Hey, hey, beautiful people!
Hey, Tommy.
How y'all doing? Everybody good?
[AGREEMENT] - Don't get up.
Don't get up.
Stay in the shade.
Everybody all right today?
Yeah.
OK.
Where's Sampson?
Shareese?
He is not here.
TOMMY: OK.
You want to tell me about it?
We met up last night.
I gave him an opportunity to show me something different,
and he didn't.
And so I told him he wasn't ready to love.
TOMMY: Feel like you made the right decision?
Absolutely.
SHAREESE: When I told Sampson that he wasn't ready to love,
it was a hard decision.
But I made the best decision for me,
because I would have been devastated
if I went another day with him.
At this point, I know what I want.
I know what I don't want.
And if you can't give me what I want, I don't nag.
I just leave.
So what do you do now?
You want to come up here?
You want to say something to the group?
Absolutely.
TOMMY: Come on.
I just want to say to all of you,
sometimes you have to go with what
you're feeling, what your heart is telling you, and your gut.
You should never settle.
Just be true to who you are.
Now I'm no longer a part of this journey.
TOMMY: All right.
What the [BLEEP]?
Oh Lord.
Even though you haven't found love here,
I know it's out there for you. - It is.
- I wish you all the best, baby. - Thank you, Tommy.
Come on.
All right.
It's been great. Thank you, guys.
Bye, boo.
Love you.
Tommy, I would like to say something.
Oh my goodness.
OK.
Oh my goodness.
RANDALL: This is not going to be good.
This tension that they had, have you ever
seen an argument without words?
Because that's what Kadian and Swasey was doing
from across the room, so I know this is going
to be very much upsetting.
Everybody want to stand next to Tommy today.
Yeah.
TOMMY: Come on in.
Ooh.
Let me get my popcorn.
It's about to go down.
Maybe Swasey should join me.
TOMMY: Oh.
Swasey, will you come forward?
Oh, Lord.
Kadian and I are on bad terms yet again.
We just can't seem to come to a mutual agreement.
But I wasn't too scared.
Just a little bit.
What is going on today?
What the [BLEEP] going on?
Go ahead.
Oh my god, I'm nervous.
Take your time.
I feel like we have built something with one another.
However, yesterday after I was speaking to him,
I felt like I had to get in defense mode.
And for him to just be like this, I just can't.
You argumentative, you know that.
Everything's a debate with you.
I can't be debating with you. - OK.
Kadian, do you feel like it's a debate with everything
that goes on with him?
Everything's always a debate with this girl.
Everything.
If it's not joking and kicking, the moment I
say, OK, well what about us?
What do you mean, what about us?
You should know?
That's what I do? OK.
I ain't going to do it now. - See?
SWASEY: You ask me--
I can't keep reassuring you.
That's why I don't need no woman that's insecure.
I can't keep telling you, Hey, yeah, I see a future.
How many times you want me to say that?
I can't keep doing that.
She want me to jump on one knee tomorrow.
I'm not doing that. - Come on, now.
See? That's what I'm saying.
SWASEY: What are you talking about?
Then he goes to that, because he's not listening.
I think it's a language barrier.
I think there's a problem of the communication.
Facts.
And that's too early for that, Tommy.
It's not my wife. You're just my friend.
- Right-- - Like, we're just building.
But before you even get to girlfriend or wife,
we still got to be able to communicate.
You guys have had a great connection.
We know that.
Somewhere along the road, it got bumpy.
Can we fix it?
With me and Kadian, me and her have bad communication skills.
I don't like to argue.
That's a headache to me.
And I just think it's a little too early to be arguing.
Don't be stubborn.
I know.
We probably could be fixed.
I'm not willing to fix it.
I'm done.
Not willing to fix it.
I'm done.
What in the [BLEEP]?
Kadian, what do you want to do next?
- Is that a question right now? - Uh--
Yeah, that's not a question right now.
OK.
So you're both saying you want to leave the process.
Yeah, I want to leave the process.
OK.
At this point, I'm upset, so I really
don't want to move forward.
I mean, that's normally how I am, which isn't good.
It's a bad thing.
It's a bad trait I have.
I expected so much more.
I was hoping for so much more.
I ain't ever satisfied--
When I got up there, I wanted him to step up to the plate
as a man and say, K, sit down.
We're going to talk later.
That is probably the only moment that I
needed him to reassure me that we were in this together.
Come on, baby girl.
Give me a hug.
Sway?
Hey, Tommy.
Have a good one. - All right.
- Bye there, bro. - Good.
Here's my phone, bro.
All right, K. Hit me up.
- You know I'll talk. - Yeah.
OK.
The overall journey was a lot.
Of course I have mixed emotions, because I do feel
like we did build a connection.
I don't know what perfect he's looking for in a relationship.
But if you feel like that is too much for you
to handle right now, it's like, what happens
when life really hits us?
TOMMY: Wow.
Wasn't expecting that.
Not at all.
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