This video is about "Discovering They Are Lying to You!" I will reveal
how to discover a person in your life who's actually a liar....To find out more please stay tuned
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I hate liars and that's because i'm a realist! A realist is a person who recognizes what is real
or possible in a particular situation. As long as I can remember actually i've always prized
myself in being a realist in all walks of life professionally and even personally. In fact even
with online dating in my bio I have to say "look I don't play games i'm not here to waste my time
i'm here to meet up, have a drink etc. Something I must stress and make abundantly clear all the time
but here are some cold hard truths that you possibly need to hear, before it's too late...
First is that most people are full of BS = yes they lie, fabricate the truth to make themselves look
and feel better and have a false sense of ego... This is why I actually deleted social media, I couldn't
take the fakeness and all the superficiality that comes with Instagram etc. Next most people
are not to be trusted = whether it's with a personal secret or even your hard-earned money, most people
are not to be trusted... there is more betrayal scams and liars swarming around than ever before!
It's dangerous to be blissfully naive. Most people have ulterior motives - try not to fall for the
too good to be true picture some people paint to you, especially when it comes to dating or business...
Narcissists are lurking in every corner waiting to pounce to make your life a living nightmare...
Being careful aka aware of the red flags and able to spot the traits of a liar, a scam artist
etc, is necessary for survival in the modern world... otherwise you'll get badly burnt and I
and many of these viewers on this channel maybe have the scars to prove it... Of course
there are some good genuine healthy people in the world and you should make it your mission
to associate with such people and hold on to them... as for the opposite keep your distance and walk
the hell away! Here is how to discover they whoever they are are lying to you...
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Liars typically are inconsistent... that's to suit their narrative and make them feel better about
themselves and validated, meaning the following = they're unreliable... the liar will typically stress
to you how you can "always count on them and they'll always be there for you...i'm the person
you can rely on..." they say "say the word and i'll be there! If you need me don't hesitate to ask!"
This might be relatively true at some points in time and in brief periods they may help you
out of a jam or in a crisis but then others they don't answer your calls... you can't get hold of them
or they stand you up worst of all! One liar made me wait three hours to meet with me
when he was actually with somebody else having drinks! Stories are inaccurate when a liar is
retelling their portrayal of an event... notice how they talk to you and others especially if you
were with them. Here is a difference between the lie and the truth. Here's the lie "we went out to
dinner and oh my god it was crazy!! The restaurant was buzzing... there were dancers... everyone was having
a great time! We did shots with the waitress then we went out clubbing to 3am!! It was insane
best night of our life!!" Here's the truth = "We went out and grabbed a pizza and had a few beers
then we went to a bar over the road before we grabbed the last train home as it was a weeknight..."
Liars are inconsistent with their recollection of the truth because they're so delusional and lastly
with their feelings! Another example of a liar and their typical inconsistencies being all over the
place is when it comes to emotions... now this can be a very bitter pill to swallow especially if you're
dating a liar... they can insist that they "love you" one moment then ghost and neglect you for days
on end...they insist they're willing to "open up to you" but you still wait to hear what they have to
say... they'll insist they're going to "move in with you, marry you" only for you to still have no idea
where you stand years later, because truthfully ironically it's all just one big fat lie!w
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Liars typically are vague especially when you press them and can smell they are full of BS
They may even get aggressive with you with the more questions you ask about them their behavior
their whereabouts... Here are some examples of how a liar can and will act vague towards you = their past
I once stated a woman who was very vague secretive and selective at what she told me
about her dating history. I could tell she was full of BS and as time went on more and more came out
We bumped into a guy on the street we both knew mutually by coincidence... turned out she slept with
him originally... she said "oh I just went to school with this guy that's how I know him...." Also there
was a guy I was doing business with for many years, turns out before we dated she slept with him too
originally she said "oh we've got mutual friends that's how we know each other!" and at a family
event a not so distant cousin had fooled around with her too and again originally she insisted
"we used to work together that's how we know each other..." She immediately denied everything but the
more I pressed her and the more questions I asked the horrible truth came pouring out
Their whereabouts - ask a liar what they're up to, where they're going when you're not around them
and expect the following blunt answers = "i'm out... why are you being nosy... I can't talk right now
I'm with someone... what do you want i'm in a meeting... i'm taking care of something... i've got something to
do won't be able to talk..." Usually when they are so vague like that it typically means unfortunately
they're probably up to no good or they may even turn their phones off or not even tell you
where they're heading out to or who they're even seeing... This is never a good sign...
Liars are deceitfully vague and the more questions you ask.... the more the mask slips....
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Here's how I actually typically talk to a person who i believe is lying
Romantically = the liar says "I swear nothing happened with them! We just worked together!"
Me "so if we called him up right now and asked him will he say the same as you?"
Liar "No! Please don't call him up just believe me! Trust me! Please!!" Let's do the sales scenario
The liar "if you don't you invest your money in this you're going to miss out..." Me "what if
I don't want to invest? Why are you pressuring me to do this? I'm going to walk away sorry I'm
not interested..." Liar "no no please don't! Look i'll give you a 50% discount if you just take this offer!!"
Friendship scenario = liar "sorry I let you down! I just have a lot going on you know how it is!"
Me "actually no I don't what makes you think you can just keep flopping and treating me like
this? Maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore..." Liar "no please! Look i'll make it up to you
by taking you out for dinner! How about tonight?" Family = Liar "trust me I know what's good for you!"
Me "maybe I know what's best for me because i'm an adult and i'm the master of myself?" Liar "no no
trust me instead! I won't let you down! I'll help you out! I'll give you whatever you want please!"
The more questions you ask the more desperate they get! Not long ago I asked the woman I was
briefly dating about her past. Her stories didn't match up and I caught her red-handed
She originally insisted she was single for a year but the truth slipped out of her mouth and then she
actually admitted she was in a relationship... "I thought you said you were single?" She said "don't
question me! If you don't believe me that's your problem not mine! Leave me alone!!" Ask questions just
stand up for yourself like they're saying "you've got to do this" say "why should I do that?"
If they're saying well actually "i'm not letting you down!" "No you are letting me down!" Press them
not aggressively just assertively and then watch them very happily drown in their web of lies...
Sadly and again this is not your fault or problem but liars will forever lie! That's a fact!
There was once a couple who got together a few years back they hit it off like a house on fire
but the woman in the relationship was a notorious party animal! She loved raves, festivals, nightclubs
a huge attention seeker! The man was the opposite, quiet, polite, mature, a gentleman.
Long story short she cheated on him and he found out through friends "I promise you i'll never cheat
again!" she said. Exactly one year later she cheated on him again and once more he found out through
his friends "I swear to you it's out of my system! Look into my eyes I'm never gonna do that to you
again!" She begged they eventually got engaged and on her hen night she slept with a barman
in the club she was having her hen party!! "I swear that's it! No more I promise!" she said. The idiot guy
foolishly married her and now they're getting a divorce because guess why? She's been having
multiple affairs! Liars lie. Cheaters will always cheat. Expecting a liar and a notorious liar as well
if they've done it a few times to stop it's never gonna happen! It's in their nature to be
dishonest and hurt those around them! Thinking they're going to change is foolish and naive
Just walk away - associate with genuine honest people whose actions match their words are
reliable and convey the truth with respect and honesty, and don't give you that fear and anxiety
inside you...I think deep down you know who those people are...