Uncle C, back in the office and in this video I'm going to be explaining specifically why
women pull back. Okay? And how Why? Why are men struggling with their dating life and
with a relationship life now more than ever? Why are women as well struggling with it now
more than ever, why is the whole piece of the puzzle starting to fold in the opposite
direction that we needed to? Well, I'm about to tell you. Now, here's the deal
with this story. I'm not going to sit up here and act like
I have some hidden three step hack as to you pull back first or make her chase you or something
like that. throughout this presentation, there's legitimately zero games, there's legitimately
zero manipulation. And what we're actually going to do is we're going to actually take
a look at this as if you are watching yourself or you're watching the rest of the world,
as if this is you. What we're going to do is we're going to escape this and we're going
to be way up here acting like we are the watcher We're watching ourselves, we're watching the
world, we're watching what is going on. Because if you can do this, you can now understand
the piece of the puzzle. So this is not your typical story. This is not your typical dating
story relationship. Sorry, pickup story. What this is, is this is my truth. This is my fundamental
truth. Because you have to understand that everybody lives their own life. Everybody
has different experiences, and there's no way in hell. You can tell men how to act when
dating how to act in a relationship unless you have a story
of a real life experience to share. Today, I'm about to tell you my story.
Now, what I do ask before I dive deep into the story is that you don't make any false
judgments or completely x out of the video until I'm
actually done explaining, because if you actually understand my story, and you understand how
I went through this and overcame a lot of these hidden obstacles, you're only going
to get it once you have all the pieces of the puzzle put together, which you're not
going to have until you stay until the end. So stay until the end because if you don't
stay until the end, you're going to be just like myself, who was extremely busy. You're
going to be just like every single bitter guy chasing ask every single day getting the
exact same result with women who don't invest in them and have no idea why they're not happy.
So without further ado, let's begin. So, my story is a bitter story, my bitter story,
my bitter truth, my whole journey through masculinity, through dating, through trying
to level up myself has came from a standpoint of weak insecurities and a lack, okay, trust
me, no, no man actually starts this journey unless they're wounded or unless they're hurt.
Okay? There's no such thing as a guy who gets good with girls are a guy who has become confident
without knowing what it's like to come from rock bottom. I call this lack, okay, the spot
where I was in the standpoint of lack was just a lot of bitter insecurities. I was essentially
bitter because the women that I wanted I could never get and it pissed me off that I constantly
was never rewarded in life for being how I was.
This lack right here stemmed a lot. Have evil traits this This lack stemmed a lot of hatred.
This lack stemmed a lot of pride because I now felt as if I have something
to prove to the world, this lack also made me
feel as if I'll never be good enough as is until I start to level up. And this whole
straight line process is going to be the straight line process of understanding what it takes
to come from being not very good with women, to focusing on the wrong things that everybody
told me should make me happy versus totally shifting my mindset to actually go against
the grain to have an ROI when it comes to my own dating my own relationships. So that
way, I'm not sad and bitter and going through the majority of things that men are going
through. So we start off step one, okay, this is right out of high school. This is the time
I was you know, going through puberty or boy to man situation, right. So what did I do?
I did what every single man does, I tell themselves, well, you're only going to be happy. If you
follow what they're doing. You're going to be happy if you have lots of sexual gratification.
