There's an old saying, If you've heard of f it you can help me out. There's an old
saying "Behind every great man is a..." I want you to have massive success in your
relationships and in your business and I want to make relationships cool if you
want your relationship to win focus on the future stay out of the past just
stay out of it I am not the same person I was thirty
minutes ago much less two weeks ago or ten years ago
and neither is Grant you must learn to live and the black or the white you must
learn to live with the facts that you're either creating or you are destroying
something with every second of every decision that you are doing this is
vitally important to your 10x journey o-on said when you get in a relationship
like you can just like boost every you can boost your own goals their goals our
purpose as a couple I I want you to look at do you even have a purpose with your
spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend I mean everyone has their own goals that came
in here you're writing in your journals I this I that I'll tell you what grant
and I do we take a piece of paper and we draw two lines down you know two lines
they're making sense three columns on the Left I have me in the middle we have
us and then on this side as his column and we have a purpose as a couple and
our purpose is we have a lot okay we have we want to be a power couple
and so that holds me accountable right then and there because what I want to
get in that you know phase I think to myself well I'm a power couple people
say I'm a power couple like if they found out I was going you need anything
you know like that would be a little embarrassing so I kind of have to knock
it off that's what I'm talking about when it takes discipline like it takes
discipline to like shut your mouth sometimes you don't have
to attack back all the time as a couple we want to reach seven billion people
that's an impossible goal like when you're going for impossible goals you
don't have time to go knitting in and you know we want to go global we want
and so we have this whole line in the middle of what we want to do together
and that really helps us to focus on the more important the bigger things and it
keeps us above our normal selves you know that normal that thing and then I
have my column over here which is all the things that I love I love to shoot
guns most you all know that thank you it's my number one passion but I have
all these things in this column and then grant has all of us things in this
column but the middle column is the most important and all the stuff that I do
has to feed into this so my life over here trying to get better using
discipline working out when I don't want to work out helps me to keep my mouth
shut you know when there's a fight or he irritates me or whatever
it's disciplined so it all feeds in in the beginning of our relationship I used
to think that the spouse had to share everything together like we have to do
everything together we have to like everything together and and now I've
evolved I've realized okay so I have my world over here which is the gun world
and these Muay Thai people and you know and I have all this stuff that I'm
jacked up about but grant doesn't have to like that he just has to let me do
that so I have our column this column and then but he lets me go off because
he trusts me and he should but he lets me go off and have these like gun
competitions with all my guy friends and I can talk hours about guns and triggers
and freaking you know vortex optics and range and we're like you know how far
away I mean I can go off I could talk about that forever but I can't come home
and talk to grant about that it's not interested and you know my one to six
vortex you know I go to my lady friends to talk nails and hair and makeup like
I'm not gonna put grant through that that our priorities as a couple are like
senior so you've got to stop like tit-for-tat games and I want to
help you with that because it ends when you say it ends it doesn't end when you
try to get your partner because so many have you come up to me oh well it would
be perfect but they keep doing this and they keep doing that and then and I'm
like you know it ends when you say it ends I'll give you an example for the
guys so let's say your girl hits you with one of these one line and zingers
and she says like I wish you paid me as much attention as you do that football
game and you guys might want to hit her back with a comment like isn't there
some Kardashian show you could watch to get your head out of my ass let me just
tell you guys what that translates into it translates into that your girl wants
to be with you and she just wants you to pay her a little attention and it's not
gonna kill you okay you should be so lucky that a girl wants to be with you
because guys let's face it you're not the most couth species okay so if a girl
like wants you to give her a little tension you don't have to make her wrong
or horrible about it okay you should just do this instead just be like this
Oh baby doll look at you you are gorgeous I love you oh my god what did I
do to make you think I don't want to be with you or give you attention oh you
were the love of my life I want to be with you I am so sorry I upset you oh
you know all eyes on you I am a better man because of you and you know what I'm
gonna work on that
it's game over at that point it ends when you dismantled the bomb you don't
have to throw gunpowder on everything especially not your partner save it for
the real targets it takes purpose and discipline to build an empire some of
you fight over the most ridiculous things I had no idea
some of you fight over the ridiculous things that you fight over I had a
girlfriend come to me no joke she was upset because her boyfriend was liking
hot girls photos on Instagram I never knew such a thing existed I'm like eh
are you like trolling his thing like when do you have time to look through
what he looks at on Instagram I couldn't believe it I'm like I mean are you with
the one you trust find the one you trust and build an empire and if you're not
with the one you trust why are you with him
I trust grant I'm like you think that's a problem
wait till you hear what I deal with I'm like easy I have girls this send DM
grant naked photos of themselves you want to know how I deal with it I go
like this oh my god Wow let me see that whoa that is some hot poo Tang baby you
are hot I cannot believe you are 59 years old and you could get that poo
tank I mean Loihi
that's booty inspiration right there
like you know what baby I'm gonna do an extra 25 squats for you at the gym
because you deserve to have that let me look at it one more time I'm like whoa
my man has got it going on now let's take one more look before we have to
delete and block that's how you deal with it he doesn't have to hide that
from me I don't care I'm like shoot you use what you have and you make it work
for you you don't like get jealous you find the one you trust and you build an
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