Howdy, fellas.
Welcome to Mantelligence.
It’s me again, Beardy.
Kay was supposed to be here today but she’s MIA.
But that’s okay.
Because I’m completely capable of getting today’s message across.
You sure about that, Beardy?
Kay, you’re here!
Yep, I knew you couldn’t handle this on your own…
(Awwww…)
Here’s the thing, fellas...
If you’re like most guys, you’ve experienced firsthand just how confusing it can be to
figure out if a girl is into you or not.
So to make it easier for you, we’ve rounded up 5 of the HIDDEN signs that it’s time
to give up on this one and move onto greener pastures.
And if you are a regular here at Mantelligence, which I know you are, you know that we always
include a bonus towards the end of our videos.
Yep, at the end of this video we’ll also show you the #1 sign a girl is DEFINITELY
into you.
So sit tight and let’s take a look at the 5 hidden signs a girl doesn’t like you +
the one sign she totally does.
5. Literally Laidback
Alright guys, here’s a fact.
When us humans - oh…
Well, you humans (because Kay and I don’t actually exist), are attracted to someone,
your natural instinct is to get closer.
Your mind basically tells you that you want to be near a person you like, near enough
to kiss, to touch, hear, or to even just smell.
It’s human nature to feel the need to connect to someone you like and your body naturally
finds ways to make it happen.
Leaning forward is the best manifestation of this and definitely one of the body language
signs she’s attracted to you.
And as hard it can be to read the signs that she’s into you, it can be just as hard to
recognize the opposite.
So one of the clearest body language signs she’s NOT attracted to you is this: she
sits back comfortably in her chair and doesn’t even bother to try and get a whiff of you.
If her body language doesn’t scream, “I’m into you”, she’s probably not.
4. Social Media Mystery
Today, almost everyone is on social media.
And most won’t admit it, but girls like me just loooove showing ourselves off on it.
We know when we look good and let’s face it…
The validation feels great.
Unfortunately, unless they’re a solid 10, guys don’t get NEARLY as much attention
on social media as girls.
And this is where the problem lies for you, gentlemen.
You’re in competition with every other guy who sees her posts.
So if all your attempts to get her attention, like commenting on her photos or even sending
her a DM don’t yield a conversation, Take the hint, buddy.
She’s not interested.
On the other hand, if you landed one and your new girlfriend seems a little too active on
social media, Y’know, by posting cute selfies with lots
of cleavage or something like that, It could be a hidden sign that she’s looking
for attention in places other than you, the guy she’s dating.
And if that doesn’t sound the alarm that she’s not into you, I don’t know what
will...
Or wait, on second thought, maybe I do.
If these hidden signs aren’t enough help, check out this video where we show the OBVIOUS signs.
3. No Scratches on the Surface
One of the things I wish I would have known
when I was younger is how to have a conversation with a girl.
I used to be TERRIBLE at it and say things like, “So do you like food?” to start
a conversation.
Yeesh…
… I’m ignoring you now, Kay…
Awwww.
As I was saying, I understand the struggle, fellas.
When your nerves are firing, it can be hard to think of something to say.
We’ve told you countless times that asking a girl questions about herself is one of the
easiest and most effective ways to show her you’re interested,
So of course, the inverse is true.
So the next time you’re in a conversation with a cute girl,
Ask yourself this: Is the conversation ABOUT you?
If so, there’s a good chance she’s into you…
HOWEVER...
If you really want to bring home the bacon, you’ve gotta steer the conversation towards
the deep end of the pool.
That’s because when the conversation gets deep and the topics become your hopes, dreams,
plans, and past experiences, You’re living the human experience at that
point.
You’re doing exactly what life is all about: Connecting with others.
So if she takes you up on the “Do you like food?”
question and doesn’t bother to dig a little deeper, how do you think she feels about you?
That’s right.
You’re just the weird guy who asked her if she likes food and she’s looking for
a way out of the conversation.
I mean, yeah, she may be talking to you, which is a good sign, but if she never bothers to
learn a little more about you, I’m sorry, my friend…
She’s not interested.
Hey, like what you’re seeing so far?
Keep watching because we still have two more signs a girl isn’t into you that you NEED
to be aware of.
But more importantly, as promised, we’ll also reveal the one secret sign you might
be missing that should make it completely clear:
She’s totally into you.
So let’s continue.
2. Missing Mirror
I’ve been on a few dates in my time and
while not every guy does it, it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to miss:
I’m talking, of course about mirroring.
You know, the act of copying a person’s gestures, posture, and actions to make yourself
seem more similar to them?
It’s a subconscious sign of attraction that people pick up on both subconsciously and
- if they know to look out for it - consciously.
Some people do it without realizing and it feels totally natural, while others force
it and make it completely obvious.
So what does it mean for you if a girl just sits there while you’re shifting positions,
trying to get her to mirror you?
You guessed it…
She’s not interested and it’s time to try your luck elsewhere.
1. Freaked by the Future
Picture this, you ask a girl to be your plus
one for an event that’s a month away from today.
Say, a concert.
You give her a month’s notice so she can clear her schedule.
She, in turn, gives you a nonchalant “let’s see”” and claims it’s too early for
her to confirm.
Sounds just about like a casual conversation, right?
Well….
If you read between the lines, this is her way of telling you that she does NOT want
to commit to it.
Why?
It’s a no-brainer.
She simply isn’t sure how she’ll feel about you in a month’s time.
Here’s the sad truth of the matter...
A girl who can’t commit to future events with you, probably doesn’t picture a future
with you.
So how do you avoid rejection like this?
Simple: Give her less of a window.
A week from now is much easier to plan for than a month from now.
If however, she still isn’t sure she can commit to plans with a smaller window, run
for the hills, my friend.
You’re wasting your time.
Now that you know the top 5 hidden signs a girl doesn’t like you, it’s time for the
#1 hidden sign that she actually does like you.
Drum roll please!
Now look down at your feet...
There’s your answer.
Wait, what?
That’s right, Beardy.
The next time you are having a conversation with a girl, try to sneak a peek on her feet.
But why?
Welp, think about it like this, Beardy…
How often do you think about where your feet are pointing?
Almost never, why?
Because science suggests your feet point to where you want to go…
Even if you don’t realize it.
Huh....
Yep.
And once you realize it’s a thing, it’s super obvious.
Take a look at any group of people’s feet and you’ll immediately know who wants to
make out with who.
And the next time you’re chatting with a girl, sneak a peek at her feet to see if she’s
REALLY into you.
Do you guys know any other subtle hints that a girl uses when she just can’t get herself
to say she doesn’t like you?
Let us know in the comments.
If you REALLY want to know if a girl likes you…
check out these 11 OBVIOUS signs she not into you
Those were the 5 hidden signs a girl doesn’t like you + the #1 hidden sign that she doesn’t
want to be anywhere else but with you.
And while it’s not always your fault that a girl doesn’t like you, sometimes it is...
Thanks for watching!