Okay, where does the sexual gratification come
from? Well, it comes from my wounds
of either not being good enough for women or having
women pull back on me. So I started to do all of the things that most men do who want
more sex, I started going to the gym, I started building a better body, I started building
my business, I started focusing in on these masculine traits and changing the way I speak,
changing the way I act changing the way I change, essentially building a new person,
a new Casey from the ground up. And what this was covered in is this was covered in a lot
of unhappy traits over time, okay, because right away when I could get that girl to do
X, or get that girl to do y or pull two girls at once, or try to get these two women to
do this or any of the things that you tell yourself as a man will make you strong, will
make you powerful, will make other men look up to you. What I started to realize is that
the only reason I was doing this stuff was so that way I could tell other men that I've
Did it so that way I'm respected. So that way I'm looked
at as some guy who has it together in that area. What you have to understand is that
all this did was leave me unhappy. When I told myself I needed to learn better pickup
skills, or learn how to get a woman emotionally hooked, or chase my attention and chase law
time and get her to constantly invest into me and constantly be that prick that is supposed
to just have the lifestyle that you think will help you. This led to me being massively
unhappy. So we totally shifted the ends of the spectrum. We went from lack and being
bitter to having abundance and still not being happy. And this version of unhappy was completely
different than this version of unhappy but guess what, when my head hit the pillow at
night, why was I still not fulfilled? You're going to go to the next category. And over
time when I started to put this stuff together, I went through massive guilt, because what
I essentially realized is that every single time, I would get what I wanted out of the
interaction, I would get what I wanted in the sheets or in the bedroom. I'm essentially
destroying Her spirit, okay, and little did I know that I'm also destroying
my own spirit. Because when I tell myself that I need that woman's body,
or I need that woman's sexual gratification for me to feel fulfilled. Not only does that
weaken her soul and weaken her spirit, but it weakens my
soul and value as a man, because now guess what
this guilt carries on. But you constantly justify it, you constantly justify it, because
everybody is stuck in this phase of needing sexual gratification, both men and women.
This is not just a man thing where everybody's in this category. And essentially what you're
doing is you're destroying your own spirit, your own vibes, your own auras, and you start
to live a life that is not necessarily positive. The reason why this whole channel is going
to be geared towards positive masculinity over the time, is because the way of the majority
is typically not the way that is going to be the best for you or make you feel the most
fulfilled. So what did I start to do and keep in mind this Is recent. This is within a few
months of me aging. This is within a few months of me growing this is within a few months
of me coaching men. Essentially what I did
was I had the balls to go against the grain.
I had the balls to go against the grain and stop this lifestyle that I knew was leading
me down a bad road. You can go with 20 women, you can sleep with 40 women, you can sleep
with 50 women, you can sleep with 100 women, rest assured, at the end of the day, you're
interchanging bodies and it's not going to make you happier. And even if you're coming
from the standpoint of lack and you tell yourself the only reason you need to start improving
your game or your charisma or your body is to get this you're sorely mistaken because
you're brainwashed in your heart of hearts, you know what's wrong,
and you know what's right. And there's a reason why
in most men's heart of hearts, they know that they shouldn't be doing this stuff. But they're
too prideful to admit it. They're too prideful to admit that they know they're living a life
of destruction. Right and not only that they don't want to
appear weak. What this is, is this is stemming from massive
ego, okay? Because they want you wounded in the sexual gratification stage. And they is
in quotes, because I don't know what they is. But if you look at the culture, if you
look at where things are going, this is where everybody's stuck, and they're stuck there
for a reason. In my heart of hearts, I knew it was wrong. So I started to have the balls
to actually go against the grain. I turned off a lot of the subjects and a lot of the
topics that I knew were keeping me in a lower level state. And I started to say, Hey, I
no longer care. I no longer care if somebody says you're weak if you're with one woman,
because I know at the
end of the day, what kept me fulfilled versus what keeps me
not fulfilled. And it's not even necessarily having a girlfriend or one woman. It's essentially
the fact that I know I'm meeting my life in the right direction. You see, this is what
most men do not have the balls to do. Most men don't have the balls to speak their mind
and go against their heart of hearts. And what tends to happen in any industry in any
culture is When stuff catches wind, that this works temporarily, or this gives you temporary
pleasure, especially in the sexual gratification stage,
what's going to happen is it's going to gain mass popularity. What do we know about things
that are popular? It's typically not good. if everybody's doing it, you typically don't
want to be following that same crowd. So what happened when I put the ego aside?
What happened when I put the ego aside and I actually started to go against the grain,
not chase sexual gratification and start to live a positive road. Well, guess what the
ROI went up tremendously when I wasn't focused on how I could get that
woman to quote unquote, submit when I wasn't focused on how I could get that
woman to do X, Y, Z in the sheets. And when I could sleep at night without knowing that,
hey, I'm proud. I might be a dad now with a woman that I don't necessarily want to have
a kid with. Well, guess what happened? I'm now anxiety free. And guess what happens when
you start to live your life in this matter? The ROI
is much much, much higher. Let me tell you something.
