these seven steps will be your guide for
finding the love of your life hi my
babies welcome back to my channel I'm
Lea Alexandra for those who don't know
me and first of all I just want to say
thank you so much for being so patient
with me cuz I took a brief hiatus to
care for my mom
who just had major surgery also I want
to say thank you so much for getting me
to 1,000 I think we're even way past
that now I'm in shock
I don't even know why this is happening
but I love you guys so much thank you
for joining our family and you guys have
been so awesome your comments are
amazing keep talking to me I really
really enjoy talking to you I've been
writing down all your ideas and one of
the most requested one was how to
manifest your crush or your ex or a
partner or relationship and that is by
far the most popular topic that anybody
ever asks me about when we talk by the
law of attraction this subject is
massive so we're gonna do a series about
it and today what I'll do is I'll teach
you my seven basic laws for manifesting
a partner manifesting love you guys can
keep asking questions in the comments
and I will address them in the next
video these seven basic steps will help
you get the love of your life whether
it's somebody that you don't know that
you've never met and it's your soul or
it's somebody that you're with and you
want things to get a little bit better
in Ex or crush anybody you can have
anything you want I definitely use this
in my current relationship which I will
tell you about at the end of the video
so let's start with my step by step guy
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step one you need to get yourself a
journal and I want you to write down
every day when you're trying to think
about the love of your life in the track
love write down everything that you have
to offer everything that you bring to
the table so you can write the year
loyal you're honest you're funny
whatever you feel like you can bring to
the table
personality-wise looks wise whatever
whatever it is you have you write that
down once you write that down you're
putting yourself in a good state to
start attracting so that's why this has
to be first you have to start with this
you cannot skip this step
write down everything you love about
yourself step two is just as important
after writing down the list of
everything you love about yourself sit
some more comfortable and start thinking
to yourself not what kind of person you
want to be with but what feelings you
want to feel when you have that person
so if I were to think about the emotions
that I would want in my perfect
relationship I would think honesty um
love I would feel secure I would feel
stable
I feel confident I'd feel like I have a
partner I have somebody who has my back
I would just close your eyes and think
these emotions think like I'm secure I'm
stable I'm confident and loved I'm so
loved doing this will make yourself feel
the way that you want to feel when you
have that person this is so important
because first you have to realize that
you can make yourself feel these
emotions and you don't need anybody else
to be doing it for you once you do that
you're taking away the desperation and
the bad vibes the negativity of giving
somebody else the responsibility of
taking care of your happiness and people
will feel that vibe people can tell
whether you can make yourself happy or
not I don't know many people who seek
out a relationship with somebody who's
unhappy
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step 3 now you're going to write down a
list of everything you want your perfect
relationship to be like I think it's
super detailed but you don't want to get
into physical attributes when people try
to attract somebody that they don't know
for example they'll say I want brown
hair and blue eyes and he's this tall
and he makes this much money and the
thing is your soulmate may be out there
and you may be asking for somebody who's
not him or not her if you ask for
physical attributes you are limiting
yourself to so much of the world you're
going to pull out your notebook again
and you're going to start writing down
things that you would want in your
relationship such as we make each other
laugh she loves my mom my mom loves her
we're loyal we respect each other we
traveled together we're spontaneous
we're adventurous right things like that
that make you feel good and that's also
the experiences and the real things that
you want to get from that relationship
that you're attracting just in those
three steps you're well on your way to
attracting somebody amazing for you and
also loving yourself more
number four is where action comes in I
told you before a lot of this is letting
the universe do the work but sometimes
we also have to do some of the work and
this is what you're going to do you're
going to compare the list in number one
of everything that you bring to the
table and everything that you love about
yourself and then you're going to
compare the list and number three
everything that you want in the
relationship that you're trying to
attract with that person that you're
trying to bring into your life
if those lists are totally compatible
you are well on your way to attracting
the perfect person for you and you can
skip number five number five is
continuing action if those lists are not
compatible for example you wrote that
you want a spontaneous relationship you
want to be with somebody who is
adventurous and you guys jet off to
vacations and travel and try different
foods things like that but you see that
in your list you didn't write down the
you're adventurous or spontaneous and
you don't believe that you actually are
it's time for you to start becoming that
