hello everyone Simon area speaking a cup of tea excuse
me so when does a Thai girl become a bar
girl what's the allure what's the fascination how does it happen again
this is my perspective when I was managing bars in potato a girl the work
for me II did really well would go back to her village every three months maybe
and take money to the family this is quite a common thing girls I've got to
look after the family there are only money so they take money back to the
family now as a bar manager girls come and go in the bar every month and it's
hard to keep girls in the bar because no matter how good you pay what you do it
is hard at times so we used to pay commission to the girls any girls you
brought new girls into the bar we'd give them phones wrap up pays on that
whatever bring some girls in as long as they stayed for three months so let's
take her my one top girl who was called Apple went back to the village
gave money to a family she talked to the girls in the village and they liked
managing and it's a law maybe she wouldn't get any of the girls coming
back but the people in the village would notice that family apples family would
start getting a new motorcycle maybe something slightly better in the house
slightly better clothes more food it will be noticed in a village if a girl's
bring your money back and the lower girls they think right I'm going to see
what this is all about and they turn up so I'm managing the bar new girls turn
up stand out a mile new girls they have another clue what's going on and they
just want to see what's happening they come and chat to them Amazon and if
they're a friend of like apples brought some girls they come have a chat they
turned out they've got noise of this they've got a backpack on the back and
they want to try and answer money some of them will turn around and go
different bar or just completely no don't fancy it and disappear but the
ones that are stayed you'd say okay I'm going to try this and see what's what
then the girls are already in the bar we'll take them under their wings and
they will teach them the trade or whatever you want to call it it and in
return for teaching and taking care of them and let them share the room these
new girls would have to give them food and bits and pieces and a favor maybe in
the future and you hear a lot of people a good at Thailand live expert working
live in know the system say about girls losing their heart the heart is getting
hardened they become like a business person they change now I saw this many
many times happen and it takes three months I would say three months but for
a girl to change from an innocent naive farm girl to become a bar girl why does
it happen how does it happen it seems to be that the girls they start going with
foreigners and they start learning that maybe the former foreigners have
promised to come back and see them or they promise to send them some money or
they've made some promises that they haven't kept maybe they've got it does
happen I believe you know maybe they've they've had some bad experiences with
the foreigners things have gone wrong over that first three months they learn
pretty quick about money foreigners what the buyers are doing what life's about
and they change it changes them from when they first arrived they do harden
up then for the next six months they change more they start either Sony into
the person but is just only driven by money or they're looking at for the
perfect partner could be any nationality and the girls in the bar that all work
together a lot of them lives together in my bar we had a huge - two rooms at the
top of the bars and we had about 15 girls living there so a net was rent
free it's part of their deal so the girls changed very quickly from first
coming to the bar it's becoming what I would call a professional bar girl but
after they've become that bar bill they are looking for a way out of it they are
looking for changes in their life ways of making it life better for the family
and themselves and it probably comes a bit addictive the money to them because
it's a lot of money suddenly they're getting compared to what they were
getting helping the family ace on the farm or helping the family owns a little
shop whatever the family did that's my thoughts on white and how quick the
girls can change change into a proper professional bar girl so that was just a
short vlog vlog 3 coming up this is the tricky one for me and it might be a bit
negative we'll see what I can do so thanks for watching I'll catch you on
blog 3 which I will be recording very shortly see you soon bye for now