welcome to Landria Onkka on YouTube here to help you break through fear and live an awesome life
it's almost December and we're just now having leaves turned here in Atlanta Georgia all right
you guys go to my landriaonkka.com site if you want to check out my immense I'm gonna start
posting them on my dotnet site also just so you guys know dotnet site is this channels link to is
my internet training helps it's an education you go to school and you'll learn how to create an
online business that's it don't make something up over that it's not MLM and all that crap alright
it's school the other one I'm gonna teach you how to break through fear and live an awesome
life and those two go together right so I want to answer a question somebody wrote how do you
know the difference between a midlife crisis and awakening are they the same thing no no um
so obviously this person must be experienced in midlife crisis meanie Breaking Away and I think
that what she meant was like she's like getting rid of everything like she doesn't want to be
the same relationship for the same job or she's like she wants to go live her life and we always
call that a midlife crisis why do we have midlife crisis because we haven't been doing the things
we love and we get into positions where we're told we're supposed to stay there and we evolve
as people but what we're doing for living who were with how we're functioning is not evolving with us
and that's why people get divorces somebody goes on you know often they become awake and the other
person you know gains weight and watches more TV and they they have no frequency connection
anymore okay you know sit and talk to the person if you're not going to work it out bye but society
says you can't do that - oh so sorry you're gonna divorce I'm like I'm not the heat so this is that
midlife crisis is we could stuck in this place and it's like oh this is it and that's always
something to pull out the kids and that and then then that stops the kids are gone you're stuck
in a job you don't love you're going what where are all those things that I was gonna do and you
didn't do them it's time to start doing them and that's not awakening my friend it is on some level
but awakening is when you you really realize all those things really don't matter awakening this
when you don't need all those things you don't you'll you'll be fulfilled no matter what you
do and you wouldn't you may make some decisions and ditch the job or ditch the relationship or
ditch the big expensive house that you don't need anymore that's what happened to me I didn't meant
nothing to me it really didn't that's a nice perk I love it you know it's nice it's nice to
have nice things I always have nice things I live in abundant very luxurious life but you
just connect it to that world and you realize none of it counts so if you're going to be this
space where you realizing that you know it isn't about I think midlife crisis is more about what I
didn't do with my life and what I want to do and I feel restricted and I need to go do it versus
awaking is I don't need to do anything I'm just gonna live in abundant life and you will make
some of those decisions though on the way along the way for different reasons all right so people
might be going I just I need to trail and do all these things and so they're stressed out about it
that's not a weakening you're not stressed out when you're waking you're just going you know
what I do want to travel so I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna sit my spouse down and say honey
there's some things I'd like to do I need to go see the world and I feel really good about this
would you like to join me if not I'm gonna take six months off and I'll gaya maybe you'll meet
me in Italy maybe in Greece France I don't know come meet me you sure you don't want to do this
and maybe it'll bring you together this personal goal are you leaving me to go well in a way yeah
but I'm not divorcing you I'm gonna go travel and do the things I wanted to but you're coming
from a very positive place not that the travel is going to make you happy it's just that you don't
need the things you're in now to make you happy and you're trying to make it work and it's not
working right the job okay maybe if I get the promotion and you're thinking with this none
of this is working for me what I really want to do so if you're an awake and peaceful state you
may go into the thing you want to do maybe you want to be a blacksmith we're in blacksmiths
here in Atlanta it's pretty cool glass blowers because of cool things going on here and all
over the world maybe you want to do that it may sound crazy to somebody but when you're awakened
you don't care about that if you're not awakened and you're like struggling with it then you may
still need approval for other people or Society or you're petrified to make those changes who
cares right bye if you want to be stuck in your unhappy job and all that stuff I'm gonna go live
my life but again coming from a place of peace and just saying you know what if you're a baby
boomer like I am you say you know what I I need to live my life the way I want to and it's time
and include those people that you can now I have always lived a life that I love always I have
never ever been in a spot where I thought oh my god you know I hate my life because even when I
was in my investment-banking job and I didn't love it anymore I was always conjuring up the
next thing I was gonna do and I quit everything I knew that that was I couldn't make that work I
was disconnected to that world that financial world had changed drastically drastically and
I was no longer connecting to it and I loved it and I didn't struggle with that I just knew that
the universe and I are one and that I was ready and open and I was going to accept what came and
sure enough all kinds of things came and now I'm here with you this would have never happened if
I had not made that move not because I needed it to be happy but because I was flowing with that
awakened state that I was you know connected to that said there are other paths for you to
go and you need to explore them there was no fear in that there's some uncomfortableness that comes
with it it's like you you know I I I've had the 3 a.m. sweats in the past before but now I always
know that there's always going to be some positive way and that the more I open up to that and I'm at
peace with that the quicker it'll come because I'm not attached to that thing I think it's gonna make
me happy and that's when you struggle it's like I want this and I have to have the money and I
have to have the house and if I lose this or the relationship and you're like fighting it you're
badly in it when you go into a peaceful state of awakening you accept it it does sometimes
you'll feel some pain but you will not feel struggle you're not battling it you're accepting
it and you're experiencing the sadness you're experiencing loss sometimes and so that's the
difference midlife crisis can be an awakening but most of the time people are just feeling like they
didn't live their lives the way they want to and that's changing right now this new earth hopefully
these kids coming up will not live that life where they're told to go get stuck in a nine-to-five and
Suze nine to nine that's killing them they're gonna start making choices in a world they love
and hopefully they're not going to go back and do these schools that are teaching them crap that
doesn't isn't real anymore even the science isn't true hopefully your parents will start to take
charge and say we're gonna switch into a world where I know Elon Musk's that's this there's a
school where kids get to try different things all the time until they find what they love and guess
what doesn't mean you have to do it for the rest of your life I've switched jobs and careers many
times I've been in terior designer I was in real estate oh it's a writer it just goes on and on
vestment banker I was an executive recruiter it was just I love trying different things and I may
continue to constantly switch gears but now I am an internet marketing entrepreneur I use that and
then I can have multiple things going on at the same time and explore all of my interests you can
live that world you can live a world where you're not in conflict or feeling like I need to get out
of this be at peace with it and move forward not because you feel like you've missed out on
anything because you are where you are you're in the present moment that's gone if you haven't done
something what can you do now and explore and expand and not worry anymore that's the beauty
of being a baby boomer most of us just don't give a crap anymore what anybody else thinks we lived
that world and it's going away so live the life you want live the life you love and know whether
it's a crisis a life crisis and doesn't have to be a baby boomer I know a lot of people very young
people are going through this are you living the life you love are you rebellion because of the
material world isn't suiting you well or are you just going to a different place where what you
were living doesn't resonate with your frequency and you're at peace you'll know if you're at
peace or not with what you're experiencing you'll know if you have to go to something
else like I did I knew I know I had to make the move alright you are whole imperfect strong and
powerful loving harmonious and happy go live that life you love be at peace with it namaste