This is the Sunday Motivational Video.
Every Sunday,
we bring you a different type of video
which should improve your life. Today we're looking at:
15 Signs You're An Alpha Male.
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excited are we?
This video is probably about you, or at least,
we'll try to see how close you come.
Last week we did a very controversial video about Beta Males
which garnered a lot of hate, because, we pointed
some truths people are not so comfortable hearing.
This week we're tackling a look at the other side of the coin.
The Alpha Males: Alphas
are the dominate pieces of the puzzle of everyday life.
They're the change makers, they're the ones
who shape reality to own expectations.
We call them Aluxers here on this channel.
This video is not centered around the strongest guy at the gym,
or the Casanova who gets all the ladies,
but instead we're looking for someone who is winning the race
against himself.
These same values apply to women as well,
but we titled the video like this, because based on our analytics
you are more likely to be male than
female when watching this video.
And no, rest assured,
precious snowflake. We didn't assume your gender.
We base everything on data.
We believe most of you have what it takes to become an Alpha,
but not many of you will get there, and that's okay as well.
This is the perfect opportunity for you to reevaluate
where you are in life and see if there are aspects of
your existence which can be improved. If you are new here. Welcome.
Be sure to subscribe and follow us on instagram @Alux
With that said lets see
how close you come: Here are 15 Signs
You're an Alpha Male.
Number One: You Are Really Happy With Your Life
Without being pleased with your existence,
you can't win at life.
This is reflected in everything you do and everything around
him notices that. The Alpha Male
looks and feels alive. He enjoys living.
For him life is an adventure and he's taking it in
one second at a time. The way he's designed his lifestyle is mysterious
and even foreign to most people, but it gets him the best results.
If you are an Alpha Male you enjoy your
everyday life, you don't look forward to the weekend
and you don't feel tired on Monday because your life is
so well structured that these common worries don't apply to you.
Congratulations, if you relate to this first
point on the list.
Number Two: You Feel In Control
Of Your Life
Not only is the Alpha Male pleased with his reality,
he is actively shaping it to fit his desires and needs.
As an Alpha you are in control of almost every aspect
of your life. If something happens it's because you
made it happen.
If something about your reality is bugging you, you try to fix it
right away. You are taking action in all aspects
of your life and it feels amazing
to have this type of control.
Even when things don't go according to plan,
you are in control of the way you react to these events.
And seek to get the best results out of every situation.
Number Three: You Get Things Done
Unlike the rest when you say you are going to do something, you get
it done. A true Alpha doesn't go back on his word,
and is well known in his environment for making things happen.
He's strategic with his time, resources, and
willpower. Focusing on what's important to him
and those he cares about. He's very result oriented.
As an Aluxer he's very well aware that
talk is cheap and so he lets his work speak for itself.
Number Four: You Take Care Of Those Around You
An Alpha is the leader of the pack
and looks out for its members. It's not enough
for an Alpha that he wins, but he's
actively looking to share the success with those who are
in his inner circle. He mentors others
and helps them be successful in order to take care
even more. That's how his network increases.
His inner circle is made out of valuable individuals.
Which all work together in order to increase everyone else's value.
Among them, the Alpha stand out as an example for the rest.
Number Five: You're Winning
The High-Risk High-Reward Game
If you're an Alpha Male, you don't play it safe,
your not here to satisfy on the breadcrumbs of others.
Instead, you want the entire pie for yourself.
That's why Alphas go for High-Risk High-Reward ventures.
They would rather risk it all than play safe.
Life is filled with challenges and everyone
has their own level of risk which their willing to take.
That's why most people will never get rich their
so afraid of taking risks that they would rather
settle for mediocrity. If you look around the world
Alpha's stand out as titans of industries,
as movement leaders, as change agents,
where they had to put everything on the line to get themselves
into that position.
These people are inspiration for any upcoming Alpha.
If this is the path you've chosen, we recommend you check out the
"15 Skills you need to Develop
if you want to be Rich." video in the top-right corner.
It breaks down which aspects of your day to day life you need to improve
in order to give yourself a better shot at financial success.
Number Six: You Don't Need Other People's Approval
"Living your life based on someone else's
expectations is just another form of slavery"
As an Alpha Male you are aware of who you really are,
what your life should be like, and you have the ability
to put yourself in check.
Most people rely on other for feedback on how well
they're doing. While the Alpha's rely only
on data, because, it's objective.
People will always be biased, and they will always have agendas,
but numbers don't lie. The only
approval you need in life is that of yourself.
Be happy with who you are
and seek out to be the best version of yourself
possible. You don't need people to like you
because your on a different journey than they are.
Number Seven:
People Want To Be Around You
A clear sign that you are on the right track is that you're
attracting people towards you. Alpha Males
inspire confidence and success.
Two traits that make others gravitate towards you.
Everyone wants to be on the winning side,
and they enjoy being a part of the group. They want to know
you personally, they want to be your friend
because they believe that associating with you will improve
their own lives. Run that example backwards.
Who would you like to hang out with. Any celebrities?
Any billionaires? What would your life be like
if you were a part of that "squad"?
That's how you know you're an Alpha. You'll be that someone
for other people.
Number Eight: People Know Who You Are When You Walk Into A Room
This has to do with how you've been positioning yourself throughout
your life and career. Any Alpha Male, is himself, a brand.
People know of him, they know who he is,
and they know what he stands for.
