ok seven up on the are you doing and listen today i want to talk about
something that
matters deeply when it comes to attracting women
making things happen with women
initiating things with women starting a conversation with women escalating with
women
uh... getting successful with women
and that's
and your comfort zone
or you and your relationship
with your comfort zone
and that's just
makino
drawing a castle my super sexy
whiteboard
so that's a
this is
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come close
so yes
you
but at that
what about this comes as that is this
something that's
the same
or is it something that can grow
or that's more
you guess obviously that condo to make this video about something that i can't
change reformed so yes of course
this grows
an internal social inc to be honest right
uh... what is the depending on that
let's say you're single and you want me more women
it's outside of the companies and is not conversation with the gulped
you going to talk to your friends like
honduras
yukiko outside of your comfort zone
now what happens when you go outside of the company you take that step of
hawk despues a bit
interesting uh... you i don't know me do this
bank i graduate anyway
because
hey i'm going to regret if i don't and you know i want to see where this meets
what would it be like to actually do this okay
so that's a
talking to this
strange going on
which might be to be strange as well you know anyway
but strange but attractive and only and intriguing go back
that saved this might be here right
so let's say you do it
she do talk to this co
act you know who knows what will happen like maybe will work out maybe
you know maybe it just comes out you go we're talking more
that she she she's not be your type whatever about the fact that you did
will to her
means what
it means that you've just told yourself you chis shown yourself
that your comfort zone doesn't stop you
that your diet but can't go beyond the comfort zone
that can take a little risk
they can do something that has a mild sense of notices about that
but you can still go beyond that and you can
do more you can
challenges all
and you can take on the challenge and judith on purpose okay
he stepped onto the comforts and on purpose and you say to yourself
no matter what happens
you did well right
now what happens next next time do you see you're gonna party
what's happening in your mind
do you think well-known i can't talk to her because of all the when completed
by then
she was a few more time to think of all i did this last time it you know it it
nothing terrible happened
while this you know i hiked i think i could do this again
so
there's gonna be another governor of ago another young and you know what sooner
or later something happens like
and give it a novel
so what happens in the process with your comfort zone
because bigger right
it's stretched further
the great thing with the comfort zone
and you know com prove proved this time scientific the i'm just you know we
talking about
states pant
uh... stuff like that the case then yes if you want to come with me and saying
what is a scientifically not proven him them
for cooperating right
i'm just telling you this from experience
you comfort zone brothers ok it gets wider
and the funny thing is that i've notices when i have
stretch my comfort zone is the secretary of my life for example in terms of my
social skills and doing something regularly that
was altered my comfort zone and notes
part of my comfort zone you complete sign
we will around tends to grow and his sense of
harry ability to do whatever it is
starts to grow so i found that very somber moments of comfort zone at a
party growers and i'm getting graded
meeting women
my comforter network sometimes grows an anti get better at me interacting with
people in general
or my comfort zone when i play football gross
and because i feel more alive than war
confident about my ability to do whatever it is
are you with me
when you stretch one area of the comfort zone head to the whole thing tends to
get bigger
so he's starting to feel more more comfortable to do more more things
and a great thing is this president clinton declared pheno
this and there's a powerful human drive about
pectoris
i won a few comfortable i want to be safe
but there's also a powerful human dr appt that says
i need something
exciting something stimulating something different
now i know there's a bit about
uh...
clipping
net conflict right
and i guess that's that's part of a human existence unlike because
i love this and i'm not doing this every time
outside their comfort zone
but for the magic happens
that's where the really cool stuff happens
that's where
you get butterflies that's where
you get excited that's where
you really feel like you've achieved something when you've done it
and every time i consciously challenge myself
to do something that is our side of my comfort zone
i noticed afterwards
a great sense of achievement
whether reflect out a lot right it doesn't even matter just the fact that i
do that
gives me such a boost
and it makes my comfort zone grow
and next time around i don't even think about allotment analysis going to be
okay
and i stopped agonizing
but i move on
to newark bigger challenges
so in terms of
meeting women attracting women
and two
giving greater meeting women
you've constantly constantly want to challenge yourself
he want to challenge yourself to get caught in the comforts of in
relationships
i tell you what from personal experience if you staying a comfort in the
relationship all the time
and you don't consciously growing it
you don't develop it you don't want to make it
everyday
it will stagnate
and you will find yourself at some point wondering what happened
because
sheet may have
done the same thing
and you both
noticed will bring up
going forward anymore we just that meeting
and that's very often home relationships i mean talking any parentals experience
i i have met
fifty relationships ok but uh... i did a few
that's how it was just often
and because
picture us seems to start making one or both persons mines
and said recall that this deep need to move forward to
to get stimulated to
break new ground at the same time we have our comfort zone and we have got
needful comfort
so
these are huge things
that are in conflict
so you want to make sure that you grow your comfort zone and that you
continues to everyday
tried to step on the comforter
if your comfort zone is yes i can talk to my friends of the party
and i can maybe talk to other
males of the party but i can't talk to women of the party
uh... congested practicing
on stepping outside
how to start a conversation with the person that the party that's female yet
pure doesn't have to be that you have to be interested to know what i wanted to
start a conversation
to step outside and look at the time
proved yourself that you can do it
and then do it again repeat a few times
and you see how u comforts and grows
all right
i've enjoyed milo whiteboard drawing i think it's very sexy is now look at that
receiving a little like
and so i speak to you soon ok i hope this was a normal and useful at the same
time clearly has a huge
and for most people that i know
i don't know anyone that is not struggling with this thing
uh... no matter how much money you have how smart you are whatever
this
your comfort zone home to continously make it bigger
and wider
and time
he's one of the key
ke challenges for people som
even men or women
use it to your advantage in be aware
that you don't get stuck in it
and that you don't continue to see only like try to
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