perfect person and be ready for that
relationship when it comes to you you
can't wait for that person to bring out
those qualities in you you have to bring
them out in yourself in essence you're
becoming your own soul mate a lot of
people just wait around for love when
they could be working on themselves
loving themselves and enjoying their
life to the fullest all on their own
if you focus on yourself and not the
lack of having another person you're
going to create so much happiness for
yourself and that happiness is going to
help you in getting everything that you
want in your life
step six is very important this is a
very big law of attraction concept we
think in terms of lack to put this in
terms that may make more sense to you
this would happen to me a lot when I
wasn't working I would freak out about
every dollar I was living in a state of
lack I'll say I don't have money I don't
have this and don't have that and the
universe kept a queue for me because all
I was focusing on was not happy so
suddenly I was getting tickets I was
getting speeding tickets I was getting
parking tickets I had to pay things for
school I just my money would just was
taken away from me because I kept
thinking I don't have any so what I was
focusing on was that state of luck the
second I stopped focusing on that money
starts coming in when you start thinking
about abundance it just comes and comes
and comes and literally from all
directions it's crazy so take that
concept and put it into finding your
soulmate finding your perfect match or
getting together with that person that
you want to be with don't think about
how you don't have them if you've done
all these steps you realize already that
you have everything already you are
equipped you are ready to be somebody so
me and you can be your own soul mate
once you start putting the attention on
yourself instead of on the empty space
next to you once you stop looking it's
going to come to you I've never been the
type of person who's always like looking
for a boyfriend and because of that I
did I never realized I was a lot of
Attraction thing but because I was never
looking for a relationship I always
ended up in one I'm pretty sure I've
been in relationships more than I've
been single which is not an
accomplishment just so everybody's aware
yeah for six you just have to think in
abundance
instead of luck
number seven is basically an extension
of number six do not wait around for
anybody do not save yourself for anybody
obviously don't settle you're perfect
and you deserve somebody amazing but
don't wait on anybody if your crush in
class or at work or you know your
next-door neighbor is not paying
attention to you at all you should not
be solely thinking about that person
every single day you have to start
thinking about yourself you have to
start thinking about living your life
take the focus off finding love and put
it on living a loving life give love
from every direction and it will come to
you in every direction so number seven
is just live your life to the fullest do
not wait to be with somebody so for
example if I really wanted to travel but
I always said like I'll go to Italy when
I have a boyfriend I'll go to Paris when
I have a boyfriend when I have a husband
so I can enjoy it with my husband all
that's doing is pushing your life away
from you and you need to bring it to you
you need to grab life by the horns so
now for an example from my own life in
my own relationship my relationship has
been a rollercoaster for almost four
years and about a year ago I was living
in Amsterdam I was studying abroad in
Amsterdam and we weren't together but we
would talk all the time and we would
talk about getting back together when I
came back and I remember one day I was
so frustrated with him I was so upset
that day I just looked up and I spoke to
the universe and I was like universe
please send me someone perfect for me
I'm ready and then I took a second and I
thought about it and I realized but I
love this person and I want to make it
work with them I don't want somebody new
and I asked again I said send me
somebody perfect or make him perfect for
me so then I came home from Amsterdam
and I can't even explain how different
our relationship was it had done total
180
he was always what I wanted but he got
better he got he became exactly what I
needed him to be so you can use these
seven steps
I'll just attract a certain person which
I don't think you should do by the way
we'll talk about that in another video
not just to attract a random person or
someone you've never met you could fix
your relationships and this also can be
applied to any type of relationship to
friendships as well and family
relationships working relationships
everything to fix your current
relationships you could create new ones
and you could deepen your relationship
with yourself which is number one and I
think that's the most important
the next love manifestation video will
be about how my friend attracted
somebody across the country it's going
to be a cautionary tale
so look out for that one alright so
that's it I hope that you guys got a lot
out of that and if you need me to
clarify anything as always ask questions
in the comments you know I'm here for
you and I really love to talk to you and
I get all my ideas from talking to you
guys so please continue to do that and
on a side note I got the cutest little
elephant mug from Urban Outfitters on
Cyber Monday it's coming it's on the way
and it made me think of you guys and I
just want you all to know that I love
you so much thank you for being here
please stick around until my next video
keep your vibrations high and have a
wonderful week I love you guys bye
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