marriage in fact
is a precaution taken by the society
that nobody becomes a rebel
that nobody becomes an individual marriage is
in its
naked reality a strategy by the society
to keep everybody under control
and it is such a subtle way
that nobody thinks it
at least in the beginning
that it is going to be an imprisonment a lifelong slavery
but marriage has been used
by all the societies in the world in all the ages past
as a psychological
imprisonment
putting too much burden and responsibility on every individual
that he has to kneel down and in jartustra's words
as to become a camel
a beast of burden
camels don't rebel
on the contrary
the more burden a camel can carry
the more precious he becomes
the same is the situation of the married man the more burden he carries of the old parents
of the small children of the wife the more respectable
the more honors
he becomes in the society
these are the ways
invisible chains that will prevent a man
from becoming a rebel
but this is only one side
the other side is
if the man has some courage some intelligence the very burden
the very imprisonment
will become the cause of rebellion
it is just a question of sifting your focus
in all the religions
there is a way
acceptable to the society
that is of renouncing the life
and escaping into a monastery are into the mountains
it is an escape and every escape is covered
but the escape is acceptable not only acceptable but very prestigious
in the name of religion in the name of searching for truth
the society allows
the individual to escape
and drop all the responsibilities
this is a kind of rebelliousness
but the rebelliousness of the coward
just to keep the society under control they had to give a little outlet
so the suffocation does not become too much
and they had to make this escapism
prestigious so nobody condemns it but on the contrary
these cowards are being worshipped as great saints sages all that they are is
they had
a certain rebelliousness in their mind but they were without guts
and just rebelliousness in the mind is of no use
unless you can act accordingly unless you can risk unless you can take the
danger
the married men are unmarried men
the problem is the same
are you ready
to go against the whole past
are you ready to go against the whole world do you have the courage to stand alone
will you not start feeling dizzy
seeing that the whole world is against you
will not you start thinking perhaps they are right because they are so many i am alone
most probably i am not right
and the moment you start feeling this
you will start losing courage
you will start moving towards the prison
again the greatest courageous life in the world
is to have guts to stand alone without ever
bothering about the
majority of the world
what their opinion is but this is possible only when you're rebellious
idea is not borrowed
is not only a thought in the mind but is a realization a deep insight into things of your own
if your authority is somewhere else you cannot have that much courage if your
authority is within you if you feel that what you are fighting for is your experienced truth
and that it is
not to destroy the world
but to create
a better world a better humanity
better people better individuals better opportunities for growth for all
then you are the majority of one and the whole world is the minority of five billion people
then it does not matter how many people are against you if the truth
is yours then nothing matters no wavering ever comes to you not even in your dreams
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