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>>> SOMETIMES GOING AFTER A SPECIFIC GOAL COULD BE EASIER
SAID THAN DONE.
WE ARE SO SCARED TO FAIL.
HOW TO OVERCOME THE FEARS AND
GO AFTER WHAT WE WANT?
IT IS THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY
TO DIVE IN WITH REAL TALK.
WE HAVE TARA -- CARA KNEER .
AND NYSSA GREEEN . AND RICH
REDMAN.
REDMAN.
REDMAN. HE HAS TOURED AND PLAYED WITH
ALMOST EVERY MAJOR NAME IN MUSIC
-- COUNTRY MUSIC. HE IS A
MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER, IS A
PRODUCER, AUTHOR, EDUCATOR AND
ACTOR.
ACTOR.
ACTOR. WE
ACTOR. WE ARE THRILLED TO HAVE HIM.
APPARENTLY, HE SMELLS NICE.
LET'S TALK AND HAVE YOU TELL US
ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING IN
TOWN.>> IT WAS TWO NIGHTS AGO
AND WE ROCKED SUNTRUST PARK.
40,000 OF OUR CLOSEST FRIENDS.
IT WAS SO HOT AND SO HUMID, BUT
AN EXCEPTIONAL SHOW.
WE ARE ON OUR 2018 TO HER.
THE NEW RECORD WITH JASON OUTING
-- JASON OUTING. WE ARE ON OUR
EIGHTH RECORD WITH JASON ALDEAN.
>> GO TO THE MOTIVATIONAL
SPEAKING PART.
SPEAKING PART. HOW DID THAT COME ABOUT
>> I FANCIED MYSELF AS A
TEACHER.
TEACHER.
TEACHER. I WAS BORN TO DO THAT.
I GOT MY MASTERS DEGREE IN
MUSIC EDUCATION.
MUSIC EDUCATION. I HAVE TAUGHT AT THE COLLEGIATE
LEVEL AND KINDERGARTNERS.
I HAVE ALWAYS DONE EDUCATIONAL
WORK SHOPS AND DRUM CLINICS.
THE TYPICAL DRUM IN IS THE
DRUMMER LOADS THE DRUMS IN AND
THERE'S A DRUM SOLO FOR 90
MINUTES AND OUT THE BACK DOOR I
WANTED IT TO BE MORE POSITIVE
AND HAVE POSITIVE TAKEAWAYS.
I CALL IT EDUTAINMENT.
>> A RENAISSANCE MAN.
>> EVEN INKING ABOUT OUR LAST --
EVEN THINKING ABOUT OUR LAST
TEST, ROSEY , SHE SAID I DON'T
WANT SOMEONE TO TELL ME HOW TO
BEAT ME.
BEAT ME.
BEAT ME. IT SOUNDS LIKE THAT IS WHAT YOU
HAVE DONE.
HAVE DONE. HAVE YOU SHIED AWAY FROM A
DREAM OR A GOAL? BECAUSE YOU
ARE AFRAID OF FAIL?
KAREN?
KAREN?
KAREN? >>
KAREN? >> IT IS SUBCONSCIOUS TO NOT
LET FEAR HOLD US DOWN.
I READ SOMETHING THAT SAYS WHEN
WE ARE LITTLE, EVERYONE TELLS
US TO GO FOR OUR DREAMS.
AS SOON AS YOU ARE AN ADULT,
YOU ARE TOLD TO GET IN AND
SETTLE.
SETTLE.
SETTLE. WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?
I THINK WE ALL DO IT, WHETHER
ON PURPOSE OR NOT.
>> THE PRACTICAL SIDE OF THINGS
COMES IN.
COMES IN.
COMES IN. WHEN WE ARE YOUNG, THE SKY IS
THE LIMIT.
THE LIMIT. BEEN, HOW MUCH WILL IT -- THEN,
HOW MUCH WILL IT COST.
WE ARE TOLD MAYBE THIS IS NOT
OBTAINABLE.
OBTAINABLE. YOU ARE AN EMMY AWARD WINNING
MAKEUP ARTIST, NYSSA GREEN .>>
I HAVE ALWAYS HAD ENCOURAGING
PEOPLE AROUND ME.
FROM MY PARENTS, COUSINS, AUNTS
AND UNCLES.
AND UNCLES. IT MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
EVEN BY THE TIME WE GET TO THE
POINT WHERE CHARIS SAID, PEOPLE
CAN THROW YOU OFF COURSE.
I COULD BRUSH THAT OFF.
YOU HAVE TO KEEP PUSHING.
