that was canceled and that's up because I would hope that how I try to carry
myself now and how I try to continue to change and call myself out and be very
self aware for the most part I would think that would I don't know I don't
know but you know I can't it's not my place to ask don't know it's I'm trying
to say
videos over here and try to teach you mental and emotional health lessons so
if your do that kind of stuff make sure you subscribe and bring that
notification bell so yeah Thomas Halbert just came back first video since his whole
other video signaling and talking about it was just well here to learn some
lessons from good old Thomas ok real quick it was really weird because Thomas Halbert
kept saying a month but it was all been two weeks and it's really interesting -
between social media like a monster chat a bit on social media in like five
minutes I found that interesting so before I
jump in to the tough love for all of you as well as Thomas Hallbert I want to
talk about this clip right here I struggle with an eating disorder okay
and whether you want to take that as a lie or not whether you want to take that
as me trying to get sympathy points from people that's fine you can think that
all you want but I struggle with an eating disorder and I was getting
hundreds and hundreds of comments not only on Twitter but on Instagram calling
me obese and fat and unscanned we live in oh my it is not cool to go
after people in this way to go after Thomas eating disorder and disgusting
that terrible you know I you know come join our support group on Facebook it's
great we'll talk I'll tell you how dumb those other people are so let's get into
the topic about how Thomas needs to unsalted so speaking of boom Jill no I'm
doing a giveaway for this book Thomas if you watch this I will send you a free
copy okay all of you people just need to grow up if you want to get a free copy
go watch the video that I'll link in the info card as well as down in the
comments below the giveaway is going until November 4th not only did I catch
myself doing it but my boyfriend at the time caught me doing a friend's caught
me doing it and it wasn't a situation where it was a situation where I had my
boyfriend like friends coming to me being like Thomas Halbert we don't like how
you're acting so I have been working on myself to become a better person
for a month prior to any of this coming out that's why I made that video like he
seems really frazzled at the beginning of this video I'll say then he gets a
little bit more comfortable later on but like he's like talking about how I got
time I recorded that video I was working on myself for a month
like what like this is one of the biggest issues that people have and it's
interesting too because this is kind of what phousi did to like you cannot just
be like this there's awful person and you think like in a month you're like
this enlightened human being like that's not how it works that is not how it
works you need more time I've made videos in
the past about how actions speak louder than words you don't have enough time to
have these actions to show that you're a changed person it wasn't fair of me and
I was being a hypocrite at the time I mean I'm I was being a hypocrite period
you know honestly when it came to calling out other people for certain
things when it came to acting like I was better than certain influencers or I was
the most look or the most you know least scandalous and I'm the least snaky and
stuff like that because I think honestly what it was was me lying to myself me
kind of trying to make myself think that I'm a better person than I am
like this right here this is a perfect example of that old saying of but people
living in glass houses should not throw stones okay it takes more time than that
to change who you are as a person no I agree with the people that are sending
me hate saying that oh you're a hypocrite and stuff like that like I get
that and I agree with that everyone makes mistakes we're all human being it
just sucks that my mistakes were publicized but it's also like well you
reap what you sow you kind of have that coming and I totally accept that I agree
with that yes this clip right here is exactly what
I was talking about virtue signaling exactly
what I was talking about
okay this is why virtue signaling can get you into trouble because like what
Thomas explained and it's funny because someone sent me a tweet I forgot who it
is but I'm gonna have it up on the screen right here I'm gonna make sure
Zach puts it in anyways Thomas like made a tweet about people
accusing him of virtue signaling and then he deleted it but what Thomas's are
realized I don't think is that he's admitting to why he why he was virtuous
signaling and this is something we all gotta recognize right like when we throw
this out there sometimes to make us feel better about ourselves right for example
some of those people who it's because of their insecurities and that's what
Thomas is talking about so Thomas is a realize that's why he was doing it this
is why some people doing it because they don't feel great on the inside so they
projected this image of themself on the outside in your face
I do agree this entire video he was double talking he was double talking
he's like it's not an excuse but it is a justifiable excuse like he went back and
forth on this like a dozen times anyways Matt click right there like he's
talking about how people are like judging them for his past they're
judging for his past like let me make this very clear to all
of you out there who try to get into that victim mode do you guys understand
