what's up guys i'm in phenom penh cambodia right now down by the river
which despite all the trash is considered a rather romantic area a lot
of couples come here to do the romantic thing and speaking of romance i just saw
the movie 50 shades of grey watch it a few times and I noticed a lot of
interesting and attractive qualities that mr. great presents and i watch it
with a couple different women and they chimed in on some of the attributes that
they died or what that they found attractive and mr. gray so I want to
make this video and go over 11 of those attractive qualities that i found if you
a jab some of the attributes that he possesses you'll no doubt become a more
attractive man the first attribute is power
he is definitely a powerful man and you can sense that right away through his
body language his eye contact the way he carries himself and in particular the
way he handles himself in really any situation he's always in control the
situation
he's always taking the lead he's leading whether it's anastasia or you know
somebody else in the movie and he's also leading himself the first person that
you have to be able to lead is yourself and what I mean by that is you have to
have control over your emotions when you feel angry when a woman says something
that out of the blue and it makes you feel angry or just thrown off corpse or
you get disturbed instead of blowing up at her take a second
take a deep breath get grounded comfortable place where feeling very
centered and relax and then respond in the movie anytime
Anastasia says something that's that would potentially make a guy get very
angry
he's always calm he's always collected and you can learn a lot from that one
pretty obvious straight that Christian has
his ambition but he's a billionaire he created this huge Empire so the reason
why that's attractive is because it shows that you're a guy who goes for
what he wants in life you're a guy who has some sort of purpose and mission in
life
no woman wants to date a guy whose whole purpose in life is to attract a woman or
have a girlfriend now I know that's kind of controversial someone will say yes I
just want a man who's just devoted to me and that's all he does
most women don't want that they want a man who's on some sort of mission
purpose usually it's clear mission doesn't have to be it could be your
passion on the side could be feeding the homeless or something like that but it
shows that you have something going for yourself other than just wanting to
please a woman fact the whole idea of just wanting to you know be on this
planet just to please a woman I you know a woman's mind that might sound
attractive at first but after a while the woman will lose interest in you she
will lose interesting because she wants a man who has something bigger than
himself something that he's going for something that he's striving to achieve
this is partly why women are attracted to money why they're attracted to guys
and bands because they're pursuing something they have this mission and
that's very hard to achieve but yet they're saying fucking I'm gonna do it
anyway Christian does a great job of showing his interest but also takes it
away by being a challenge
he's not overly invested or overly interested in her right away because if
you do that then it shows the woman that you have really very little standards
because you don't know much about her and that you have no other options
Christian obviously has a lot of options he's a billionaire and he shows that by
being challenged by saying things like I don't remember exactly what the lines
are but something like you should run away from me right now I'm no good for
you Anna things like that as he's showing interest at the same time like
you lean in like he's gonna go for kiss and then all of a sudden he turns away
when she closes her eyes and goes into the bathroom
right so the reason that works so well is because it keeps her on her toes
she's always wondering what's going to happen what's he gonna do next
she never knows she never quite figure them out and that's a very attractive
quality
once a woman can completely figure you out then the mystery is gone you know
there's no challenge left she knows that you like her
he knows that you're into her completely a hundred percent she knows that she can
have you and then what fun is that right there's no drama left there's no there's
nothing fun about that really and women want a chase they want a guy who's a
challenge it's more fun for them it's more of a game and let's face it
women do like a game and believe it or not much as guys don't want to admit it
they like a game to they like a woman who's a challenge
they don't want every woman to just say yeah okay also with you in five minutes
at first you probably like that probably pretty nice but after a while it would
get old it would get boring you would appreciate the woman that's a challenge
fact you can probably think of some examples right now maybe there's two
women who you thought were equally as attractive one would just basically say
should come over anytime she wants
and maybe the other one was a challenge which one did you like more which one
would you rather go on a date with the one who you could have at any moment or
the one who couldn't have
she was a challenge maybe she's just busy right so be a challenge work on
that and it's not something that you just fake yeah you can fake it till you
make it
but really become a challenge
speaking of being a challenge and keeping Anastasia on her toes christian
is definitely mysterious he has its really mysterious vibe
she can't quite figure him out in the sense that she's trying to find more
information about him about his childhood his past and what made him the
way he is and like the things that he likes and he only discloses a little bit
of information now if he or you were to disclose no information to a girl she
asked you a question and you just dodged it every time with either a funny witty
response or just ignoring it
that would only work some of the time eventually she'd be like I don't know
this guy at all and i'm losing interest because she does a woman definitely
wants to get to know you but on the flip side if you just give all you know
everything about you to quickly let's say on the first day you just tell her
everything about you then all the mystery is gone and she's not going to
feel like there's any reason really to go on a second or third day because
there's nothing else to find out about you if she feels like she knows so much
about you so quickly i found that this can be a problem with online dating and
for those who basically give up too much information and just go back and forth
with emails over and over on and on and then finally when they meet up in person
it's like okay what do we talk about I know everything about you there's really
nothing else to know so be a mystery let a woman figure you out and don't give
all the information about you to quickly now Christian isn't all just power and
challenge
he also shows that softer side which i really like because if you're just all
power to a woman and you're all just that strong eye contact intensity and
you're always like rods my way or the highway that can work for some women but
a high-quality woman is gonna get tired of that because she's gonna feel like
he's just overly controlling it's good to control the situation but if you're
overly controlling where the girl has no say in the matter at all
that's not attractive so he shows his softer side especially when he gets
vulnerable and you show some weaknesses in his life because here he is this
