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A Major Misunderstanding about The Law of Attraction
As soon as people learn about the law of mirroring,
which is often called the law of attraction,
they begin to ask the question:
"how am I a match to this?"
They ask this question because they start to recognize
that their own consciousness,
I should say, the frequency of their own consciousness
is attracting in or inviting in
people, places, things and experiences
that vibrate at a like frequency.
It is an energetic match.
They start to recognize
that what is happening in the external
is like a reflection
of what's happening on the internal.
In a fractal-based universe.
For example:
Imagine that as a child you were abandoned,
and the abandonment is not healed within your consciousness.
That means you are still a vibrational match to abandonment
later in your life.
Or for example, imagine that you are someone
who does not consider other people's best interests,
only your own.
You will be a vibrational match to other living beings
that do not consider your best interests, only their own.
You will also see it within spiritual communities,
that when somebody is aware of the law of mirroring
the second that somebody else in their life
goes through something unfavorable,
they'll automatically turn to that person and say:
"how are you a match to this?"
I want to go on record as saying
that's an incredibly unattuned thing
to ask somebody who is going through something difficult.
When you ask this question,
it has this connotation
that as if the pain of the experience isn't bad enough,
on top of it,
they somehow brought it on themselves.
And it is therefore, their fault.
But the tendency for people to ask this question to other people:
"how are you a match to this?"
actually has made me aware of something;
There's a massive misunderstanding
that so many people have about the law of mirroring.
Let's go into it, shall we?
With this idea that in order to experience something
you have to be a vibrational match to it,
comes this idea that the more conscious you become,
the more control you can exert over your life experience,
because if you can control your personal vibration
you can therefore control the reflection that you're getting, right?
Now, with this comes this idea
that at some point you can reach a level of consciousness
where you no longer experience
any more unwanted things.
As if somehow, the more conscious you become
the more exempt you become from contrast.
That's not how it works, you guys.
That's actually, completely false.
Your relationship to the contrast changes.
Essentially, people seem to think that the day will come
when a person doesn't have any negative experiences,
and if they do, it suggests that there's something unhealed in them
or wrong with them
or that they did something to bring it on.
And again...
There's this idea that if you're conscious enough
and if you control and heal and purify your vibration enough
you will no longer be a match to any negative experiences,
only positive ones.
You need to understand that contrast will always apply to you
when you make the choice to come into a time-space reality
where contrast is an element of that time space reality.
Contrast is the breeding ground for expansion.
What do we mean by this?
By contrast, we mean wanted and unwanted
positive and negative.
It is in the sorting through this contrast
that we desire.
Desire is born from the unwanted.
And desire is what propels all evolution
within the greater universe.
Therefore, there will not be a time
where you are exempt from contrast,
any more than there will be a time
where you're exempt from the process of expansion.
Life would be absolutely pointless
if you were exempt from the process of expansion.
That's the whole point of life in the first place.
Everything in existence
has wanted and unwanted elements.
Everything in existence has an upside and a downside.
Everything in existence has a positive and negative.
There is contrast inherent in anything,
and no matter how conscious you become,
that's still gonna be the case.
At face value, the law of mirroring
what most people are calling 'The Law of Attraction'
is quite simple.
It's the concept of reflection.
Which by the way,
is an exemplary tool for self-awareness.
Now, given that we can simplify it in this way,
you just think about it as
whatever goes in front of it, you see.
Right?
Actually, we oversimplify the law of mirroring.
The reason is,
is because people have this tendency of thinking
that there's only one thing that is reflecting.
Let me tell you what I mean by that:
A person may think the only thing that is reflecting
is what they themselves are or do.
When this is the case, when they say:
"how are you a match to this?"
they're implying that you are
or that you do, the exact same thing
as the other person does
in whatever scenario you are in,
and are therefore, getting a taste of your own medicine.
Or, for example, they think the only thing that is reflecting
is childhood trauma
that is still active, vibrationally speaking.
When this is the case, when they say:
"how are you a match to this?"
they're implying that you have an unhealed childhood trauma
that is reflecting, yet again, in your adult life.
Or, for example,
they think that the only thing that is reflecting
is whatever you think and believe.
Therefore, when they ask you:
how are you a match to this?
They're implying that there is some thought you have,
or some belief you have
that makes you a match to whatever you're experiencing.
The reality is,
any of these things I've just mentioned
could be what is reflecting,
or the reason why you're a match to something.
So could all of them at the same time.
I'm just gonna give you a very short list.
And when I say "a very short list"
I mean, like, a VERY short list.
I'm gonna give you a very short list
of what could potentially be reflecting in the external as an experience.
What could potentially make you a match to something.
First thing:
Your beliefs.
And by the way,
most of you don't even know what they are,
because they're so buried in the subconscious mind.
That brings me to another point:
What you're thinking.
Not just on a conscious level, but on a subconscious level.
All of that is reflecting.
Your desires can make you a match to something,
your feelings can make you a match to something,
your resistance can make you a match to something,
unresolved traumas can make you a match to something,
positive memories can make you a match to something,
ancestral patterns can make you a match to something,
personal truths can make you a match to something.