that you're watching the guy who was a drug addict an alcoholic for about a
decade okay like not many drug addicts and
alcoholics are good people I was an awful person I didn't leave my son for a
year I stole money I made my family like worried about me possibly not knowing if
I was gonna die like I hurt every person in my life so why do you think it is why
do you think it is that people aren't coming at me calling me a hypocrite when
I do my YouTube videos trying to give you
advice on how to improve your mental and emotional well-being it's because of
exactly what I was telling Thomas at the beginning of this video it takes more
time and I would have hopped onto YouTube after being sober for a month
like people would have called me a hypocrite right but I've put in the
legwork I put in the work to get where I am today I've gone through all of these
changes so now what I say holds depth and weight so Thomas mentioned someone
somewhere in this video you know he had the right message but the messenger was
wrong exactly exactly so if you're somebody who's screwing up remember but
you are in no position no position to tell people how to be living their life
okay like I'll never forget I had a client who relapsed and he was getting
drunk all over again and he calls me drunk from the bar and
he's like really upset what's going on and he's telling me that his friend
won't get sober and he's really trying to help her get sober I'm like well no
crap dude you're getting drunk why would she listen to you
same thing Thomas you are not a changed person yet so do not try to give this
message trying to tell people how to be better I'm 21 years old I'm still a
child whether you like it or not and I'm still learning and I'm still trying to
grow as human being oh the good old child excuse I'm just a little baby
like you guys we need to stop this we need to stop this this is the tan of
mojo excuse like you can't you can't want all the celebrity you can't want
all the power you can't want all these things but just take all the good and
leave all the bad like we see people like 10 emojos say this all the time
I'm just a human I screw up but that is such a cop-out to screw up like quit
saying that all right yeah you're 21 oh well grow up dude I'm sorry to say it
like there are many many many other people who have like moved out like one
of my best friends got emancipated when she was 15 years old and started living
on her own okay so when I hear this 21 year olds is trying to use that excuse I
find it as complete BS there's people watching this video there's people like
me who had to raise ourselves at a young age so like this is not a valid excuse
and you just need if you're a young person watching this like get that out
of your mouth just get it out of your brain out of your mouth do not use this
door bitch excuse anymore okay you don't use it what this month has told me is
that being who I was before was just exhausting mentally and everything it's
just a draining person exactly it's exhausting it's draining to live like
that like you guys I can't explain to enough light the reason I'm making this
video the reason I make all my videos I used to be Thomas I used to be Thomas
right I used to be the guy who was seeking validation I've admitted in
other videos that I used to be a drama queen I would always do this it was for
different reasons and it wasn't until I started working on
myself that I figured this stuff out you know I'm like man I was angry all the
time I was lying all the time I was keeping
secrets I was sharing secrets let's do all that it's just exhausting man is so
exhausted being that kind of person like one of the reasons I'm a better person
today it was hard it was exhausting to try not to lie
I'm not disturb drama to try not to be sick that was exhausting but my life is
so peaceful today I would do it a million a million times over again all
right so you know Thomas mentioned that he's working with peers but only time
will tell only time will tell I'm really glad that
Thomas is you know getting help for his eating disorder that to me is the most
inspiring thing I think I think in my opinion Thomas could make more of an
impact in the community and change his image if you will if he started making
videos about his eating disorder recovery because if you think about the
audience he has he could really inspire a lot of people a lot of people who are
struggling with eating disorders all right so that would be by suggesting him
people saying that his actions are speaking out in the words as far as will
he change I don't know man I don't know in there the snapchat that Thomas is
referring to is like 20 minutes of Gabriel being nothing but penny so I
don't know there's just so much drama in this beauty community it's hard to know
if these people are gonna change from just being you know involved and keeping
an eye on it for the past few months like nobody's changing it's just it's
just how they are anyways hopefully Thomas does change
like that'd be cool and again Thomas you watch this video copy of this book is
yours everybody else down the description below
is going on until November 4th and I'm giving away 5 5 copies of this book
unsecured Alton alright anyways anyways let's have a conversation - down in the
comments below I'll use somebody I'll use somebody who uses your age and
excuse as an excuse that's what I want to hear that's what I want to hear and
why do you think that's a justifiable excuse to use alright
it's just in just humours me anyways that's all I got for this video if you
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