How good are you at sexting? Do you do it often? Never tried it before? Or do you try to engage
in it sometimes but you're not sure how to do it really well so that both of you end up hot,
juicy and ready for more? Well, let me take you by the hand and guide you into the exciting world
of sexting your lover like a real bedroom pro! My name is Helena Nista and I make videos that help
you have the best sex of your life. And today we're uncovering all the secrets of the yummy
art of sexting your lover. Sexting can be used in different situations and in different ways.
You can sext with your current partner in order to keep things fun and flirty during the day,
when you're not together. Or you can sext with a new lover to learn about each other's desires
and preferences, and to start forming a sexy connection between the two of you.
You can also sext when your partner is away and you want to keep sex on each other's minds, etc.
Sexting can be really fun but it also requires some creativity. Which is why I'm going to give
you 10 different ideas to use and play with. I personally really love sexting and I've done
quite a lot of it over the years, mainly when my lover was away from me. And funnily enough it
never happened through actual text messages but rather through WhatsApp or Facebook messenger,
etc. Sometimes it was about playing out an actual sex scene together, where we keep telling each
other what we're doing to each other's bodies. At other times we'd be playing with our own
bodies and describing to each other what we're doing and how it feels. With or without photos.
Do you ever wonder about all of these naked photos of yourself you've sent over the years?
I mean who has them and whatever has happened to them? A big part of fun whilst sexting is the
anticipation of what they're going to say or write next. It's that wait, that space between messages
that adds an extra spice to the whole experience. So first of all, what medium to use? In the modern
age we have many different options here. We can use the written messages or voice messages,
we can use photos and even videos. So see what both you and your lover are up for. Starting
slow here can be a really good idea, so simply written messages might be your way to start.
If this is the first time you're engaging in sexting, check in with your lover if they're
up for it. Particularly if you expect that this kind of messages might potentially make
them feel uncomfortable or uncertain how to proceed. So reach out with something gentle,
like "hi babe, I keep thinking about you and about all the things I'd like to do to you,
would you like to hear more?". Once you know that they're happy to proceed, start with a little warm
up. Don't give away too much too quickly but play with some teasing first. Tell them about that sexy
item you're wearing, about that horny feeling in your body, about the desire you have for their
body, etc. This could look like: "honey, do you remember that lacy underwear I wore last week?
well I'm wearing it again and it's making me feel like your sex kitten". Or "I can't stop
thinking about how much I desire to kiss and hold you right now". Tell your partner what
you like and enjoy about their body. And make sure to go into detail! Writing "you're sexy"
is really not as impactful or hot as saying "I love the way you move and shake your gorgeous bum,
it really turns me on!" or "I love burying my face in your strong hairy chest, even thinking about it
drives me crazy with desire for you". This one is really hot - share with your partner what you'd
love to do to them. It will let their arousal go wild when imagining in their head everything
that you're talking about. For example "I'm going to do despicable things to you tonight!"
or "I can't wait to lick, suck and kiss your wet pussy" or "hard cock". You can also ask
what they'd like to do to you. Another awesome way to sext is to share what you desire your partner
to do to you. This can range from gentle little things like your lover looking deep into your eyes
or licking your ear, all the way to the smoking hot ones like spanking you, riding you or tying
you up and teasing you mercilessly. Also ask them what they'd like you to do to them. This one
works particularly well if you're away from each other for a few nights. Invite your partner to
masturbate at the same time and to share naughty messages and photos or videos with you. Describe
what you're doing to yourself and how it feels. For example "I'm stroking my nipples right now and
it's sending yummy shivers down to my cock" or "my pussy". Or "I'm rubbing my cock and it's making me
harder and harder". Pretend that you're in bed together and keep describing to your partner
what you're doing to them. For example "I'm slowly removing your shirt and gently, sensually stroking
your skin with my fingers. I'm reaching down between your legs and feeling your hardness"
or "your wetness". Encourage your partner to keep messaging your back so this becomes a
yummy exchange until both of you feel satisfied. For couples who have been together for a while,
it can be a wonderful thing to bring up some sexy memories. For example "remember that time we went
away and we had sex on the rug in front of the fire? remember how you kept sucking and licking
me until I exploded in that mind-blowing orgasm?". Encourage them also to share their favourite sexy
memory with you. This one can feel a little tricky to many people. Describing fantasies to each other
can feel very vulnerable and not everyone is ready for it. But see if your partner would
like to explore this together. The thing about sexual fantasies is that they don't necessarily
need to be acted on. They can simply remain in the realm of our imagination, where they can
serve to fuel our arousal and desire. So sharing your fantasies with each other doesn't necessarily
mean that they need to be played out. Using emojis is obviously optional here but can be a fun little
way to add a bit of extra playfulness to the mix. In our modern world emojis have become a normal
and common part of online communication. So why not use them to spice up your own sexting game.
On a final note, remember that you'll get out of your sexting experience what you put into it.
So don't half-ass your way through it! Remember that the more enthusiastic you are, the more fun
and exciting this will be for both people. Also make sure to include a lot of details and be as
specific as you can in your descriptions. Being generic might work to an extent but plenty of
details in your descriptions will really heighten the experience. Make sure to also express your own
excitement about what's happening and about your partner's messages. And express your appreciation
for them, that they were willing and keen to sext with you. This way they'll be even more keen to
play sexting in the future. And they might even initiate it next time! I hope that you enjoyed
this guide to sexting and that you use some or all of my tips. Please make sure to leave me a "Like",
a comment below with your favourite sexy emoji and make sure to check out my free
online course Tantra For Beginners. I've linked it in the description below. Thank you so much
for being here, for watching my videos and for engaging with me in sexy message exchanges in
the comment section. I really look forward to reading what you have to say! See you next time!