if you want to have your twin flame
chase you then there's certain energy
dynamics that have to change to make
that actually happen because our energy
influences who ever were around and if
you want to develop gravity that's what
you must do that will have them chase
you and in this video I'm gonna show you
exactly what to do to make that happen
welcome back to another video my name is
Aaron and I owe people expand their
consciousness now in this video I'm
gonna be sharing with you what to do if
you feel like your twin flame is running
and how to think about this in a
different way that allows you to have
more gravity so that then you attract
that coming back to you now first thing
I want to talk about is what are we
implying here when we say twin flame is
running when we say a twin flame is
running now our twin flame is in the
twin flame in general is this idea that
every one of us has a twin flame a
connection that we have a soul type
connection that in a way is what we
could call a divine mirror someone that
reflects back things to us many times
you'll find a twin flame relationships
that people tend to tends to bring up a
lot of stuff within the other person and
in a way when one has done a certain
amount of work it could also cause it to
other than the other one in a way it
gets brought up to speed to the other
person which sometimes can be scary
because imagine that maybe you haven't
done as much somebody hasn't done as
much inner work and then all the sudden
all of these things are getting brought
up and then they look at you which is
the person they're around that's
sometimes what causes them to run is
that what is being reflected back as a
certain type of inner work that needs to
be done and that energy can then be
somewhat frightening so when we're
talking about a twin flame running let's
understand that our twin flame this
connection we have this story we tell
ourselves about this process has a
direct correlation and influence on it
so if we are telling ourselves a story
that says my toy
flame is running then what is happening
is we are implying that there's our
little twin flame right there is running
and we are trying to catch our twin
flame so anytime we say that you know
I'm chasing someone chasing love whether
we are implying is that someone else is
running now our beliefs about reality
have a strong have a strong influence on
reality and if we keep telling ourselves
this story our twin flame is running my
twin flame is running my twin flame is
running then that continues to be the
energy that we are putting out and many
times if we put something on a pedestal
like a twin flame the twin flame idea
many times we will put it on a big
pedestal make it very heavy guess what
happens that heaviness then is something
they feel and when they feel like
they're being controlled when they're
feel like there's some agenda there when
we sometimes people feel like they don't
know they're my twin flame and because
they don't know that they're weird twin
flames they may just break it off too
easily but they here's the thing and
here's the truth that sometimes it's
hard to hear the idea and the belief in
the twin flame ideology can get so heavy
that I see people resist the process so
if we're putting this idea on a pedestal
and we're putting this person on a
pedestal then we end up creating
resistance around this idea now
something else that helps us understand
and not put our twin flame on a pedestal
is understanding more about how this
might work now first off understand that
you and I were all connected we're all
connected that makes it easier to
understand because we're all connected
that we don't necessarily have to put
one person or one idea on a pedestal
over anyone else now let's look at what
a twin flame idea or the twin frame
relationship may be now at the top we
might have our higher self our higher
self let's say this is our Oversoul and
then we have our higher self which we're
all connected to our higher self and
then we have different incarnations
based on our higher self so this is us
and let's say our higher self is here
when you go to meditation we connect to
our higher self and then above that's
oversoul now here's the thing about
reality every single person if you go up
high enough
we're all connected every single one of
us now what we call its winform
relationship maybe or our twin flame in
general maybe that connected to the
higher self it's just a little bit
further up there maybe it's the two the
two souls have the same higher self so
rather than being in a relationship with
someone over here which could be just as
deep of a relationship by the way
sometimes if we put the twin flame
relationship on a pedestal then assume
oh this is the other half to my soul
this is the other half to my soul and if
it doesn't work out that I'm doomed from
love then we feel like we're missing out
on something here's what I've learned
though not necessarily do every twin
flame relationship not necessarily does
every twin flame relationship meant to
be a romantic partnership through all of
life or eternal spiritual beings now I
do believe because there's an awakening
happening on the planet that there's
more twin flame type connections
happening than ever before because this
is the time of transformation on the
planet however in general the best thing
you can do to have your twin flame chase
you is to switch around the energy
dynamic and to know that you're good
either way all of these other beings at
a deep level are you at the deepest core
and because of that you can have just as
a deep connection with your twin flame
as you can with anyone else now this
doesn't mean that I'm saying that you
just it's never gonna work out what I'm
saying is that by knowing you have
options it is then not putting that twin
flame on a pedestal because I'll tell
you right now learning from experience I
remember when I first met what you could
call my twin flame and you know many of
you know that's Lior and her and I were
in a relationship for let's see like a
year a whole year and I remember when I
first met her there was I've never felt
such a deep connection to someone
especially even just a spiritual
connection like that and I really put
her on a pedestal in a way in the
beginning and we both did we both put
each other on a pedestal in a way and we
started to we really felt a certain way
and and and we both lived in different
cities so there were times we'd go
travel we'd go do something else
separately and we could both really feel
that tug and I remember I wasn't even
somebody that by the
