This video is about "The Types of People You Should Avoid at All Costs!" I will
reveal the types of people you should ideally be avoiding, cutting contact with in your life
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Just a heads up here, you might find this video harsh, in fact you might think it's extreme
but if you are a kind empathetic person like me who's always so forgiving, understanding
forever turning the other cheek... then you need to listen to the following messages = the world
is not sunshine and rainbows... whether you are naive, live a sheltered life etc, the reality is the world
can be a mean, nasty place that will beat you to your knees! Life is sadly not a fun Disney movie
It's not sunshine and rainbows, there are some bad people. You've been lied to = statements like "there's
good in everyone" and "everyone deserves a second chance" certainly doesn't apply to toxic people!
A narcissist for example has no good towards anyone but themselves, and they'll abuse the
number of chances you give them as well. Your grooming - perhaps your family and parents told
you to always "say sorry... never speak your mind and be timid and quiet!" and because of doing
so it makes you pray to certain people who are raised to be spoiled, entitled and extremely rude.
You were groomed without realizing to be submissive to the wrong types of people
Remember this you'll never be good enough for the wrong person! It's as simple and as obvious
as that and in my opinion you should avoid those types of people. Now what do I mean by avoid? Well
you can go no contact, you can block and delete their number and of course all forms of contact
details... you can keep them at arm's length and completely distance yourself... you can break up
end a relationship, a marriage, divorce separate etc and just no longer associate with them. Don't give
them your time, energy or your mental thoughts as well... whatever you decide to do please don't
feel guilty for doing so, as there are types of people you should be avoiding at all costs....
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The first type of person to avoid at all costs is a hypocrite!
Hypocrites drive me insane as they are typically the most preachy, and in your face when it comes
to beliefs and opinions... only for them to NEVER follow through on their own advice!
Throughout my life I've encountered many Hypocrites, I still do
Here are some examples of them in action = "Well you should do this diet and lose weight" the person
telling me this is overweight and has never seen the inside of a gym in their entire life!
"This is how you need to make money!" the person telling me this has never made a single investment
or been successful and works a dead-end job! "This is how to have a successful marriage!" and
this person is miserable and in a loveless, sexless marriage, where all they do is argue all the time
"I'm gonna finally quit smoking tomorrow!" the person telling me this continues to keep smoking in fact
they do more cigarettes now than ever before! In my opinion and throughout my experience of life
so far, a hypocrite cannot and should not ever be trusted... whilst there may be elements and snippets
of truth behind what they say and advice, the fact is they're not taking it on board themselves. That
is because they are weak, they are very easily swayed and are obsessed with their own self-image
and how they come across to people in their lives and even strangers! They may start a diet one
moment only to quit due to poor willpower and no real desire to actually make a long lasting change
The hypocrite rarely gets on in life and there's almost zero personal development and absolutely
no self-awareness at all! It's easier to spout nonsense that they think you're gonna buy into
that you're going to believe rather than actually making a lifelong change AKA they talk the talk
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There's nothing fundamentally worse than associating with a truly selfish and
self-absorbed person... the world revolves around them... they're completely inflexible, extremely
difficult to deal with... they make you bend over backwards... you'll hardly get anything in return
These people genuinely think and feel that they are above you and that you being in their presence
is a gift enough for them. Why should they be avoided? I've had the displeasure of dating
and having friends who were unbelievably selfish towards me and others around them
Your quality of life will change and bend to their whim... everything can and will revolve around them
You will always have to drop everything to be with them... you'll always have to do what they
want... you'll have to eat where they want... watch what they want and talk constantly about them
These people lack serious self-awareness so much so that they harp on about themselves hog the
limelight and attention Etc... they do not see how entitled and rude they come across to everyone
I'll never forget going to a wedding and one self-absorbed guest tried to make the entire
event and day about themselves! She was a guest but could not stand the fact that
someone else had the focus and attention that she desperately needed and craved!
You're empathetic and compassionate nature makes you dangerous to be around a selfish person
Your potential difficulty in saying "no" will get you used and possibly abused
The selfish person will make you bend to their every request and without realizing it you in the
process will sacrifice your time, your wants, your needs, your lifestyle, your energy not to mention
your money as well, or for the selfish person hence why you need to avoid them at all costs!
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You need to avoid people who are even privately or publicly Green With Envy
Sometimes it's the people you least expect to be the most insecure and jealous
Years ago I once had a toxic friend who was very jealous. He wanted me all to himself he
wanted me to think like him, he wanted me to act like him, he never wanted me to get on in life
I'll never forget when we were sat having a drink once and he smiled and said "you and me we're going
to be like this forever! No wives, no kids just hanging out as friends for the rest of our lives!"
He was such a hypocrite too as the last I heard he in fact got married, something he was dead against!
His jealousy was at its worst when I was building my business and meeting other people
He hated all my other friends and members of my family, he tried to get on with him but realized
that they were healthier, more normal and way more entertaining than him... so he would often plant
seeds of doubt into my mind and try and manipulate me into thinking differently about others I loved
and associated with. I started my journey as an entrepreneur in my early 20s and in the beginning
stage it was really tough getting things off the ground, however in my former business I
remember finally getting a breakthrough and to celebrate I invited my best friend out for a meal
When he arrived he was cold, miserable, we ended up having a huge argument that night thus leading to
the very end of our relationship for many years as friends. Long story short he hated that I was
going to have success and he did not want to get left behind which ironically he did due to his
bad behavior happening anyway. I wish the guy well but I also don't care about him at all I'm sure
he doesn't care about me, as I have no patience for envy and jealousy. Haters are always going
to hate... not saying that I'm better than him but he just was a hater this is just a fact of life
People will be jealous sometimes so it's better to just avoid them!
The last type of people you should be avoiding at all costs for your sanity alone is those who
create drama and attract it all the time = drama queens! Men and women! Yes there are
people who are drama queens, they thrive off drama, they're obsessed with it, they always
talk about it and if you're not careful they'll create drama in your personal life and that's
the last thing you want trust me! In 2020 it was a pandemic, lockdowns and I tragically lost my dad
There was so much pain suffering and Trauma and stress in that year for me, yet despite all of
that there were people I knew who still created drama, they created unnecessary arguments way more
unnecessary stress, stupid childish issues. With my tolerance threshold for such stupidity at
an all-time low I removed and cut contact with people who were drama queens... I have no time for
it and I won't tolerate it. Maybe it's because I endured so much suffering that maybe changed
my approach to it but drama queens who are male and female will create regular drama all the time
When life is already difficult and stressful do you want that rubbish on top of all of that too?
I certainly hope not... avoid drama queens at all costs!