodness this girl's beautiful and I felt like I
didn't have that instant like synergy but I just I was drawn to her and then
after that we happened to cross paths and and it kind of went on from there it
was kind of interesting irony then out of all that all the tables it was my
table right Ross from yeah you know yeah yeah and it's probably to a certain
point that's where the level that you guys got to and then you guys were ready
for it yeah so then you guys were working on yourselves together from that
wind well she was in the same situation where she was working on herself kind of
trying to transcend her past and yeah it was like it was a perfect timing man
perfect man yeah and then I think we were talking about the third one next
and the third one I think you said you had a personal story about well yeah and
I think it's very important like these other two you can kind of set the stage
but you also have to take advantage of the opportunity as I was talking him two
second ago I said that I there was kind of a synchronous sort of meeting between
us but then we found ourselves again outside of the meeting
I I could sense that she was attracted to me I could just tell like oh my
goodness this girl's like digging me and but I was nervous I was not great with
girls at the time and maybe still to this day but I took advantage I'm
pressed out of my might out in my fears mouth like that and then I saw I
initiated the conversation because I sense like there's a lot of people at
the meeting this might be my moment and within five minutes I saw if she wanted
to go out for coffee after the meeting and but again it was not easy it wasn't
like it just fell into my lap this is the circumstance did that I think the
things that I mentioned before sort of played into that we had anything I
thought I had to take action and not miss my mom yeah and that's something I
talked a lot about on the channel is the importance of taking action and stepping
outside of our own comfort zone because if we've always done the same thing
we've always done we'll always get the same result we've always gotten so
sometimes we have to push ourselves to take action and when it comes to the law
of attraction part of the process is taking action and even in the word
attraction action is in that word and I don't think it's just a coincidence I
think that there is an importance of acting and taking that action in the
direction and that as we do that as we you know buy into ourselves more and we
start to get into unknown territory that's where amaura you know miraculous
things can happen because we don't know what to expect if we always did things
and we always knew what the outcome it's like watching a movie you know the
outcome - you know you've seen the movie a hundred times you keep watching it
it's not that exciting you're not going to get anything new so the key is to go
out - push yourself out of your comfort zone and to realize that as you decide
you're going to take action you're actually then making that something that
can happen for you you're you're buying into yourself more and by doing that
you're then gonna get better results so yeah that was something that we
discussed you're gonna kind of add into this part three is like putting yourself
out there like putting yourself like the likelihood of meeting a soulmate is if
you never leave the house obviously is very slim it's possible of course but if
you go a lot of people I work with they're like they're like into
spirituality and stuff and I'll say it they'll say they're lonely no they want
to meet your soul mate I'll suggest essentially the same advice I provided
this video but I'll say why don't you go out there and go to places you might
meet somebody who you and jive with let you go to like a yoga retreat or
somebody's in class because you're expanding your ears you're creating a
greater likelihood you want to finding that right think of action exactly I I
totally agree think of action as it when you take action you're increasing the
opportunities and the probability of something actually happening so for
example if there's a certain type of person that you're attracted to go where
those people are you know if you're into yoga go to a yoga studio become a part
of that you know if you want somebody that maybe as a lifestyle they're very
fit and they like to workout or go to the gym or they take their body you know
they're very physically conscious of the food they put in their body maybe go to
a gym or you know if you're you're into like more of the the information that we
share on our channels you know there's online forms and there's ways of finding
people that live close by you know there's different ways to go about it
but if you start taking action in that direction then you're increasing the
probabilities of things happening because you're putting yourselves where
it is you know you're putting yourselves where the action is happening and you're
more likely to meet somebody like that so you have the intention that's
important but beyond the intention is taking the action as well which is
something that I'm admiring I'm glad that you brought that up because some
that I think a lot of people can get value from yeah and it really just it's
like I look at it like demonstrating to the universe that you're very sincere
and serious like mmm oh yeah I want this I want to I want a new job I want this
but to actually go out and look you you do what we're saying but you also I
think it just it creates maybe a stronger signal vibrationally to the out
to the universe from the universe for sec like oh wow this person is very
serious they're they're doing that they're trying well let's go come on
yeah and the word decision itself actually means it comes from the word
root of incision and it means to cut off from so decision means to cut so you're
cutting off the other option so when you take action doing something you're
cutting off the other opportunities and you're cutting off things that no longer
serve so you're actually buying into yourself more and it's something that
then becomes much more likely for it to actually happen so yeah so I'm happy
that you know I can bring introduce you guys to my good friend Victor
and I you know I'm gonna link down in the description box you're gonna see his
video as well that we did on his channel feel free to check out his video
subscribe to his channel he's got great content as well and other than that
we'll probably do videos in the future together but now you know who Victor is
and I'm glad that we could you know do the students in it so Thank You Victor
for coming on my channel it's been a pleasure to be here thank you for having
my first you're welcome and as always peace much love and namaste