was really into this whole idea of the
twin flame relationship idea I wasn't
even really about that I used to think
it was annoying because I felt like
people put such a weight on it and put
it on such a pedestal that it they
resisted it and they ended up like would
give up a lot of their happiness for
that so I was almost in a way resistant
towards it but from meeting her and get
all this stuff brought up between both
of us and in in her between her and I
there's all this this stuff it could
been past life stuff we're not even sure
but her and I are still best friends and
we have redefined our relationship to
where we're no longer romantically
together
however we will know each other for life
and it's a very deep connection but I'll
tell you from experience that our
expectations of each other of
understanding this whole twin flame
thing and from kind of being told that
also by Clara like you know clairvoyant
people and stuff because we were both
kind of resistant to the idea but I'll
tell you that the more expectation we
put on each other the more we put each
other on a pedestal the more resistant
it was and in the beginning especially
because we started to connect when we
went to that place in Costa Rica we were
just friends you know as youtubers going
and we started to connect more at a
deeper level and I've always thought
we've always felt a connection with each
other even just as friends but then it
developed into something more and that's
when it brought up a whole bunch of a
amazing growth opportunities a whole
bunch of amazing experiences but I will
say that in the beginning of the
relationship the energy dynamic changed
when I would think about it on a
pedestal and be like wow this is like so
different than anything else and the
more I would do that is the more
resistance I would create and then the
more resistance would then have things
happen to where we could feel that and
we would almost repel each other from
each other from each other from
connecting at a very deep level so I'll
tell you what really helped me is
learning to just let go and allow the
things to happen that the way they're
meant to and I know that's kind of hard
to hear by the way cuz I remembered I
remember even going through it and it
was kind of challenging and a lot of it
was very challenging because I'm like I
know this I know I should let go but
part of me was like it was like I was
still trying to control the outcome and
I'll tell you right now that if I would
have detached from this
ideology of believing that I'm only
meant to be with this one person that I
wouldn't have gone into scarcity and I
wouldn't have then and then in a way in
a way for a while I gave up my star role
I would say that as well in order to
have your twin flame chase you what you
must do is you must become the star of
your own movie you must be the start of
your own movie I kind of stopped doing
that for a while what happened was is a
Lior started to go through some deep
processes she was going through a
Kundalini activation all of these things
happened once we started dating even for
me to my own personal growth
but she started going through that and
then what happened is I was so focused
on intending to help her and tending to
in a way help her move through it that
in a way I lost my own my own vision and
going in a certain direction because I
was so focused outside of myself I was
so focused on being a fixer in a way
I've I've kind of developed this
archetype of being a fixer maybe from
part of it could be from my dad and and
just kind of like growing up with the
you know my stepmom situation but always
trying to fix and help people and what
happened was is that all of that got
brought up when Lior and I were dating
and especially the beginning and I
didn't became instead of the star of my
own movie I kind of surrendered that
role it would kind of go back and forth
and that's when the resistance would
come up that's when there would be
issues between us or something would
come up and we would feel like there was
a communication issue and then I'll tell
you what though
things started to align when I started
to take my star role back my star role
back then things would would go back you
know I'm in the start of my own movie
you're the star of your own movie but
you're also more attractive when you are
the star of your own movie it's funny
because once we let go of the labels of
us being and and focusing you know we
still believe that we are Twin Flames
even though we're not together and I
know that might seem weird to sound you
know sound weird because people are like
oh well it has to work out this one
individual way but I think that Twin
Flames come to activate they come to
activate each other so because we are
activating each other what
that activates in each individual person
can in a way repel the other person or
if you are activating them they made
then look at you and be kind of afraid
and push you away Twin Flames come to
activate I remember when I first was
talking to like my spiritual advisor in
a way and she and two ative Lee it was
like yes this is a this is your twin
flame connection and I was like hah is
like I don't even believe or understand
that whole twin flame thing and she said
twin flames come to activate each other
and it makes total sense because back
into you know back in a year ago when
her and I first started dating and met
there it brought up and activated all
this personal stuff within me and it was
something that then I had to look at it
was a month I remember is December in
2018 there's a very deep month of going
within in the personal journey but in a
way I felt a lot of resistance and then
cuz I felt resistance she felt
resistance on the other on the other
side even though for a while she was
traveling she was in Europe and she
could feel that resistance from me from
that far away but that kind of
connection that's kind of how it works
now understand as well that one of the
most important things you could do to
have your twin flame chase you is to
first off be the star of your own movie
and the next thing is to completely let
go of the outcome this twin flame
connection is a divine thing and when we
try to control it using the human vessel
and the human mind we end up butchering
up the vibration that's what really
changed for me too is the more I learn
to let go is the more it would come to
me and maybe you've had this experience
even just beyond Twin Flames have you
ever had it to where or you see and I've
used this analogy before but two people
are dating maybe maybe they're in a
relationship or maybe they start dating
