Mr. Darion You got two options.
Do you want a second date with Kai,
or would you like to go out with someone new?
Which do you choose?
I want--
I went to see Kai again.
Leave Kai where she at.
It's going to be very damaging to them 14 years.
Baby, them 14 years already [INAUDIBLE]..
Uh-uh.
That's going-- that's going to damage it all the way.
Leave Kai where she at.
You hear me?
Miss Alexia, how do you feel about Mr. Darion going
on a second date with Kai?
My thing is you keep going on multiple dates
with Kai, that sound like a damn relationship.
Can you give him enough space for him to have his process?
He can have all the space he wants.
Ma'am.
I'm being honest.
So take all the space you need.
But that's a defensive reaction.
That's not a truthful reaction because that's
not really what you mean.
If you didn't have a lot vested in these relationships,
you wouldn't be here.
When you came here, you were at an impasse.
You've got to do some things differently
to get past an impasse.
Give each other some room to grow
and give some possibility that you
don't know all the answers yet.
Otherwise why would you be here?
I'm not trying to hurt [INAUDIBLE]..
But I see these dates are tools to tighten up our relationship
with each other.
Gentlemen, I'm really glad to hear you
gained insight from your dates.
Dating other people is partly about meeting someone new.
But this also helps you examine your current relationship.
If you put in the work, you'll move
another step closer to the answers that you're seeking.
But now it's time to flip the script.
I think it's important for you to feel what it's like to be
on the other side of the fence.
So this week, only the ladies will be going on dates.
Guys, are you ready to see how it feels when your lady goes
out on a date with another man?
No.
I am.
I want her to go through the same thing I went through.
Like, you don't know what's going to happen on this date.
You don't know.
So I can't wait that she experience what I experienced.
OK.
Mr. Shon.
You said no.
I mean, because she's already, like,
a friendly person in front of me.
So I'm, like, if I'm not there, if I'm not a fly on the wall--
Mr. Shon, is it possible she has some things
to learn on her date, the same way you learned
some things on your date?
Yes.
I don't think there has been a situation where I feel
I can genuinely trust LaRhonda.
It's just I want to make sure that I'm taking that next step
with somebody that's, you know, willing to be completely
open and honest with me.
I know this process can be uncomfortable.
But I want you to remember why we're here.
You've been together a long time.
And you're struggling with a really important question
about your relationship.
Is it time to move on, or is it time to put a ring on it?
That's what this whole thing is about.
It's an experience.
Doesn't always have to make you feel comfortable.
So I'll be available for a home visit
for anyone who thinks they might need a little help this week.
Ladies, enjoy your dates.
And fellas, remember to examine all your emotions
as this plays out.
Thanks, everybody.
I'll see you soon.
Thank you.
DR. NICOLE: Bye-bye now.
Have a good one.