Hello, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours. And today, I want to not just
tell you but show you 15 things you can say right now to a guy to make him chase and chase
hard. Stay tuned.
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All right, welcome to today's video, and I am giving you 15 things you can
say right now to make a guy chase you. Uh, before we do that, I just want to clarify
- a guy chasing you isn't just about what you say. It's about what you do. It's about
how you act. It's about who you are as a woman. Are you the type of woman that a guy would
chase? Make sure that you are applying these things not just with words but with actions
as well. There's a video How to Make Him Chase You, one of my most popular videos, make sure
you watch it. These 15 things are things that that woman would say the type of woman that
men want to chase. It's things she would say. So without further ado, here are the 15 things
that you want to say to a guy to make him chase and make sure as well that you backed
them up with action.
Number one.
Mark: Do men find that weird at all?
Jermia: If the guy doesn't like me, that's his choice.
What this line communicates is that you're not seeking his approval. You're
the type of woman who's living her life for herself, and you're not worried about his
opinion of it. Number two.
Jermia: Nah, I'm hanging out with a friend tonight, but I would love to see you
later in the week.
What does this communicate? A good support network and healthy priorities.
A guy feels like he has to earn his way up your priority list. Number three.
Jermia: So are you free this weekend for me to crush you at bowling?
Men love challenge and men love competition. This is a great way to ask
a guy out and to let him know he's gonna have fun with you. Number four.
Mark: I can't believe you did that.
Jermia: Yeah, it was scary, but I did it anyway.
When you say, "Yeah, it was scary, but I did it anyway," you're communicating
that you do things in your own life because you want to and you're not letting fear stop
you. Men are gonna have a huge amount of respect for this. They're gonna have a huge amount
of attraction for this and it's gonna make them want to chase. Number five.
Dad: Mark was famous at Mountain Creek for his late arrivals. In fact he had the
worst arrival time record in the whole school's history. If he left on time for school and
found out he was on time, he would come back to the house and then leave again. I'll get
you a drink?
Jermia: Oh nah, I'm okay. Thank you.
Mark: How are you going?
Jermia: Wow, Mark, your family is so much cooler than you.
This is a cheeky, playful line that basically demonstrates your social
intelligence. What it's essentially saying is, "Hey, look how well I fit your world.
I am one hell of a catch." Number six.
Jermia: I'm very fortunate to live the life that I do.
Gratefulness is and always will be attractive to men. Remember men and
people in general want to be around other people that make them feel good. Gratefulness
is a rare attitude, and when you show how grateful you are for the life you live, yep,
maybe it's not perfect, but you're still grateful for it and consider yourself fortunate to
live it. Men are gonna wanna be around you to feel those good emotions and they're going
to chase you to have that in their life. Number seven.
Jermia: Other women might think that you're God's gift, but I see through the dork
that you really are.
I love this line. I absolutely love it. What does it represent? That you're
not putting him on a pedestal. If he's a standout guy and he's probably a standout guy because
you're going off to him, then other women are going to see him as a standout guy, but
he's going to want to date a woman that sees him for the man he really is. That means not
putting him up on a pedestal. And this line communicates that you're not one of those
women who's doing that and that you can see him for the guy he is. Number eight.
Jermia: I disagree. Here's why.
You disagree, you have opinions! Hallelujah! Men love a woman who can challenge
them and make them think. You see most women, when they really like a, guy, they constantly
want to build rapport, so they're overly agreeable. They agree with him. They just go along with
his conversational threads to try to build rapport with him. And it doesn't stand out.
When you're willing to break rapport, you're willing to tell him, "No, I actually disagree
with that," and then this is important as well, you give him your reasons as to why.
You don't just disagree for the sake of disagreeing, but you give him your reasons as to why, and
you make him think that a guy is going to see you as a stand out because it's rare and
he's gonna think it mighty attractive. Number nine.
Mark: I have been thinking that as time goes on...
Jermia: Oh God, you're a worry. So this is why we could never date.
Anytime he does something that's a little silly or a little embarrassing.
Playfully make fun of him and tell him it's a reason that the two of you could never date
or never be a couple. Not only does it make him feel like you're an equal and make him
see you as an equal, it makes him want to prove you wrong. Number 10.
Mark: I'll put that on credit, please, mate.
Jermia: Oh no, it's okay. I can pay for myself.
Mark: That's alright. Here we go.
Jermia: Thank you.
Mark: Thank you, man
Always offer to pay for yourself. When you do, a guy's going to see you as an
equal and he's gonna see you as someone who wants to contribute equally to the relationship,
to the budding relationship with him. It's going to make him see you as a standout and
he's going to want to chase. Number 11.
Jermia: Um, yeah. No, cause I don't think it's good at all. So okay here we are.
It's not good too. I agree. Thank you so much. It was lovely talking to you. Hope you enjoy
the rest of your day.
Being polite to other people never gets old. Men will always chase a woman
who leaves great impressions in her wake, from waiters, to Uber drivers, to checkout
clerks, to anyone you come across in your day when you are polite and leave positive
interactions and impressions behind you is going to want to be a part of that, and he's
going to chase to be involved with you. Number 12.
Jermia: Yeah, it's going to be tough, but I'll handle it.
Does anything communicate confidence better than those three simple
words? I'll handle it. Men love confidence. They love being around a woman who's confident
and there's no better way to communicate it that you have confidence in yourself and in
your life than by simply saying, I'll handle it. Number 13
Mark: So what are you looking for out of this?
Jermia: Honestly, I'm just looking to meet people and see where it goes.
When you date with no agenda, when you're literally just out there to meet
people and you communicate to men that, "You know what, we might have a connection, but
I'm just going to see what happens. I'm going to see where this goes. I'm not going to stop
being single right now," you communicate how high your standards are and it makes a guy
want to chase. Men love a woman and women love a man who has no agenda and this line
is a great way to communicate it. Number 14.
Mark: Well, thanks. I really enjoyed today.
Jermia: Yeah, me too. If you play your cards right, you might get to see me again.
Alright, see ya.
This is a fun, playful line to use at the end of the day to communicate
to a man that he's going to have to keep up his game. It subtly tells him your standards
and makes him want to prove you wrong, to step up and get more time with you. And finally,
number 15
Jermia: No, it's really just not my thing. No, I don't really feel like Mexican.
What about Thai? No, I'm really just not a fan of that kind of music. See, I'd rather
go to a more chilled-out festival.
The female brain is naturally more attuned to social harmony than the male
brain. And that means it's a little more tempting to say yes when you really mean no. Men are
going to respect the fact that you can give them a firm "No", and without being a bitch,
give your own preference and let him know what you really think about a situation. So
don't be afraid to say, "No." Men are going to respect it and men are going to see you
as a standout and find it attractive and it's going to make them want to chase. Well, that's
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Other women you date might think you're God's gift, but...
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free this weekend. I gotta crush you! [inaudible].