13 signs your partner is cheating on you when you are in love with someone and in
a relationship with that same person there is no better feeling for most
people right? to feel the butterflies in your stomach
when your partner is with you to want to be with them all the time
maybe even for the rest of your life to enjoy the way they talk walk make you
laugh there's no such feeling but are there
situations when your feelings are not reciprocated
if you are very much in love but your gut is telling you that something bad is
going on and that your partner may not be on the
same page as you here are 13 signs that you just might be
right number one there is an emotional
distance between you your partner is just not that
emotionally connected with you as they used to be
they seem distant and cold there are significantly fewer displays of
affection cuddling or spending time in each
other's arms this is one of the first signs that there is something going on
with your partner they may be less emotionally available
because there is something troubling them
maybe work related but there is also a good chance that they are emotionally
distant toward you because they grew closer to someone else
number two they don't want to be intimate with you
whether it is about sexual or emotional intimacy your partner doesn't want to be
close to you and to share their hopes dreams fears or bed with you
people having an affair have trouble juggling between partners
they could also feel guilty for cheating cheaters usually have tones of different
mixed emotions which tend to stop them from being openly affectionate and
intimate with their partners if it has been a long time since you two
had sex or exchanged intimacy in other forms
you should have an honest conversation with your partner about what is going on
number three they are busy a lot more than they used to be
does your partner seem not to have time for you like they used to
does it happen more often than it used to that they have a sudden call from a
friend or an appointment that they forgot to
mention before well that is not good news if you are
not a new couple you have already learned each other's
routines and lifestyles but if that suddenly changes and your
partner goes from being a stay stay-at-home
calm laid-back person to spending more time out of the house than in
that is a sign that they might be doing something that they don't want you to
know number four your partner doesn't want to
talk about your relationship when two people are into each other and
are serious about the relationship they will want to talk about it about
how they feel in their relationship and what they want from it if someone is
interested in the future of their relationship with someone
they would not hesitate to say what is troubling them or what they would like
or need to change for them to be more satisfied with the relationship
but when someone doesn't want to talk about anything regarding their
relationship that could be a sign that they just
don't care about the relationship anymore
number five they are being secretive if your partner suddenly starts acting
mysterious that is a big red flag if you have already spent some time
together and learned each other's behavioral patterns
this should not be hard to notice in fact being secretive
accompanied by emotional distance could be the first thing you notice if your
partner is actually cheating on you sudden strange behaviors like staying
out late going into another room to talk on the phone
spending more money than they used to and not telling you what for
but not on gifts for you for example are never good signs
this could mean your partner is hiding something from you
if they don't turn out to be a secret government agent there is a good chance
they are having an affair number six they act suspicious about their phone or
computer let's face it most of us are on the
phone a lot it may be more accurate to say every
spare second we have your partner may be no different from
the majority of us however if they used to be on their
phone openly in front of you and used to leave it wherever was
convenient for them and now they act differently
that can be a telling sign people who are having an affair
usually tend to leave the room when the phone rings and texts late at night when
they think you have fallen asleep they even go further and set a password
as if afraid that you will go through their phones or computers
they stop leaving their phone around and start carrying it with them
all the time even when just going to the bathroom or to the kitchen to have some water
your partner may even accuse you of
checking their phone and start a fight out of nowhere about it
all of these behaviors that are not typical for them can be a sign
that your partner is being deceitful and wants to hide that from you
number seven your partner doesn't share their plans with you
you used to talk about everything with your partner from weekend plans to
possible career paths and that is a sign of a good healthy
relationship now your partner is not interested in
sharing their ideas plans or wishes with you whether it is a
business trip or weekend with friends or finding
another job they are not willing to include you in
any decision-making process and seem not to want you to take part in
any of their plans excluding you from their life and hiding
their endeavors from you is not a good sign for your relationship
number eight your partner gets overly defensive when you confront them about
your doubts if you've had these doubts for some time
now it is only natural that at some point you will confront your partner
about them if they are not cheating but having
problems at work for example then they will sit and talk with you
reasonably and explain to you what is happening
by providing good reasons for any strange behavior that you may have
observed however a person who is cheating on you
will get so defensive that they are highly likely to actually attack you
for having such a preposterous thought all the while they will never provide
any solid argument probably because they don't have one
this type of attack is the best defense response is a good telltale sign of a
cheater number nine they became unusually
interested in their appearance most people care about the way they look
in general men and women alike love to look good and they pay special
attention to their physical form wardrobe and hair that is usually
nothing to worry about nevertheless if your partner starts
working out all of a sudden and they dreaded going to the gym before
or changes their haircut or wardrobe you
should ask yourself are they doing this for me or for
somebody else number 10 you just feel something is not
right when discussing infidelity many people
will tell you to listen to your gut but what exactly is your gut
psychologists argue that what people refer to as their gut
is some sort of involuntary process that involves you subconsciously
noticing subtle changes in other people's behaviors
and deriving conclusions from them therefore
if you have that gut feeling it may not be the famous sixth sense
but the subconscious parts of your brain urging you to pay attention to something
that has not yet reached your conscious self you should consider that and check
if there really is something there or if it's just your brain overthinking
beyond reality number 11 your partner experiences
something like a midlife crisis this is especially relatable to your
situation if your partner is middle aged if they suddenly start acting 10 or 20
years younger you are in trouble people who are satisfied with themselves
their partners and their relationships will rarely experience this midlife
crisis they won't suddenly start dressing like
younger people dying their hair to hide their age
mostly for men buying expensive cars having plastic
surgeries or going out to dance clubs alone if
your partner has this type of crisis it is very likely that they are going to
cheat on you or that they already have number 12 there are changes in your
partner's social media use social media surrounds us everyone uses
some form of it your partner likely has at least one
account however if they exhibit changes in
behavior related to social media usage that could be a sign of deceit these
signs include signing up for new social media
apps staying up late on facebook befriending or following a lot of new
people or changing passwords on their accounts that you previously had access
to all of these are signs that they are
doing something on social media that people in happy relationships do
not usually do number 13 there are changes in their
spending habits when you are in a relationship with
someone one of the things you learn about your partner is their spending
habits how they spend their money what they
spend it on etc you may find yourself in a strange
situation when learning that they have spent half of their paycheck in only two
days but you haven't seen them buy anything
big or expensive and your birthday isn't coming up soon
for that matter your partner may even be reluctant to
tell you what they spent it on they may even get into a fight with you
saying things like it is my money after all this can get
even worse if you are living together and your
finances are not separate this is a common sign of suspicious
behavior certainly including infidelity here you have it 13 signs that can give
away a cheater in general bear in mind though every relationship
is unique with its own backstory however if you have recognized several
of these signs in your partner you should be prepared to have some
difficult conversations with them before you leave our team will be very
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