people rationally gravitate towards others who exude
confidence, unfortunately little phrases you use can make
other people think that you are totally lacking in self confidence
and that's why in this video we're covering seven of those
common phrases you might
be using and what you should say instead
The first word, be careful with is JUST. Just
is a minimizer and there is nothing inherently
wrong with it; if you say that you'd like just a little bit of rice, it means that
you want very little rice, but if you say I just
wanted to see the new Avengers movie, you're minimizing your desire
Maybe because you're complaining you didn't get to go
Maybe because you try to make it seem like it's not such a big request, but regardless
the more confident things to do is to let your desires stand on their own
so cut the word JUST out of those situation
and especially pay attention forward in your email
where i see it is used most frequently