>> RICH, WHEN YOU ARE TALKING
ABOUT MENTORING KIDS, PEOPLE
COME IN AND EVERYBODY ONES THAT
BREAK.
BREAK.
BREAK. WHAT DO YOU SAY TO SET
REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS? IT IS
NOT EASY.
NOT EASY.
NOT EASY. >> I SAY DO NOT BE REALISTIC.
GO FOR IT. I AM LUCKY I HAD
PARENTS WHO SAID SON, DO
SOMETHING BIG.
SOMETHING BIG. IT WAS 1976, DINOSAURS ROAMED
THE EARTH THAT I PICKED UP THE
STICKS.
STICKS.
STICKS. MY PARENTS SAID TAKE SOME
LESSONS.
LESSONS.
LESSONS. DROVE ME AROUND AND THEY GOT ME
INTO NIGHTCLUBS.
INTO NIGHTCLUBS. I ALWAYS KNEW WHAT I WANTED TO
DO.
DO.
DO. MY
DO. MY PARENTS SAID WE WILL GIVE
YOU EVERY POSSIBLE TOOL TO BE
SUCCESSFUL.
SUCCESSFUL. PEOPLE REACH OUT FOR BUSINESS
AND LIFE COACHING AND ICE IF
YOU WANT TO BE THE NEXT BIG
THING, DO IT.
YOU DO NOT WANT TO GO TO YOUR
GRAVE AND BE A MEMBER OF THE
COULD HAVE CLUB.
MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN. YOU ONE
LIFE.
LIFE.
LIFE. YOU
LIFE. YOU DO NOT NEED A PLAN LAID OUT
IN FRONT OF YOU.
TAKE THE FIRST STEP IN THE WAY
WILL BE REVEALED.
>> SPEAKING OF THAT, A RECENT
ARTICLE STATES THE EASIEST WAY
TO OVERCOME FEARS IS BY TAKING
THE FIRST SMALL STEP OR ACTION.
HERE ARE A FEW SUGGESTIONS.
APPRECIATE THE DAILY THINGS
THAT YOU CAN DO.
>> EVERY DAY I CAN BRUSH MY
TEETH.
TEETH.
TEETH. >>
TEETH. >> REALISTIC GOALS.
>> THAT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD AND
PRODUCTIVE.
PRODUCTIVE. >> WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT A TO DO
LIST.
LIST.
LIST. THE
LIST. THE FIRST COUPLE ARE EASY AND
ATTAINABLE.
ATTAINABLE. >> IT KEEPS YOU GOING. AS YOU
CROSS OFF.
CROSS OFF. >> I HAVE GONE BACK TO PAPER.
I LIKE TO CROSS THINGS OFF.
THAT LIST MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER.
>> I HAVE LIST OF LIST. IT
NEVER GETS SHORTER.
THE STUFF THAT HAS TO BE TAKEN
CARE OF RIGHT AWAY, I MOVE TO
THE TOP.>> I THINK THAT IS THE
KEY OF A SUCCESSFUL PERSON.
YOU ALWAYS HAVE GOALS. YOU ARE
NEVER SATISFIED.
NEVER SATISFIED. IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE CAREER.
IT COULD BE ANYTHING.
>> THE NEXT ONE, I WILL ASK YOU
TO WEIGH IN ON VISUALIZE
YOURSELF SUCCEEDING.
YOURSELF SUCCEEDING. I DO NOT YOU THAT.
I HEAR PEOPLE SAY SEE YOURSELF
DOING IT.
DOING IT.
DOING IT. I NEVER DO IT.
>> YOU SHOULD START WITH A
VISION BOARD.
VISION BOARD. BECAUSE IT IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF
YOU.
YOU.
YOU. >>
YOU. >> A
YOU. >> A VISION NO BOOK.
>> I HAVE HAD A VISION BOARD
FOR 10 YEARS.
I DO ONE EVERY YEAR.
>> TWICE A YEAR.
YOU CUT OUT PICTURES FROM A
MAGAZINE.
MAGAZINE.
MAGAZINE. >> WE HAD SOMEONE COME ON THEY
SHOWED TO TELL US HOW TO CREATE
ONE.
ONE.
ONE. >>
ONE. >> IF YOU CANNOT GET TO THAT
PLACE YOURSELF MENTALLY, GET A
VISION BOARD.
VISION BOARD. I DO NOT HAVE TIME TO DO THAT.
I CAN WAKE UP AND SEE THE
PICTURES ON MY POSTERBOARD.
VISION BOARDS WORK.
>> LET'S DO IT TOGETHER.
>> A VISION BOARD PARTY.
