it's about that time guys we have a busy day planned today got a lot of things and like a lot
of people were asking like a lot of questions and stuff like that so we're thinking of throughout
our day you know uh answer the main ones you see this guy's nice little mountain views and stuff
yeah but yeah and we also gotta bring this back a fruit you got a food processor yeah it's not
the best I mean it was broken when we opened it and then you gotta go get dress fitting yes guys
we'll see if we have time for that and then we also got to stop check out some flowers for the
wedding so it could be busy day pick up some packages so we'll see you soon catch you guys
there and we'll check the questions as we go along live so talk to you guys in a little bit
all right guys just return it at Walmart you're gonna go get the package guys by the way do you
know this little place yes we're gonna get the future kids to learn how to swim just kidding
I'm a teacher I feel like I would rather teach them than have someone teach them but if I can
I guess no I guess I taught you you're gonna be babies throw them in the pool and they swim like
a month have you guys seen those videos yeah and then they learn how to swim and like apparently if
you throw them underwater that's how they learn how to hold their breath because like it's an
instinct that they kind of hold their breath underwater but yeah so we're gonna sit down
and answer questions first question is what were your symptoms board you were diagnosed
um I've always had really bad period cramps like to the point where I couldn't feel my arms or
my knees and like I could still function like I could still go out and stuff but I was just
done my period wasn't too heavy it was because right now it's it was light like I was able to
it was heavier before before yeah but ever since me and Dominic started trying it kind
of like made it regulated I guess like what was my period and my period was always regular
um it was never late so like I always knew when my period was going to come it was every
25 days like it was just on time always it's just the cramps that were hurting me a lot oh
mates it's too hard but and the vomiting yeah and I went through a while having
um numb extremities for like feet and your arms yeah my arms like it like paralyzed or
like asleep yeah so if you have any of my symptoms go get checked out it's not normal to be like that
like I think like the big one was vomiting yeah that was but the last three periods like the last
four four to five months I haven't thrown up it's been it's been terrible really it just hurts yeah
but the last one that I had before we went to the hospital like it was very painful but that it was
on the second day which was weird so yeah I think if anything trying maybe your your Little Swimmers
are doing something they're helping out they're becoming workers I don't know Factory workers
that's the one they signed up for but yeah so for me it was honestly like heavy heavy cramps
like it was so painful numbness of my arms and knees and that's been all my life ever since I
was I think it started when I was 13 years old I can remember I've always had pain like that I
used to think it was normal because I was like my mom has it come to find out my mom had what is it
called I think five weights or five voices I don't know what it is but she had that and I was like
you couldn't tell me that because I went on and I was like well my mom has that it's normal but
it's really not true and she told you that now she told me that now after I told her I had a sister
she was like oh it's okay when I went to check go get checked out they told me I had the five
boys or whatever fibrosis and I was like Mom you couldn't tell me this like 20 years ago but anyway
so I encourage you guys don't wait until it's time for you to try to conceive to get checked out do
it before you can always go see a guy in colleges or even if you're not trying even exactly even if
you're not trying to conceive if you have heavy cramps go get checked out it's not normal it's
good to know your body yeah exactly so we're gonna grab a little snack catch you guys later
foreign
guys look at this Green Goodness snacker's meal perfect timing because next question
was something about your diet that you changed so we're gonna eat this and I'll let you guys know
I am stuffed I am stuck but the thing is yeah I I haven't had a big appetite lately but to answer
the question of what have you changed in your diet change I've been eating more plant-based
focused foods like Foods yeah vegetables I don't eat bread I thought I cut out all red
meat already well Less meat in general like no chicken no red meat uh only source of like meat
or meat is like fish like salmon I had shrimp the other day and made me throw up so I'm not eating
shrimp I think it was bad shrimp or something a lot of vegetables fruits but no like super super
sweet fruits like sugary fruits and no sugar cut out sugar yeah mostly all carbs I like it
or vegetable Meats I'm basically a rabbit now I lost like five pounds and two I lost no Dairy too
cut out Dairy yeah no Dairy at all obviously the big thing is like sugar
I lost seven pounds in three days man yeah so and like your exercise has been like nothing different
than what you usually do right this is nice like these little things here with a bunch of the uh
wait the music is too good the trees I don't know but yeah so flowers and I've been craving
remember means I used to hate drinking water but now I'd be like one that would be nice
yeah nice nice water so still have to get your dress video so I have to get my suit
um probably decide to rent a suit for me yeah so I have to go to a couple places I wish I could
write my dress but because I'm never gonna wear it after and I'll save it for memories I'm not
really like that let me know if you guys like that if you like my prom dress it was a waste
of money like I only wore it once it's stuck in my closet yeah renting does make sense I wish there's
a renting place for dresses because it makes sense you could have I think you could have but I feel
like the price difference wasn't like worth it or something yeah but yeah I'm gonna probably
gotta go home relax a little bit before anything else uh as you go by the pool talk to you soon
all right guys gonna go get some uh pH alkaline
water yeah I feel like once you start to drink good water
guys also for the diet one thing I forgot to say you've been drinking tea like tea twice a day like
one tea is like the turmeric uh Ginger and stuff like that and the other tea is more like herbal so
yeah and some herbs as well where you going staring
you ever have some trouble this one
go get your coffee even though you don't need it anymore
guys I heard that wine was good for cyst so let me know what kind of wine to drink because I'm
definitely gonna start doing that I heard like wine really helps get rid of it so let me know
all right guys we are home all right guys we're back uh it's a little bit late it started to rain
and we're a little bit tired so we're gonna do the rest of the errors another day but can I bang
out some questions gonna bang it out just for you yeah um as you can tell actually I was gonna say
something but I just saw a question and so how are you dealing with things where as you can see uh
trying to keep a smile being a lot more positive yeah than any other previous videos uh trying to
it's been a couple days so it has set in and get back to our old cells we accepted it it's you know
it's sometimes harder to stay negative and only dwell on it like we're extremely positive people