You've probably heard this before but a clear indication of success
is "Work hard enough until you no longer have
to introduce yourself!"
A personal brand is such an incredible tool to have
at your disposal. Which will open doors for you that are closed to others. If your personal brand is not
created by your design, you will be left with whatever the world
thinks it is.
Number Nine: You Control Your Emotions
A running theme throughout this video
is being in control of as many aspects of your life
as possible and emotions is one of those things that seem
not that important, but could make or brake a person.
Alpha Males have a deeper understanding of
Emotional Intelligence. They control their own emotions
and are able to read the emotional state of others and
act accordingly. While average people are
rattled by external factors an Alpha will
maintain his cool, rationalize the situation,
and act in the best interest of his goals.
This doesn't mean that you are cold and never show your emotions.
It means that you understand the value of your feelings
and don't let them control you.
Number Ten: You Inspire Others
You don't just do that through your words but through
your actions. People might forget what you tell them
but the result of your actions speak louder
than anything you could possibly say. Walk the walk
don't just talk the talk. Be consistent
in your work, maintain focus and people
will take notice. Those who themselves
inspire to similar goals will see the
hard work that you've put in and will be inspired
by it. They will see your struggles , your motivations,
and how you overcame obstacles thrown your way and they'll take that with them in their own journeys.
If you click in the top-right corner you'll find an entire
playlist filled with inspiring people who you can learn from.
We've worked hard on all of these videos
so you can get the valuable nuggets of gold from their stories.
From Elon Musk, to Oprah, to Michael Jackson.
We've covered plenty of people who inspire us. Go check it out.
Number Eleven: You Take Care Of The Way You Present Yourself
Alpha Males don't look like slobs. They
take care of themselves and the way the world perceives them.
If you want the world to take you seriously, you better take yourself
seriously first. Lose the beer gut,
get yourself a proper haircut, and buy
appropriate clothes. Have you noticed that those who take care
of their image always stand out in the crowd. That's
the power of understanding that people judge a book by
its cover, they do, take a
look at yourself in the mirror and see if their are things to improve on.
Imagine you are meeting that person in the mirror for the first
time today. What would you think about yourself?
Now "Be the type of person that you would like to meet."
Number Twelve: People Want To Be You
Even your haters would secretly want to trade places
with you. This is because your living at a higher level
than everybody else is.
Your life is better than those around you and you're aware of that.
Your partner is hot, your making new friends,
visiting new places, things are going well for you.
Why some people will be jealous of your lifestyle
others will be inspired by it and work hard
to get it for themselves.
Don't be the jealous type.
Number Thirteen: You Dominate Your Environment
Whatever it is your doing
your well known as the person making a killing
at it. You understand the game,
the rules, and your winning, nobody else is even close.
While the Beta Male's tend to compete between each other the Alpha
Male is way, way out in the lead.
Dominating, competition is for losers.
Alphas choose to completely dominate.
Our favorite examples of this happen in
sports where you have prime athlete like Michael Phelps
or Serena Williams completely dominating in their field
while everybody else is just left fighting for second place
Who do you want to be in life?
Do you even know who the second fastest swimmer in the world is?
Didn't think so...
Number Fourteen: You Are Authentic
In today's world everything is a copy of
another copy. Trends come and go and everyone
looks, talks, behaves the same way.
The only way to stand out is to know who you are,
and be that person. Let the world
adjust to who you are and not the other way around.
A great example here on Youtube is Casey Nicestat
Who combines most of the items we've mentioned on this list
to create a new genre of content
it doesn't matter if you agree with us or not
but Casey made Vlogging mainstream and it all
happened by his design. His style stood out
so much in an area where people where all doing the same thing
that it blew him up to super stardom.
People missed the most important lesson in Casey's
trajectory, the part about being authentic.
Instead they just copy and pasted his style
hoping to get the same results. Authenticity
is a premium these days. So if you manage to
find yours, Value it.
Number Fifteen: You Don't Turn The Other Cheek
Alpha Males don't let others walk all over them.
"If someone barks, you bite, so
they think twice before barking again!"
This means you have to exercise your power and play your
position. If you don't people will come
after what you've built for yourself. Notice how we don't
endorse this as being an offensive strategy,
but one that should keep your haters at a distance.
In the words of Howard Stark
"The best weapon is the one you never have to fire"
but if you do have to fire it you only have to fire
it once, so they never have to come after you again.
Now we'd like to know Aluxers, how many
of these fifteen signs did you check off when it comes to
yourself? Let us know in the comments.
The best thing to do is to be aware of what needs to be improved on in your life.
So you can take action accordingly and as always
for sticking with us, here's your bonus fact for watching until the
until the end.
Number Sixteen: The Gap Between You And Those Around You Is Getting Bigger By The Day
As you continue your climb, you'll realize that some
people have different ideas than you do.
They're not willing to put in the same amount of work as you do and in
turn that gap between your reality and theirs will just
keep increasing. You'll notice that your friends start
acting differently around you. They'll start asking
for more or looking at you differently. At that
point you'll have a choice: Give a helping hand to
those who want to climb with you and let the others enjoy their lives
at the base of the mountain. The view at
at the top is only reserved for those who are willing to make the
climb. If you're a true Aluxer and watched this video
up to this point. Please write
"See you at the top" in the comments section.
So we know the people that we'll hang out with once
we all make it there.
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