>> WE WILL CUT OUT OUR PICTURES
AND PASTE.
AND PASTE. >> THE GUEST WHO CAME ON
ENVISIONED A HAPPY MARRIAGE AND
SHE PUT HER HANDS BY A VISION
BOARD AND IT HAPPENED.
>> THE ATTRACTION IS A REAL
THING.
THING.
THING. >>
THING. >> WE WILL HAVE TO WORK ON THAT.
ALLOW YOURSELF TO IDENTIFY WITH
NEW POSSIBILITIES.>> NEVER BE
STAGNANT.
STAGNANT.
STAGNANT. ALWAYS MOVING FORWARD. FOR ME
PERSONALLY, I OPERATE UNDER THE
ENTERTAINMENT UMBRELLA.
ENTERTAINMENT UMBRELLA. EVERYTHING I DO IS NEAR
ENTERTAINMENT OR EDUCATION.
IN THE LAST COUPLE OF YEARS, I
TOOK A VOICE OVER CLASS I TOOK
ACTING CLASSES.
ACTING CLASSES. I GOT AN ACTING AGENT.
I AM READING TWO BOOKS.
AT ALL FITS UNDER THE DRUMMING
AND MUSIC THING.
WHAT IS IT I DO? WHAT ARE OTHER
THINGS CLOSELY RELATED TO WHAT
I DO?
I DO?
I DO? SO
I DO? SO YOU CAN CONTINUE TO GROW.
I WANT TO BE CREATIVE IN
DIFFERENT WAYS.>> AND MAKING
YOURSELF AND LEARNING EVERY
FACET OF THE BUSINESS.
IF ANYONE ASKED ABOUT TELEVISION
, EVERY SINGLE THING THAT YOU
CAN ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE
PASSIONATE ABOUT.
PASSIONATE ABOUT. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH A
SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY.
SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY. >> I HAVE TO BE CAREFUL ABOUT
WHAT I SAY OUT LOUD MY HUSBAND
WILL SAY LET'S DO IT.
HOW WILL YOU GET THERE?
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
HE REALLY MOTIVATES ME.
I DO NOT KNOW IF I WOULD BE SO
SELF MOTIVATING WITHOUT HIM TO
PUSH ME.>> WE WILL GETS ONE
PERSON ON THE PANEL TO TALK
ABOUT YOUR MOM.
>> MY PARENTS WERE SAYING, JUST
SETTLE DOWN.
SETTLE DOWN. >> SHE IS NOT A DREAM KILLER,
SHE IS REALISTIC AND PUTS IT
OUT THERE.
OUT THERE. >> THERE IS SOME PART OF MY
BRAIN THAT IS DORMANT AND DOES
NOT HEAR THE NAYSAYING.
>> THAT IS GOOD.
>> NAYSAYERS AND NEGATIVE
NELLY'S.
NELLY'S.
NELLY'S. >> WE TALKED ABOUT THAT.
DITCHING FRIENDS WHO ARE NOT
SUPPORTIVE AND DO NOT SUPPORT
YOUR DREAMS.>> WE ARE ALMOST
OUT OF TIME.
ASK WHAT IF.
>> WHAT IF I AM NOT HERE
TOMORROW?
TOMORROW?
TOMORROW? I AM STARTING MY NEW CAREER
TOMORROW.
TOMORROW.
TOMORROW. WHAT IF?
WHAT IF?
WHAT IF? >> WHY NOT?
>> LIFE IS FILLED WITH ENDLESS
POSSIBILITIES.
POSSIBILITIES. TAKE THE BULL BY THE HORNS AND
DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO DO IN
THIS LIFETIME.
THIS LIFETIME. MAKE IT HAPPEN AND SURROUND
YOURSELF WITH LIKE-MINDED
INDIVIDUALS.
INDIVIDUALS. TAKE ACTION IMMEDIATELY.
>> WILL BE WRITING COUNTRY
MUSIC SONGS TOMORROW.
>> I WOULD SAY EVERYTHING RICH
SAID.
SAID.
SAID. AFTER MAC -- [LAUGHTER]
>> FACEBOOK POLL, HOW DO YOU
MOVE PAST YOUR FEARS? PLAN AND
VISUALIZE OR JUST DO IT?
IT IS NOT A RUN AWAY.
A LOT OF PEOPLE -- 67 PERCENT
WAS JUST DO IT.
>> NIKE HAD IT RIGHT.
>> MAKE IT HAPPEN RIGHT NOW.
>> WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
>> WRITING SONGS IN A VISION
BOARD.>> YOU CAN LEARN MORE
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