and then they split up and one is very
sad and one really wants the other one
then what happens is the other one
that's sad about if like two weeks
finally goes out with friends or starts
to forget about it or works on
themselves whatever it is and then what
happens is because they're not focused
on the person they want to be with
anymore it's like that person can then
feel it and it's like why it's like
almost they feel that energetic tug and
then what they do is they may text the
other person because so what are you up
to even though they were resisting it
so long and they wanted them to text
them back but now the energy dynamic has
changed what has changed when you let go
of the outcome that communicates
energetically abundance that that
energetically communicates oh look
there's also all these other souls that
are other aspects of the the one which I
am we are all connected to and maybe a
soulmate relationship is something that
actually may be more fulfilling in your
life and your twin flame connection was
here to just activate you maybe then
eventually it comes back around and
maybe it doesn't but if you trust that
process you're going to allow the divine
to work for you rather than you working
and trying to do everything it's like
the egos trying to put it on its back
it's trying to try to get somewhere else
and trying to get and to control someone
else the key to this is allowing and
letting go and also getting to the core
of your own love doing your own inner
work becoming aware of of your
definition about it and really learning
how to be unconditionally loving I would
say that from lioran Minds a
relationship because we really are best
friends we just got the phone like
yesterday we haven't seen each other in
a couple months but we still talk all
the time or still great friends well Leo
and I have learned from our twin flame
relationship is unconditional love
unconditional love even with the
conditions that we're not together
that's actually real love love is not
some dependent love that I love you as
long as you give something to me as long
as you make me feel a certain emotion as
long as you make me feel approval and
appreciation and love know unconditional
loves when you truly want the best for
someone else and when you recognize that
it's also that you want them to be happy
you want them to be loved you want them
to fulfill their utmost potential that's
actually real love that is unconditional
love and if you want your twin flame to
chase you you must first be
unconditionally loving to yourself and
to them even with the condition that
they're not they're not trying to be in
a relationship with you right now
have unconditional love for their
growth process let them go through their
own growth processes your you guys
meeting may have activated a lot within
each other so be compassionate about
that and by being compassionate about
that I promise you on the other side of
that the universe will reward you but
have faith in the process itself and let
it be
we understand that your definition and
the story of abundance or the story of
twin flame my other half of my soul
that's on a pedestal that's what creates
resistance and then that's what blocks
out all this other love that could be
there because it's just about this one
person but maybe the purpose of that
relationship is reflect back something
maybe it comes around in the future and
maybe it doesn't but that that energy of
understanding being detached from it is
where the power is let go of the outcome
and understand that if you really want
to get to this as well then what I
recommend you do is you really follow
your passion and you really do what your
your mission is because if it starts to
take you if a relationship starts to
take you off your mission then a lot of
times spirit may smack you on the hand
and and let you figure it out and in a
way it takes it away from you because
it's being counterproductive to why you
actually came here so there's a larger
view here there's the higher self view
that's always directing you and I
promise you you let go and realize the
abundance that is all around you realize
that this comes to activates you but
doesn't mean that you need to be
together forever
maybe it does I'm not saying that I'm
not saying that it can't but what I'm
saying is the definition of it saying it
has to work out creates resistance that
then causes the chase it's like you
don't you realize your might don't you
realize you're my twin flame don't you
realize you're meant to be with me
forever don't you realize that I have
you on this metaphorical pedestal and
that you're all the way up here and that
it would be really amazing if you'd be
in a relationship with me don't you
realize that and then they feel that
energy and guess what off they go
because that is an energy of control
that is an energy of resistance and that
is an energy that repels so to recap how
do you have them chase you is you change
around the energy dynamic with the
realization that this whole definition
of twin flame can cause things to get on
a pedestal
itself realize you're an eternal
spiritual being you don't need another
half the other half would be here to
activate you to reflect back something
to be like a mirror but you're already
whole and complete you have all these
other connections so that then you could
be in abundance and realize that maybe
you're meant to be in a soulmate
relationship instead of a twin flaming
relationship and that because then
you're into that abundance you're more
likely to have gravity the most
important thing though is to become the
star of your own movie when you become
the star of your own movie then you have
people gravitate towards you are you on
your mission are you doing what you're
passionate about and the more you also
feel that self-love within the more that
then you will find that love comes to
you and if you haven't seen already
there's a meditation I have on
attracting love I'll go ahead and go in
and put a card right here for it it's
not attracting love and it's uh it's the
most powerful the most popular
meditation I have on my channel so many
people in the comments say that they
have attracted love from listening to
that video for twenty-one days so if you
want check it out right here the attract
love meditation read the comment so that
increases your belief is what's possible
generate that love from within and watch
how your twin flame then chases you so
that video will be right here at the end
card check it out and as always peace
much love and namaste
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