Hi there, David Crosby
eagerly waiting to answer
a whole bunch more questions for
you. I don't think I really have any
right to, but if you're going to ask
me, I'm going to tell you.
I'm 43 and I've dated many women
over the years, some of these
relationships have lasted three
years and I truly felt that I love
them, but I never had the courage
to take the next step and propose
marriage.
How do you know when a girl is the
one? Describe the feeling?
As much as
I want to make sure I'm not feeling
it and just not realizing it when
I knew that I was in love with
my wife.
Was when I started thinking about
her first, I asked my
mom said, Mom, what's the deal about
marriage and love and all that?
You find somebody that loves you,
right? And and then you're happy.
And she said, actually,
if you want to be really
happy, find someone
that you can make happy.
Now, that's a really brilliant piece
of information.
That's what I did.
I found somebody I could make happy
and it worked.
I'm in a relationship now.
Forty three some years, I believe.
And that doesn't happen by accident.
It happens because you work at it
and it happens because you care
about each other.
But it happened to me by starting
to put the other person first.
My son is 16 and I'm pretty
sure that he's sexually active for
some reason. I have no idea how to
talk to him about making safe
choices.
I freeze up whenever I even think
about bringing this up.
How do I bring this up?
What exactly do I say?
So you're dreading having the talk
with your son about
making love he already knows
mean
they learn all this stuff in high
school from their buddies kids.
Now they grow up able to go
on the net and see every kind of sex
there ever was.
They're not they're not mystified by
it all the way we were.
Here's the thing about your son.
You need to be his friend, you
need to be his parent, but you also
need to be his friend.
And if you're going to be his
friend, you have
to be patient and take the
time to talk to him about a lot
of stuff in the course
of talking to him about life.
You can sort of work your way into
relationships with women.
There is, you know, a lot of ways to
go about it. And the only one that
really works out is if you love
them.
I think if you can make that point,
you'll be doing fine by the kid.
Give me another.
I can't get it up at 60
for what to do.
Well, it happens for all of us.
Jim.
And it's grim, it's
one of those milestones you don't
want to get to, there isn't a damn
thing you can do about it.
The only thing you can do about it
is learn to accept it gracefully.
It's not the end of the world, it's
just the end of sex, which
used to be really pretty much fun.
You'll be OK, man.
It's just it leaves a big
hole when it goes away.
You miss it a lot, but there's
more to do.
There's lots more to do.
Don't be discouraged, Croz.
How do you know when it's time to
put down your beloved pet or
Suhad?
Our dog keeps out all the time,
except when you put food in front of
him.
Then he goes to town, chowing down,
slobber all over it.
It's disgusting. What gives?
It's not disgusting.
He's just having dinner.
Here's the story about pets.
Dogs.
They live much faster than we do.
So they live their life in 15
years or so and you lose them and
it's bitter pain.
Because I love my dogs.
That's one of the main reasons
I live out here in the country,
is that my dogs
can run like crazy all the time,
every day, all the time.
And that makes them healthy and
makes them happy and makes me happy.
If you've got kids, you have to have
dogs. Dogs will teach kids about
love.
Dogs are experts on love.
My advice about dogs is just cope
with the fact that you have to lose
them.
The joy that you get from.
In living with them is worth it.
That's my feelings, I'm
marrying the love of my life and a
couple of months, but we come from
very different economic situations.
My family is pushing me hard to get
a prenup.
They say it's about protecting
myself in the future, but it seems
like a horrible way to begin a
partnership.
Is there any way to present such a
document to my fiancee without
causing great pains to stress?
Is my family wrong to
push for this?
Shouldn't we go into this thinking
it's forever and therefore no legal
document is needed?
I think a prenup is saying
I don't trust you.
So I didn't do it, I don't have one
with my wife.
And I wouldn't do one if I was
going to get married now,
I think if you have to have
a prenup, you're marrying the wrong
person.
If you were the right person, you
trust them.
That's how you do it.
People can say any goddamn thing,
but what they choose to do
will reveal them.
So if you watch people long enough,
you can see who they are and
you can.
Love them and you can wind
up trusting them.
I think a prenup is a bad idea.
It's a reasonable question to
ask.
The lawyer types would
all do and all push for it.
But that's why they're lawyers.
And I'm not I don't think that's
the way to go about it.
I think it definitely says to
the other person, hey, I don't trust
you. And that's a terrible way
to start a relationship.
So there you go.
This is fun.
I really think it's a great idea.
I love doing it.
Send me some weird questions.
I'm having fun with this.