Heya playas, if you've ever used the internet as a way to gain advice on how to get girls
chances are you've come across something called a Pick Up Artist.
A Pick Up Artist is simply someone who's good at picking girls up, getting their numbers
and you know.
And for some reason the idea of learning how to pick up women is considered immoral and
insensitive.
Well those people are wrong.
So allow me to explain exactly what it is that a pick up artist does and why the people
aren't all so bad.
There's this growing stigma that pick up artists are manipulative, dishonest and in genuine.
What I think a lot of people fail to realize is that pick up artists are no different from
people who study social behavior.
They just apply their knowledge to picking up girls.
And in any major theoretical study there is always a split between people who take the
moral ground and the immoral ground.
Here's an ideal setting that most women want to happen.
A tall dark and handsome man confidently strolls over to her, charms her with his words and
whisks her away on an amazing unexpected adventure.
And this ideal man is quick witted, strong yet sensitive, respectful of her needs and
dominant when it comes to controlling the situation and taking care of her.
Bravo female fantasies, what girl wouldn't want a guy like that?
Sadly this ideal man is very very very rare and hard to find.
But why is it so hard to find an ideal guy like that, I just outlined everything a guy
needs to do.
The truth is most men don't know this.
They don't understand what a woman wants, hell they don't understand what they want.
I want a girl that kinda you know accepts me for me.
And you know I don't know, I guess she could like the things I like, that'd be cool.
This is the reason pick up artists exists.
In fact, they're no different from personal trainers at the gym.
Here you have someone that is knowledged in something and they want to share it with you.
And every pick up artist does exactly what every professional coach out there does, they
try to understand exactly what you want.
Now, every guy is different and they all have goals as to where they want women to fall
into their lives.
Some guys are looking for girlfriends or wives, while other guys just want to fuck.
So what pick up artists do is teach you the techniques you need to attract someone.
For some guys out there, by studying pick up techniques they feel like they're degrading
themselves.
As if this is something to be embarrassed by.
They don't want to do anything that could be perceived as fake and they definitely don't
want to end up tricking the girl.
Because when a girl cakes her face in make up and puts on fake eyelashes and nails, yea
she isn't trying to trick you at all.
Regardless of that, guys just do not understand the concept of fake it till you make it.
Every guy wants this magic bullet formula that's gonna teach them all the techniques,
all the secrets, everything you need to do to pick up a woman.
But there's so much more to that.
And what pick up artists do is yea, they break down the mechanics of social interaction.
The problem though doesn't lie so much within the pick up artist, it lies within the student
studying pick up art.
What happens a lot is that guys want to move from step to step to step.
They treat it as if it's a video game and they're just conquering different levels.
A real pick up artist will teach you the tools as far as how you should probably dress, how
you should probably interact, when to include jokes and all the other normal things we we
do in our daily lives.
But if you start reducing women by their hotness to a one to ten scale and you start coming
up with ratios as far as how many women you've slept with vs how many you've actually gone
out with, yea you're taking it in the wrong direction.
To call pick up artists manipulative would be like calling every karate teacher out there
who teaches you self defense techniques that too.
Or every person who's ever repeated a comedians joke to their friends and got them to laugh.
Or any person that has ever sung a cover of any song before them.
We learn, we teach, we do.
Plus there are plenty of pick up artists out there teaching guys how to be their best self.
Most of the times it's not just the fact that guys can't get girls, most of them don't have
their lives together.
And just like any Olympic coach can put their athlete on steroids instead of training them
hard, there can be good and bad pick up artists.
So if you want to pick up girls, don't hesitate to ask other guys out there who are knowledged
in the field how to do it.
It's not manipulative unless you make it that.
Because you can still be the guy all the girls want, that ideal, just be your own version
of that.
As always guys, love and peace.
I know, there are plenty of guys out there giving really bad advice so just remember
to not believe everything you hear.
Don't ever listen to a pick up artist that advocates things like rape, violence or mind
control.
Yes, there are tons of guys out there getting paid thousands of dollars to teach mind control
techniques, I kid you not.