so we like to kind of look at the good things on the positive outlook to look forward instead
of like you know just sitting back and like you can't change it and I make jokes about it now
like if I want juice I'm like the CIS wants some juice yeah yeah you gotta just sometimes you have
you have to laugh in order to stop from crying that's what I always say you laugh it out yeah
can you still be intimate with the assist or its affects your intimacy as well in terms of pain
um I think that's actually one like positive thing is that like not because never had pain
while we're intimate so like that's a big I think it's really good a big thing of endometriosis
a lot of people say that you have pain during so it's like something positive that like it's
not it's possible that it's not that you know that like and I'm happy I caught the cyst like
now at the earlier stage because it can't turn into endometriosis right so I'm grateful that
hopefully the cyst does not persist that's my saying the cyst does not
persist but yeah I'm grateful that I never I've never experienced pain during
um intimacy which I'm so happy about because like I actually watched Molly maid's video where she's
pregnant now and she had endometriosis but she said that um during intimacy like for
her and her partner it was extremely painful so I'm grateful I didn't have to go through that
and it keeps our hopes up that like it's not that because you don't have pain and it makes
me happy that she's pregnant so now I'm like I can get pregnant she says she had a surgery yeah
um has a influency as the information received from the doctors affect your relationship no
if anything like it's made us stronger and like Dominic's very compassionate Dominic's
like you're like every time like today I wanted to drink my Coke my Vanilla Coke said no that's
not good and I was like oh my God compromise you don't have to drink the whole thing yeah but yeah
try to be supportive as I can and like anything that we go through in a relationship or in life
we always come together and like that's why you know we've been together for a while and you know
that's why we work with married and spend the rest of our lives together because we're a good fit
and whenever we go through adversity we always come out Stronger Yeah right so no definitely
it is coming out stronger and like we've gone through so much now that is assist will not stop
it exactly I feel like like I say like we can go through anything and we're always going to come
out stronger right as long as you communicate and you don't stay closed in in a relationship
you have to learn to lean on each other right exactly emotionally psychologically how taxing
has this journey been on both of you it's been extreme especially at the beginning emotional and
like this week I got more bad news and it's just trying to stay positive for me like this week has
been really really hard just because I feel like oh you get bad news you know I got this cysts and
then there's more by personal bad news that I got so it's just it's a never-ending thing but I just
try to be positive because I know that you know the the sun has to shine eventually it doesn't
say cloudy forever so sometimes when you have a lot of negative things and like a lot of things
that happen um you have to actually make an effort to be positive it's like when you make an effort
to be positive and you try to like block off negativity or like not focus on it eventually
becomes more natural and eventually you do have a switch of mood and sense like that right but yeah
it was definitely extremely taxable guys extremely hard I'm reading this book let me show you guys
this book has really helped me and I'm not really I'm not a reader I'm not a reader
at all this is it the power of positive think by Norman Finn heel peel this is it me like get this
book guys it's very very very good like it has when I got the news of the sis guys I remember
um I did one of the things that he said to do is like when she told me I would never be able
to conceive it's going to be hard for me I have to do Straight from IVF but she said oh my uh my
eggs were good though my uh my my ovaries were good my tubes whenever everything looked good
I focused oh yeah sorry one of them I focus on the news that she said that um positive news the
positive news she said that my uterus was good everything looked good and I did yeah regularly
she said I was fertile it's just I have something blocking one of my uterus and you know she said
it was very big but the other Gano he said that it wasn't big at all so I focus on the positive
even though I was hearing negativity so that's what really helped me and I also blacked out so
I feel like in the moment the only you only focus on all the negative and then you kind of like let
your mind wander and it just goes crazy that's why I was so emotionally taxing psychologically
as well like on both of us but I had a headache for two days yeah it couldn't eat like no appetite
nothing like that but then sat down and we saw your second opinion and it kind of just made
us relax a little bit more uh the next question goes into it what are you doing trying to stay
positive so like the book not because reading my book yeah I just keeping busy you know keeping
our daily routine that we had before like life moves on right so we keep doing the things we
used to be and it's not the end of the world like exactly you know like a lot of women have ovarian
cysts and a lot of women have worse conditions than me PCOS endometriosis so it's like you know
like yes my situation is bad but there's people that are going through worse things than me you
know so I can't act like it's the end of the world because people the people are going through like
harder things that I'm going through you know so I just to myself I'm like you know what like it's
just whoa it's not just a cyst but like you know like it could be worse it could be better but it
could be worse as well just like another stepping stone that but it's in the journey you know it's
never in a straight line it's always up and down and you know the the road is curvy so we're just
in a little curve and also really really helps is reading the comments of the stories of like
people that had things CIS endometriosis and other things and that now have conceived and have kids
and have a family multiple kids yeah it's like actually reading your comments guys that helps
so much a lot and like all these testimonies right so it extremely positive and also obviously like
focusing on the wedding and stuff like that right so like planning stuff like that it does keep us
busy so like you saw today so okay uh last one not a question that Naka baby just want you to
know you're such amazing women much love to you and Dom thank you so much and thank you for all
your comments with DMS and your comments uh but everything on the questions uh you guys
are definitely the best and thank you so much later guys it's been a bumpy Journey but we're
still here we're still here guys the the journey continues we're planning for a wedding like the
wedding is in like less than three weeks yeah and we're gonna go through harder things yeah we are
sad but you just gotta understand that you know that's part of life yeah and life moves on and
you get through it you know you don't get given what you can't take you stay build your character
you get stronger and we do it together right so don't forget to like comment and subscribe
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