Hanging out with people who have complex personalities, such as INFJs, can be extremely difficult.
It can feel like you're walking on thin ice at times. There are a few guidelines you should
follow if you don't want to upset someone as sensitive and peaceful as an INFJ.
The INFJ personality types see the world through their own distinct lens, which most of the
time collides with the rest of the world, which can be unsettling for them.
They are usually observant, dedicated, and focused, and they despise being distracted
while working. However, these are only a few of the fundamental characteristics of INFJs
that everyone is already aware of.
In today's video, we will delve a little deeper into multiple studies in order to provide
you with a road map of the things that INFJs go through in their lives, in their minds,
and what they want everyone to know about them.
Today, we are taking a peek Inside the Mind of an INFJ. Let’s get into it.
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Are You a Friend or Just an Acquaintance? With an INFJ, don't get your hopes up. They
treat everyone with respect because it is an important aspect of their personality.
An INFJ's politeness comes naturally to them, and it has nothing to do with the person sitting
in front of them. They will treat you with respect and pay attention
to your needs during your time with them. That does not, however, imply that they are
allowing you into their lives.
Look for where they draw the line and don't approach them unless they give you access
to themself. Friendships are very important to INFJs. They
may appear reserved to the general society, but with those they truly trust, they can
be very friendly and open. If you are one of the close ones, you will
have to look for an answer to this question. Because INFJs are hard to decipher.
Infjs are Thinkers with a strong sense of purpose.
Pay attention to the patterns of functioning if you have an INFJ acquaintance, coworker,
or family member. You'll see a lot of things that you would normally overlook.
The INFJ personality type is known for its profound thinking abilities. They will occasionally
drift away while paying close attention to what you are saying until they lose track
of what you are saying. They'll be monitoring every single detail,
from your words to your hand movements, and processing it one by one, but by being flooded
with information temporarily disables their brains until they're ready to process more
information. Be patient, there is a lot going on in the mind of an INFJ.
They are aware of the true value of gifts. Care and attention, as well as consideration
of their feelings, are more important to an INFJ than a financial present.
You can easily satisfy them by simply providing the care and attention they deserve, without
having to go to great lengths to purchase a yacht or expensive gifts.
However, the only stipulation would be authenticity. INFJs above all want someone to be authentic
and genuine. Give them the love they deserve and watch
them love you forever.
They Will Never Have Enough Perfectionism.
What are the first traits that come to mind when you hear INFJ?
Isn't perfectionism at the top of the list? INFJs are severe perfectionists who have difficulty
completing projects because they devote all of their attention to create a masterpiece.
Most of the time, they seek out a complex concept that is unlikely to be adopted by
the public in general. They'll put their hearts and souls into finishing
the map, which is just a rough drawing in their heads. And, to be honest, the result
will amaze you.
For INFJs, Physical Closeness Takes Second Place to Emotional Attachment.
Long-distance relationships are compatible with the INFJ personality type, although other
personality types may struggle. They value the genuine core of relationships over the
appearance of closeness. That's because INFJs appreciate the emotional
bonds they form with the people they care about and value more than being able to physically
spend time with them. That isn't to say that they don't care about
spending time with their loved ones; it's simply that they don't mind the distance if
they can reach your emotional system from distance.
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The majority of Infjs are open to anything.
Unlike non-INFJs, who tend to pass judgment on every situation and have a particular point
of view, INFJs are more open to hearing multiple sides of the same story in order to better
understand it, ensuring that no one is hurt and that they gain a thorough understanding
of the situation rather than being superficial. They are better at grasping the grey areas
and nuances than everyone else, giving them an advantage over everyone else.
They'll keep asking thought-provoking questions and looking at things from many perspectives
until they've come up with a thorough analysis and conclusion that they're satisfied with.
When it comes to issues involving others, they really are that responsible and cautious.
INFJs are highly aware. INFJs enjoy analyzing, assessing, and observing
what is going on around them. Their minds are like computers that are sensitive to changes
in their surroundings, and they may come to a fairly accurate conclusion based purely
on their intuition and observation skills. They prefer to go deeper into issues; surface
value is never enough for an INFJ. They'll be excited to discuss things with
you on a philosophical level.
They also know when to speak and when to remain silent.
As we've already covered, INFJs enjoy observing and evaluating things while keeping their
judgments to themselves. If they don't talk in front of you, it's unlikely
that they lack the confidence or eloquence to freely express themselves in a group setting.
It's more about not knowing what to say because, when it comes to communication, there are
probably only a few people who are better than an INFJ.
They Will Validate You at the Cost of Their Own Emotions
This is painfully accurate. You might not notice it, but INFJs work hard to avoid any
disagreement that might make you doubt your judgment or vision. They will go to whatever
length to ensure that you do not have a disagreement with yourself over your ideas.
They may not believe or comprehend the rationale you offer them during an argument, but they
will respect your effort and accept the conclusion you reach because they don't want you to be
angry and frustrated.
INFJs care a lot about their feelings because they care a lot about themselves, and they
know what it's like to be curiously lonely in a crowded setting.
They will also put their own feelings aside to protect yours from being hurt.
What did you think of this journey into the mind of an INFJ? Let me know in the comments.
INFJs are as genuine in their warmth as they are in their complexity. People who are close
to INFJs have a particular place in their hearts because they can see their special
gifts and depth of compassion. INFJs are worried about other people's feelings and attempt
to avoid harming them. Take care of the INFJ in your life, and if you are an INFJ, make
sure you're taking care of yourself too.
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