Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video,
let's talk about dancing and how to ask girls to dance. Here's how what you to
do, I want you to stick around until the end of this video because at the end of the
video, I'm going to be explaining what dancing really leads to because of
course I'm just guessing here you don't just want to dance with a girl. You
probably want to take her out, you want to get her on a date,
you want to do more than just dancing so at the end of this video I'll be
going over the most important part about what you need to do after you guys dance.
Let's get into a couple ways that I know have been proven to be amazing at
asking a girl to dance. Here we go. There's a couple of situations. You
might be talking to a girl first or you might see a girl on the dance floor. I
know that's a more common one as you see a girl on the dance floor. You're at a
nightclub something like that and you want to actually go over there and dance.
Let's start with the most common one because I know a lot of guys have asked
me that question. What do you do when you see a girl over there and you want to
start dancing with her and she's with her friends and she's having a good time?
How do you go over there and start to dance? Here's one of the best ways
I've found and it's going to take a little bit of courage, a little bit
confidence, and a little bit of humility. What you need to do is when you see a
group of girls dancing and you see a girl that you want to go over and you want to
dance with, one of the best ways is actually to go over there and just start
dancing with the group but doing in like a fun humorous way. Just going
over there and just kind of dancing a little bit and just showing that you're
having fun in the club and you're enjoying dancing. Go over
into the dance floor, start dancing, start enjoying it. Just kind of move your arms
around, whatever you feel is fun for you and then move that over towards those
girls to show them that you're like hey I'm having fun just like you guys, I'm
dancing and the best part about all this is you don't have to actually be a good
dancer. You can just be moving your arms around, shaking your butt a little bit,
having a good time and you're doing that with those girls and they're going to
see wow here's a guy who's having a good time. Because they're not necessarily
looking to dance with a guy who's an amazing dancer. At the end of the day most
people most guys they're not good dancers. You're probably
not a good answer. I'm not even a great dancer. As long as you can maybe move to the
rhythm a little bit. Just go over there, show that you're having fun, start
dancing, start getting wild, enjoying dancing around the group and
then from there you can start to single in on the girl that you're interested in.
Once she sees that you're a fun cool guy then you can zero in on that girl and
start dancing with her. You don't need to ask her, you can just kind of start dancing
and moving your way into that. You're going to be another situation where
maybe you're talking to a girl or maybe there's a girl who's around the bar or
the club or wherever and she's with some friends and you want to go and dance
with her. It's very simple. First, if you're just talking to a girl, you guys
are having a good time, you're in the middle of the conversation and you want to dance
with her, you just go like this, you say hey you know what, let's continue this
conversation later and let's go dance. Come on, let's go. You're not really
asking. You're more kind of telling her. If she says no, she says no. But you're saying
hey let's go dance, come on let's go and then you put your hand out, grab her hand
and then you guys go to the dance floor. Very simple, very direct, very powerful,
very masculine move. Or if you want to have some fun, you can always go up to a
girl who is at a club and she's with some friends and you can go over and
go up to her and that can be your line if you want. You might get
rejected, you might want to just start talking to the girl first and then move
your way to dancing or you can just try it out. Have some fun, go to a random girl
and say hey I want to dance with you come on, let's go dance right now.
You're kind of also directing that girl. You can also be kind of like old-school
chivalrous and be like you know would you care to dance my lady? Or just
something fun like that. Whatever is fun and funny and interesting to you. Would
you care to dance? Again I don't want you to copy and paste
some of the lines I'm saying. It's more what's comfortable for you, what's fun for
you because that's going to come off more authentic and more real and that is
what she's going to like. The big idea here in terms of dancing and asking
girls to dance and getting them on the dance floor and all that stuff is not
about the actual dancing. What you need to do eventually is you need to
connect with her one-to-one by talking with her and getting into what I call a
little "we bubble" where it's just you two having a good conversation so she
can have the opportunity to become attracted to you. That's what she needs.
Dancing is only maybe a quarter of the battle and you don't even
need to do that. What you want to do is when you're on the dance floor with
her make sure that when you guys are dancing eventually you take her off the
dance floor maybe you go grab some water, maybe you grab a drink, whatever it is,
and then you guys talk, you get to know each other and you get her invest in you
by having a good conversation. Of course you might have already been doing this.
Like I said, you could be in a situation where you're talking to a girl
and then you go dance but make sure you still come back after dancing to go and
talk and to connect with each other so you have an opportunity to get her
number and then to see her again so dancing is not enough. You need to be
able to converse with her, to talk to her and give her time to build attraction so
you can get her number and so you can see her again. If
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