billionaire he's like kind of on a pedestal and when you show your
vulnerable side you're you that's the best way to connect because it shows
your human side because we all have vulnerabilities we all have insecurities
we all have fears so if you can talk about how you had a fear especially how
you overcame that fear that can work really well be careful you don't want to
go overboard and show all these fears and all these insecurities you have is
obviously that's not a true
active either but once in awhile and work really well in building a really
deep bond and connection
speaking of showing his softer side another way he does this is by showing
interest in her and showing that he cares about her as a person not just for
her looks
now this is so important because women want to be appreciated for things other
than their beauty
yes they do want to be appreciated for their beauty but they also want to be
appreciated for who they are on the inside and even in that first opening
scene where she's interviewing him he does a great job by showing and
expressing interest in her as well showing that he wants to get to know her
as as a person and get to know her on the inside so when you do this when you
show interest in the woman and who she is on the inside it works really really
well and it really helps in building a connection and report because it shows
that you appreciate her for who she is and we all crave as humans we crave to
be appreciated the next thing I noticed was Christians intensity in fact I think
he overdoes it a little bit because he really never or at least hardly ever
smiles in the entire movie is very intense
now this works because it should create sexual tension in these different
interactions between him and Anastasia he's making this really strong eye
contact where he's not even blinking half the time and it creates the sexual
tension between both of them because most people would release tension very
quickly they would laugh to release tension they look away they would blink
look down and that breaks any sexual tension between a man and a woman when
you hold eye contact when you talk slowly calmly just like mr. gray does in
the movie with a low tonality as well
when you speak that way to a woman even if you're not speaking of anything
that's inherently sexual in nature it still creates some sexual tension so i
encourage you to try it out and see for yourself
see if you can create an intense moment that has a lot of sexual a lot of sexual
tension next time you're interacting with a woman that you're attracted to
one thing that I like about christian is that he's unapologetic about who he is
and what he likes and doesn't like you basically explains and I like this is my
lifestyle this is what I want in a relationship and take it or leave it
he's got that kind of take it or leave it attitude but at the same time he
maintains a little bit of balance as he's becoming more interested in her and
she's winning him over he starts to compromise a little bit right he starts
saying okay yeah we'll do some of those things that you want to do will change
it up a bit and that's really key is to be flexible but at the same time
don't apologize for who you are as a man or what you're interested in or not
interested in even if something that's a little quirky even if it's something
that's a little nerdy you're into video games or world of warcraft dungeons and
dragons or something like that inherently add those may not be super
attractive things but if you own up to it and you say yeah this is who I am
this is what I like you know take-it-or-leave-it that's gonna be very
attractive because you're only who you are it's showing that you have high
self-esteem it shows that you like who you are and women want that women don't
want a guy who doesn't know who he is and apologizes for everything and Paul
especially apologizes for who he is a man or who he is as far his far as his
likes and dislikes no own up to it on all the quirky and nerdy things that
you're into even if you're into comic books and things like that just own up
to it
confess right away that you're into those kind of things and guess what if
you are into it and you speak about those things with passion
conviction nine out of ten times the girls can be interested in your stamp
collection or whatever it is you want to know more about it it actually become
something that's attractive
now after talking to some of the women who have watched the movie the fact that
Christian is very possessive of her and really doesn't want anybody else dating
her and even seems to me like you got a little bit jealous when he she was
talking to other guys or when other guys were kind of hitting on her flirting
with her
I never really thought of that is such an attractive quality but women want to
be owned in a sense now I don't mean the head in the slavery sense at all
I just mean they want a guy who says yes this woman is mine
she's nobody else's she's just mine and I don't want anybody else either it's
just me and her
that's what most women want especially women that are looking for a
relationship
they don't want a guy who's going to go around and sleep with other women and
they don't want a guy who wants their woman to do the same so that sense of
ownership or belonging is something that women definitely find attractive
especially i would say later on in the relationship you start doing that too
soon when you first meet a girl at a bar club and you start you know shopping
acting like she's yours and nobody else can talk to her and any other guy that
talks to her you like tell them to get lost
that may not work to your advantage in fact that it's probably gonna shoot you
in the foot if you do that but later on in the relationship even possibly on the
first date maybe go to the bathroom and there's a guy talking to her doesn't
mean you should be like hey get lost man you do it in a very you know cordial
friendly way
hey hey what's up man nice to meet you shake his hand and then get back to your
date and take you know
hey come on baby we're getting out of here that's in a sense its protection
that's what it shows women that you were the type of guy that's going to protect
her from any other dangers even if its other guys and finally Christian knows
how to seduce a woman he just flat-out seduces her
very beginning you can tell that he is showing interest in our right away that
this is not going to be a friendship that this is going to be either lovers
or basically nothing so if you're having trouble falling into the friend zone and
that's something that happens to you quite often then it's because you're
coming off as nice and friendly in the very beginning instead coming off as a
powerful confident man who shows interest in her right away in a very
confident way not a weird creepy way where you're saying like I like you I
like you the way Christian does it he does it through his eye contact he does
it through his tonality and he does it through escalating as well and asking
her out on a date
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below let me know any other attributes that I didn't name what else did you
think was very attractive about mr. gray whether you're a guy or a girl it
doesn't matter what attributes did you think that women would find very
attractive in him or maybe there's some other characters in Hollywood that you
think are really attractive
what are the attributes and the characteristics that they possess and
how can you start a
adapting them as your own I wish you the best of luck