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today we're going to cover one of my
favorite topics regarding the law of
attraction and that is
act as if the paradox that makes up our
reality
is that we get what we want when we stop
wanting it once we drop our
feelings of desperate desire for
something and we simply feel like we
already have it
it comes to us i think that acting as if
is one of the most fun and useful ways
of tapping into the law of attraction
into the universal laws because you get
to get into character and to pretend to
be already experiencing the reality that
you
desire however acting as if is not just
a game it's a powerful tool that echoes
the underlying principles of cognitive
behavioral therapy acting as it can help
us work through unhealthy habits and
behaviors it's extremely useful in
changing thoughts
beliefs and attitudes and has even been
used to treat depression and other
mental illnesses though the spiritual
community may have only jumped on the
acting as if bandwagon when they heard
about it in
the secret or through abraham and esther
hicks
this method has actually been around
since the 20th century and even earlier
when aristotle mused over the idea that
to be a virtuous person
you have to act like a virtuous person
florence scoville shin which i mentioned
often in my videos talked about acting
as if in her book the game of life and
how to play it
as early as in the 1920s so this is not
a new thing acting as if is simply
behaving
thinking and feeling as if we already
have whatever it is that we want or that
something that we want to happen is
already occurring in our lives or that
we already know how to do something that
we really want to do because this is
such a powerful tool i wanted to break
it down for you guys into
four steps because like i said in my
other videos successful people take
big concepts and break them down into
simple bite-sized pieces
as to best consume that knowledge and to
remember it so without further ado
here's acting as if in four steps number
one
is act the part acting the part is the
first step to utilizing this method
whatever it is that you're trying to
attract
whether it be a new career or a friend
or a partner
a new house or a physical change you
have to physically behave
as if you already have it that means if
you desire to be
in the medical field for example behave
as someone who is in the medical
field would behave would a doctor be
getting drunk every night
at the club and posting out instagram
maybe but
probably not so you have to act
accordingly if you would like to be rich
act rich by spending happily and
generously
this is something many of us have to
work on especially if you're low on cash
so many of us dread to spend even one
dollar and we pay for things with
regret and sadness that's the quickest
way to become
even poorer to become rich spend happily
like miss florence kovushan
wrote bills should be paid cheerfully
all money should be sent forth
fearlessly and with a blessing enjoy
whatever it is that you're paying for
even if it's a bill act as if you are
enjoying it
be generous whatever you give will come
back to you it's just like karma
it's whatever you put out to the
universe will come back to you i find
that the more generous i am
the more money comes to me practice this
by giving to anybody who needs whenever
you have the ability to
and whenever you spend whenever you take
out a dollar always spend it
happily and joyously so a good way to
figure out how to act the part for
whatever it is that you're trying to
manifest
is to first write down whatever it is
that you want if it's a partner for
example write that down
then consider how you would behave if
you already had this person
write down all the things you would do
and think and then start behaving in
that way
adopt those things into your life number
two speak the part or talk the talk
speaking the part has a lot to do with
talking things into existence
it's also about your reaction to
everything to life's stimuli
watch the way that you speak about
yourself and your life
if it doesn't align with that reality
that you are
going after then you have to change it
and you must change it
on the spot when you catch yourself
saying something like i'm gaining weight
or there are no good men or i can't find
a job
immediately correct yourself and say it
out loud say
i am fit and happy and healthy say
i meet good men wherever i go i'm
receiving
job offers left and right also take
notice to how you react to people and
things that happen
in everyday occurrences make sure to
only speak and react in the way that you
would
once you already have whatever it is
that you want so if you tell your
friends that you can't go out to eat
because you're poor you're going to stay
poor
that's not acting as if that's not
speaking the part you have to talk about
it like you already have it
number three look the part hey yo what's
up playboy how come you're wearing that
suit baby for real it's 85
degrees out here you trying to be like
pat riley man look the part b department
the reason why i think looking the part
is so important is because when you look
good you feel good and your vibration
raises and that's how you make things
happen to you
much faster you speed up that creative
process you've probably heard people say
dress for the job that you want not the
job that you have
that is 100 on point buy clothes for
that profession that you desire
and if it's possible start dressing that
way every day to work to school wherever
you go if you can't do that if you can't
wear those clothes on an everyday basis
still try to purchase some items that
you would need
when you do have that job you could use
number three look the part for anything
not just to get the job that you want
you can create the look that you want
for the person that you want to be
or the way that you want to brand
yourself you can even dress a certain
way in order to feel a certain way a lot
of people try to manifest happiness
dress the way that makes you happy truly
if that means you're going to cosplay
every day cosplay every day you deserve
it
for example i have a very specific image
in my mind about the
way i want to present myself many of you
guys know that i'm super influenced by
other cultures
i love other cultures i love to travel
and one culture i'm extremely fascinated
by
is that of the french i took five years
of french
in school and in college just to become
more parisian get contacted by a lot of
brands
almost every day who want to send me
clothes to wearing videos or to
shout them out whatever and out of
courtesy i always check out those brands
but i usually end up saying no
however this one brand bijou viju
encompassed that
sexy french vibe that i'm so enamored
with when i went to check out the brand
they have this video on their website
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that was just exactly the look that i'm
going for it reminded me kind of like
misa misa from death note and i really
just had to say yes
naturally i'm wearing this top by them
now and i feel like it gives me that
french
vibe that i love and you guys already
know that i love strapless anything so
that's a part of my process of acting as
if
find clothes or a look that fits you and
the brand that you want to create
or the person that you want to be and
wear that you deserve to feel amazing
you deserve to feel like you look good
number four wraps all of this
up believe in the character you have got
to believe in the character that you've
created and that you are playing
fully you have to love that character
while still loving yourself
because you and that character are one
in the same we're simply enhancing the
traits that are already
within us and bringing them out more
while lovingly and gently pushing away
things that no longer serve us aspects
of our personality
or of our life that no longer help us
are even
damaging and harmful to us you know that
you are already complete
you're perfect the way that you are but
if it's needed it's okay to want a
better job
or to want a better boyfriend or
girlfriend or to want to look better
have a better house have a better car
it's okay you're allowed to feel that
way
the thing is you can act the part speak
the part and look the part
but if you don't truly believe that that
character exists within you
and is coming into fruition then you
will never fully get there
with practice and in time acting as if
is going to make you feel so confident
and make your visualizations come to
life
it is such a fun path to non-resistance
and belief for anyone who wants to take
their creative process to the next
level let go of the want and the feeling
of absence
act as if you already have exactly what
you want
don't resent others for having it
celebrate them for having the same taste
or the same passion as you
we are vibrational beings we offer
vibrational frequencies
and the universe responds to those
frequencies you can tell what's coming
by tapping into the way that you feel
if you're feeling the way you would feel
once you have
what it is that you want by acting as if
you're going to get it
what is yours will not pass you by okay
my love so that's it for my act as if
video i tried to kind of sum up
everything i got a bunch of questions i
tried to answer them as best as i can
by making this pretty general and for
everybody please let me know if you have
any more questions and also
let me know what your act as if process
is what have you done
to act as if you already received what
you're trying to manifest let everybody
know what your process is thank you as
always
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