When this ROI of your life goes up, and you live anxiety free, you're going to notice
that women don't pull back from you. And I'm going to explain why.
In my whole life, I've understood that every single player or every single guy that's became
good with women was once wounded, was once over here
in this other category, meaning he didn't feel
enough or he was cheated on, or something bad happened to him. And because he was bad
happened to him, the ego took over the false sense of strength
took over and he added layers to himself, okay,
as he adds these layers to himself, he starts to tell himself, he's going to toughen up,
that's not going to happen to him anymore. I'm not going to let myself be like that.
I'm not going to be weak. But what happens when you create this false persona, you get
into a standpoint of hatred, you get into a sampling of doing things that you know are
not necessarily good for your soul, but you do not yet have the idea
that it's going to actually harm you in the long run. Every player was once wounded. And
if you flip this on the other side,
Every single girl who thinks they need to shake their ass on Instagram,
right was once in love with a man, and she most likely was probably not treated
the best. And because she has a false persona of this is how all men are, I'm going to do
what's going to get most men's attention. And every man has a sense of state that says,
most women only care about the sexual gratification, guess what's going to happen, you're going
to keep running into the same problems. Relationship success rate nowadays is at an all time low
for a reason. Men have trust issues now more than ever for a reason. Women have trust issues
now more than ever for a reason. They want you
turned against each other. People do not nowadays people do not want happy people. They do not
want you to mesh and feel successful with each other. They want you to hate each other.
They want you to use the other person. It's almost a rush to see who can cheat faster,
what masculinity needs to become as a maturity that is rising up from the mainstream. 30
that's rising up from doing what is popular a sense of self when you know in your heart
of hearts that it's correct, because let me tell you something, my whole life, women only
pulled back for me when I was in this category right here, unhappy chasing sexual gratification
and telling myself that I'm not enough until I can get her. When you keep yourself in the
state, it will never work. She senses the false self, she senses the ego. And this is
why she pulls back, guess what happened when I started to shift my thinking, My whole energy
and mood change once again, I started to understand how to become more mature, what is real versus
what is fake. And when the ROI of my life started to go up, I started to not run into
most of these things that most men are running into. So you must understand that when most
men categorized this quote, unquote beta, as being needy and being so willing for love,
you have to understand that that's completely different from living your own truth. And
from doing what you know is right,
because up in this area, this man most likely has no masculine virtues or boundaries are
pillars of excellence that he's chasing in his life. If you look at the flip side, though,
the man who actually knows how to keep himself sane and himself stable understands that you
cannot do it by switching out bodies every single Friday and Saturday night because that
adds anxiety, stress, chaos and turmoil. You have
to remember that complexity never wins. Okay? complexity goes downhill and simple scales.
If simple scale simple means that your life, your ROI on life in every way, shape and form
will go up when you understand simple scales and the more anxiety and complexity you add,
this is much tougher than being committed to a woman for the vision mission and principles
of what you two are building together is completely opposite completely different than being so
needy with a woman because you need to feel loved. It's a completely different thing.
So is this your typical video? Probably not. Will this get a lot of likes? I don't think
so. Probably not because it's not your typical dating advice. But the fact is that if you
can actually A look at what's going on in the world, you can now start to have massive
ROI and success. In my blueprint closed members group what one of my clients, George took
a poll saying, Would you rather sleep around? Or would you rather in your heart of hearts,
have someone who's compatible with you and be in a committed relationship, you have to
understand that most men in their heart of hearts want to have somebody to connect with
what you got to remember is that everybody's human, at their heart of hearts. But the problem
is that when sexual culture is getting you to keep going in this direction, they're there.
People are convincing you that you're weak. If you're not that you're awkward, if you're
not that you're weird, if you're not, well, guess what happens? They're stripping you
of your ability to be human and to actually connect, you know, in your heart of hearts,
what is right and as you know, at the end of every video, I like to plug my shit, my
shit gets really good results. So I show people my shit. I wouldn't show people my shit if
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