Hey, it’s Brad Browning, and in this latest video, I’m going to be telling you about
some of the signs you want to be looking for that indicate your ex wants you back.
Now first of all, you should know that if your relationship with this ex was even remotely
serious – if you were together for you know, more than a few months – I can guarantee
you that they do still have feelings for you to a certain extent: they still do miss you,
they still do love you to a certain degree.
The question is whether those feelings are strong enough that they actually want you
back and this is what we’re going to be looking at in this video, signs that indicate
that.
But I should also warn you, you don’t want to overanalyze too much.
Don’t spend the rest of your life just trying to read meaning into places where there probably
isn’t anything to be read into.
It’s not going to help you get over your ex and it really isn’t useful, so don’t
overanalyze.
Also, I’m going to give you a link to this at the end of the video but I have created
a free quiz tool you could take to basically get a score and figure out exactly how attracted
to you your ex is still is and how whether or not they want you back.
So I’ll give you a link to that at the end of the video and it will also be in description.
But let’s get on to it.
Let’s look at some of the signs that indicate your ex wants you back.
So one of the first signs you want to be looking for that indicates your ex wants you back
is pretty obvious, and that’s that they contact you.
If your ex is reaching out to you, especially if they’re doing it regularly, if they’re
sending messages or calling you daily, that’s a very strong signal.
Of course it’s a lot less strong if they’re calling you, you know, once a month since
the breakup, that’s less strong.
But certainly if your ex is reaching out to you actively without you initiating any contact
on your side, then that’s definitely a signal.
Also in addition to the frequency of this contact, the way they’re contacting you
can also be a signal, so if your ex is phoning you, dropping by your house, these are things
that are stronger indicators of interests than simply a text message here, a Facebook
message there.
Another thing you want to think about is if they are contacting you, what are they talking
about?
What are the things, what’s the topic of conversations that you and your ex are having
when they contact you?
Or they ask – are they concerned about you?
Are they asking about you and trying to stay up to date on your life?
Do they genuinely seem interested or is it simply all about, you know, paying unpaid
bills or dealing with getting back their shoes from your house?
Whatever it is, think about the nature of the conversations and if it’s more sincere
and they really genuinely seem to still care about you during this conversations, that’s
obviously a stronger sign.
Also if your ex asks to meet up; if they physically want to meet up and hang out with you, that
is a very good sign – at least to some degree – that they’re still interested in you,
that they’re still thinking about you, and that they want to be around you.
Another sign to look out for is if your ex asks you to be friends.
If they reach out to you and say, “Let’s stay friends.”
Well, first of all, this is something I don’t recommend but if they do ask that, it is a
good sign and it does mean that they are afraid of losing you from their life completely.
They don’t want to let go.
There’s still some emotional connection there and they want to retain you in their
life at least to some degree; that’s a good sign.
Similarly along the same lines of “friends,” if you and your ex share mutual friends, if
you had a shared social circle, and if you find out that your ex is asking about you
or talking about you to these mutual friends, then that’s a very good indication that
not only are you on your ex’s mind, but you’re on your ex’s mind enough that they’re
actually bringing you up with friends and talking about it.
So if you do hear that through the grapevine, from mutual friends, that’s another good
sign that they’re still thinking about you and interested in you.
Another thing is when your ex contacts you and if we assume that they are contacting
you, if they bring up things like inside jokes, shared positive memories that no one else
will understand, or if they actively say “I miss you” or they throw out sexual innuendos,
these are things that you need to be thinking about and looking for in their contacts, but
especially bringing up things that are happy memories that you shared together that no
one else knows about.
They show your ex is nostalgic to some degree and missing these certain elements of your
relationship and wanting to bring them up and think about them again, so that’s a
good sign.
And finally, this is going to seem a little obvious but if they flirt and they touch you
a lot, if there’s a lot of generally things that they wouldn’t do with members of the
opposite sex but they’re doing them with you when you’re in person, you’re seeing
your ex, obviously that’s a great sign and it does indicate that they’re still thinking
of you as possibly more than a friend.
Another very strong indicator that your ex is still interested and possibly wants to
get back together is jealousy.
This is one that you’re definitely going to want to be looking for and as I’ve mentioned
in my Ex Factor Guide program, it’s something that will really help you get your ex back,
and that’s jealousy.
If your ex is jea – if your ex seems jealous when you’re doing pretty much anything:
hanging out with people of the opposite sex; if they find out that you’ve been on dates;
if they see you posting new pictures on social media; you with other men or other women,
whatever it is, if your ex is jealous, it’s a clear indication that they still are holding
on to that romantic or that connection and they haven’t let go.
Jealousy is a very strong signal to look for that indicates your ex is potentially interested
in getting back together.
And finally, this one is a little bit more ambiguous.
If your ex seems particularly depressed, distraught or heartbroken, all the breakup emotions,
if they seem amplified or if they seem to last longer than you would’ve expected in
your ex; if your ex seems particularly distraught.
If they come to you crying, things like that, if they just generally don’t seem to be
handling the breakup well, that’s a strong signal that they may want to get back together
or certainly they’re having second thoughts about their decision to break up with you.
That’s about it for this video.
There’s lots of other signs you can be looking for, but probably the best way to figure out
whether your ex wants you back or not is just to go over to my website and take the free
quiz.
That’s www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz and I’ll have a link to it both here in the video and
down below in the description.
So just click on that link and take your quiz, it only takes five minutes and it is free.
And once again, if you found this video helpful, please take your time to just click the “like”
button; really helps me out, appreciate it a lot.
Thanks again for watching and we’ll see you next time.