I'm Xavi And you may have seen me blow up on Glow Up,
and I'm as bold of my socials as I was on the TV show.
I've been able to overcome obstacles in my life, thanks big time
to my relationships.
Good relationships have a lot in common with good makeup looks.
They both need to be built on solid foundations,
but that won't happen instantly.
You've got to build them up over time.
And when the other person feels the same way,
it might be simple to use concealer, but it's important not to hide the real you.
So do you like it?
I love it.
I love the colors and the shimmer.
I love the shimmer. The shimmer look so good on you.
It really brings out your eyes. Aww thank you.
I used to be embarrassed that I was autistic.
I didn't want anyone at school knowing that.
But I can be myself around my friends and talking to them helps take me out
of that negative headspace.
So while I might use
make up to highlight parts of a face, I can't highlight enough
how impactful a positive relationship can be on your mental health.
Linking up with friends and family regularly is completely normal
and for many, just as vital to their well-being as I find a brown
lip line and a nude lip.
You're done Izzy, what do you think?
I love it so much.
It looks like, it's just insane.
You know my face.
In a good relationship your loved ones let you maintain your own identity.
It's fine to have interests
that are just yours.
And that's what's important.
And they might even help you improve your self-esteem.
My relationships
were so supportive for me to pursue the things that I love the most.
And they'd never pressure me to do something that I didn't want to do either.
When I dived into this creative expression,
it really helped build my self-confidence.
And now I love to talk to my family about my creative work
and how it makes me feel while doing it.
So what do you think?
Oh, I love it.
I like the red touch to the smoky black.
I like the sharpness to it as well.
It's very captivating.
If you encounter a problem in your relationship,
It's normal to go through ups and downs, call on the people you love
and who love you.
My friends are there to support me,
and they're always there to keep me in line when I'm moving mad.
I often have this inner voice in my head
that makes me think about all the negative things that could happen,
but then a chat with my friends totally helps change my perspective.
Sometimes it's just about talking stuff through
if you need to talk to someone you trust.
It could be a friend, brother or sister.
Or if it's more serious, you could always talk to an adult you trust.
Whatever the problem is, you do need to talk to someone.
It will help.
Looking lit.
Time to add some highlight.
For me, highlight symbolizes so much.
It's like a symbol of a great relationship.
Letting each other shine is the best thing you can do.
Whether you're in a romantic relationship now, or will be in the future.
Please remember, whatever you're going through in your life, there are people
to help you, from your partner to your close friends.