I will firstly check how much this is
So, it is too much. We're gonna split
Yours is non-alcoholic?
No
Really?
What are you doing?
You can have some of mine
Here's the bill
You know. I don't have my wallet.
Credit card.
No, no, fine. Ok.
No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding
I'm totally kidding.
Oh my God. No, I'm not kidding.
No, no, no
no, no, no, no?
No, no. Definitely not.
I'll pay.
No, I pay.
Why?
Cause.. I invited you out
I pay.
Ok, that makes sense.
Ok. Waiter!
Ok, thanks.
No problem.
How much is it?
I can pay.. like if..
How is your budget? Is your budget pretty tight recently?
I got it. It's ok.
Ok, I got it the next time.
I promise.
But one of the things - when I got it, it means there is hundred percent the next time?
And I won't repay you in any other way?
Oh no, no, no.
Cause I feel like I have to owe you something
If you pay, I don't feel right.
It's for me.
You know what, I think we should share.
No, it's ok. It's for me!
I had a good time, so...
Are you sure? Sure.
OK, I can pay next time.
In Germany, we have an equality between the sexes
I don't like to pay for the first date.
In Italy, we usually don't pay
because man doesn't let you pay
But I always offer
In Brazil, if guys don't pay the bill they are not getting a second date
Whoever invites needs to pay
He invites me so he's gonna pay
I am totally in agreement.
You gotta pick up the bill
It kinda shows that you're not a man if you pick it up
If you know your intentions, like if you know it's a date...
then the guy pays
Maybe when you get used to each other and you start liking each other
and we go on several more dates
I would do it then
If I was a guy in Sweden, personally I would be careful
I would probably ask "Hey, I can pay or do you want to split it?"
Usually the woman always asks to share
But I think it's a good quality if the guy offers
I wouldn't want them to pay cause it feels like I owe them something
I've been known even on first dates
to pretend I'm going to the bathroom and I'll pay the bill
I never pay. Never.
Men always pay.
In Russia, it's always like that
If the woman insists like "Hey, let's split.."
There is no problem
I'm gonna pay. If the girl says no
you have to ask one more time
if she says no, then you split it
Men always pay full bill
For first date, second date, third date...
Even if you go out on a date with your girlfriend
then she has one or two of her friends
you still gotta pick up the tab
For all the friends too?
Yeah. They're all girls. You're gonna be paying for them
Where were you this weekend?
I feel in Jordan, there is more focus on gender norms
You know - the guy is the provider.
Pay half or either 30 percent
30 percent?
You have it down to a percentage?
You know, there is nothing but awkwardness if you sit there and look at it
And then there is time to think about it and that's just not good for anybody
So you just pick it up, get the card out, put it down
I feel like that's so old-school
Cause it's like back in the days when men get paid a lot more than women
Woman likes to be safe
protected, secure
I like a girl to be the girl and I like a guy to be the guy
Do you offer or no?
No
I'd always offer only, only if I had a good time with someone
No, because I never ask a guy out
I would look for my bag just pretending
I was looking for my wallet
But just that
to be nice
It is expected now that the girls would offer
but the guy would definitely pay
I appreciate the token gesture of I'll contribute
but I would insist
She will ask and you can sort of read whether or not she's just saying that
or whether she actually wants to split it
Yeah, I don't want her to reach for her wallet
Why not?
I gotta take care of it
The offer's definitely nice...
If they don't offer than you're like.. eh.. okay
even though I know I'm gonna pay
How did you feel when she didn't offer to pay?
I mean.. I knew, I knew, I knew what I was getting into
If he didn't pay for the date, would you see him again?
Yeah, because I was fun!
Of course!
Hmm. I would think about it.
I don't know. Maybe...
Yeah.. but it's not a great first impression
If I really liked the guy I would be like "Ok, I'm gonna give it another shot"
We would have a small talk about it.
Would you ever pay for a guy on a date in Sweden?
Yes
How did he let you?
I don't know. They don't dare to say no.
I'm paying!
So was that a good date?
It was an excellent date!
I love it when my date smiles
and laughs at my silly jokes
It gives me incentive to pay.
I want my head on this side
Ok, so I'm pretty much paying for everybody
cause I got them all here so I owe them this date
Ok, thanks so much for watching the video, guys
I'll see you next Thursday!
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