So, you’ve just been ghosted.
I know, I know it hurts. I been there.
You were texting a girl, she was giving you great responses, you got excited and started thinking,
“Man I really got this in the bag! I can’t believe I’m gonna pull a babe that’s this hot!”
And then boom. Or not boom, rather. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Total silence.
You start obsessively checking your phone every 10 seconds just to see if she responded but nothing.
Every notification has you running across the room
to check your phone only to see it’s a stupid snap from one of your boys.
Ugh.
So what do you do?
Well, since you’re not subscribed nothing. Non-subscribers of Based Zeus are left out to dry,
fumbling around in their dating life with no direction and no chances of securing the babes.
Oh wait… you’re subscribed? Geez why didn’t you just say that!
Since you’re subscribed I’’m gonna tell you 5 EASY texts to send when
she ghosts you - all of which are guaranteed to get you a response!
#1 “I think you forgot to press send”
This message is by far the best ghost-buster out there.
I mean just look at how great it’s worked for me!
Are you starting to see why? This line is playful and assumes TONS of attraction. It assumes that
she’s massively attracted to you and assumes that you truly believe you’re deserving of a response.
As Charlie Munger says, “the best way to attract a desirable mate is to be deserving of one.
It establishes a masculine, high value frame. Think about it: Only a guy who
is CERTAIN the only reason a girl wouldn’t respond is because she FORGOT to press send.
This line also signals to the girl that you’re so used to other girls responding
to you that you have no problem assuming she’s just like them.
You can use it a few hours after no response, or even a few days after - try it out!
#2 Send a voice note
Voice notes contain 100x more emotion than a text message.
Through voice notes, she can hear your tonality, the playful and flirty
tone in your voice and the way your voice inflects as you flirt with her via audio.
It gives her a WAAAAAAYY better feel for who you are. And the audio element stimulates way
more emotion in the girl’s brain and will no doubt skyrocket your response rate.
Just don’t go breathing creepily into the microphone or trying to shove your tongue
through the thing otherwise the only calls you’ll be getting are from 911 to bang down your door.
Bonus tip: send a voice note that expands on what you said over text
or use it to follow up with something relevant to a prior conversation you two had.
#3 or wait maybe number 4, does the bonus tip count? I don’t know!
#3 Emphasize the message or question mark it
It’s easy, non-needy and serves as a gentle push. You’re basically saying,
“Hey I just realized you didn’t respond so here’s your reminder to respond to Daddy.”
It works best when you’re asking a question or in the middle of talking
about something that feels like it requires more of a response.
It shows the girl, hey - I want an answer to my question or “Hey - I’m talking to you”
It can be high value if done correctly, so use your own judgement and use it sparingly.
If the convo seems like it naturally ended don’t use this otherwise it seems needy.
If a conversation reaches its end just let it be or start a brand new convo later on.
Disclaimer: This one only works for my iPhone peeps, so if you got an Android
you’re out of luck until the next tip - oh lucky you, time for the next tip!
#4 or #5.. Benjamin did we count that bonus tip? Jeez I don’t even know anymore:
#5 Reply to her Instagram or Snapchat story
This is great because it’s the Least needy and most natural way to follow up and start
a new conversation but there’s a caveat…. she has to post a story for you to respond to.
But hey wait - there’s a 2nd caveat on top of the first caveat - I know lots of caveats… chances are
the average hot girl is posting at least one or two stories a week
at the bare minimum so that gives you decent odds she’ll post something for you to respond to.
As a refresher, the best way to reply to stories is to follow the F-F-P
framework I talked about in my last video.
Meaning, you should keep your message Fun, Flirty, and Playful.
It’s not rocket science bro, when replying to stories, just say the minimum necessary to get a
response. All you’re trying to do is get your foot in the door and open the loop for a new convo.
THAT’S IT. The examples from my manager Benjamin on screen show this in action. The replies are
as short as 1-2 words or a short sentence - that’s all you need to get the ball rolling.
The most important thing to keep in mind about replying to Instagram stories is this:
The quality of your profile will dictate the quality of her response.
Crappy profile = crappy, uninterested,
dry response from the girl (or even no response at all).
Amazing profile = amazing interested response from the girl,
just like you saw in the screenshots before.
If your profile is properly pimped out, there’s going to be so much pre-established value and
attraction with you that she won’t EVER want to ghost you - you’ll be GHOST-PROOF
This is because of something known as The Influencer Effect which is when girls start
to see you as this celebrity influencer, just by watching your stories and seeing your pictures.
Girls ghost guys for two reasons: 1) she doesn't know you and your
value well enough to give you time of day 2) she’s not attracted to you.
The influencer effect solves both of these issues and turns your profile into a babe magnet.
And in my newest video, I break down exactly how to create The influencer effect in-depth
by using a secret 4 word formula that will bypass girls’ “online shields”.
If you want to learn how to do this then click the link below and watch the free
video showing you how to create the influencer effect, you’ll also get a link to purchase my
InstaGame course which shows you how to create this influencer effect on your own profile.
The course comes with a 30 day moneyback guarantee so if you don’t like it for any
reason you get a full refund. You got nothing to lose so just try it out!
That my friends is it for now. I hope to see you in there!
See ya next time.