Guess what?
So can lies you tell yourself and others.
Also, things you are avoiding
can make you a match to certain experiences,
pre-birth intentions
can make you a match to certain experiences.
And I wanna mention one last thing on this list
that should be so much longer.
The choices that you make
can make you a match to certain experiences.
Oh, by the way,
it may be of interest for you to know
that in a universe
that is based off of this law of mirroring
the way that divine orchestration can even occur
is that it comes to you
and is able to reflect through the reflection of your desires.
That's the open doorway for universal meddling.
But, the reason that your life experience
being played out on this giant external screen we call life
is so varied and so complicated
is because there are so many things
that are reflecting at one time.
Potentially even so many things that are reflecting in one experience.
Here's the intention:
The intention for somebody
who is projecting themselves into a time-space reality
that is based off of the law of mirroring,
meaning that they have committed to self-awareness,
is a one-two step.
The one step is:
"I'm gonna step in front of the mirror,
I'm going to notice the reflection,
I'm gonna go into a state of pure perception.
Ah, I see the reality".
That's step one, step two is:
"Based off of seeing the reality,
I'm going to give birth to what I would desire, instead.
And by virtue of focusing on those things,
I will change the reflection in this mirror.
I will know whether I changed it,
based off of what is happening in the external environment".
"External".
However...
a lot of people are not doing this one-two step.
In fact, in the spiritual community
you have two pretty distinct camps.
You have people over here, on this side
that are using this law of mirroring or law of attraction
to simply become aware, aware, aware, aware, aware
and then they're not really actually taking what they're becoming aware of
and consciously creating.
And by not doing so,
they're stuck in pain
and are cutting themselves off from the potential to be happy.
And all the way over on this side, what we have is our bypassers.
These are people who are completely foregoing step one.
They are not looking at anything so as to become aware,
they're not looking at their reflections, it's not about that.
They're going to instead, ignore it all,
go into a state of denial, and then say:
"you know what I can create whatever reflection I wanna create.
It's not about self-awareness, it's not about awareness at all,
it's just about creation,
and therefore, I am going to focus on what I want to have be true,
and watch the reflection change as a result of this".
Why is this so dangerous?
Because with the awareness you create DRASTICALLY different things.
Okay, so that was my soapbox moment.
Sorry, you guys, that was my soapbox moment
about the fact that there are these two distinct camps
that are forming within communities that are aware of the law of mirroring.
And we really need to get rid of these camps
and really recognize that the law of mirroring
was meant to put those who are part of this construct
in a one-two step type of experience.
All this being said,
there's something that you need to accept
and I mean powerfully,
once you have already accepted
that there is contrast inherent in anything,
and that's that the choices you make
whether those choices are conscious or subconscious,
will line you up with specific unwanted and wanted experiences.
There's contrast that's gonna come with any choice you make.
And...
Oftentimes, the only way
to guarantee that you will not experience
a certain unwanted thing or a certain type of contrast,
is to make a different choice altogether.
And this is something that a lot of people are not seeing
when it comes to the law of mirroring.
For example,
making the decision to participate in life on planet earth,
you are going to experience gravity.
Or, for example, making the choice to be a surfer
means you are going to get cold and wet.
Or, for example,
making the choice to be in the public eye
means you will experience projection,
be critiqued and be judged.
Or, for example,
making the choice to be a parent means you are going to experience
the pressure of the well-being of another life depending on you.
Now, using our analogy,
I'm not saying that if you are a surfer
you should realize that choosing to be a surfer
means you're just gonna be cold and wet
and you should just accept that,
and that's just the way it is.
No.
In fact...
So often, the expansion that occurs within a being
happens as a result of them powerfully facing
whatever contrast is inevitable
as a result of the choice they're making
and then, working within that parameter
to create improvements to that contrast.
How do we know this?
Surfers now have wetsuits.
But, sticking with this analogy...
No surfers should get cold and wet and ask themselves:
"How am I a match to this?"
You're a match to it because you chose to be a surfer.
I mean, do you see the cruelty
of it being expected
that they could, if their vibration was high enough
still surf, but not get wet and cold?
If this person decides
they do not want to be wet or cold at all,
it isn't going to work
to try to work on thoughts,
or beliefs, or feelings, or trauma, or whatever...
so as to be able to surf and not get wet or cold.
They must make the choice to no longer be a surfer.
To understand more about this, watch my video titled:
Why You Should Consciously Choose Consequences
All this being said, it is important to understand
what so many people do not understand about the law of mirroring,
often called the law of attraction;
And it is that
part of what is lining you up with these unwanted experiences
is the choices that you are making.
Choices that imply a certain type of contrast,
a certain type of wanted
and also unwanted experience.
It would benefit you
to sort through any of these things
which might be reflecting in the external
as this type of experience that you're having,
whatever might be making you a match
to the person, people, places and experiences
that you are having.
But, don't forget
to consciously consider
what you are experiencing simply because
you have made a choice for a specific thing,
and that comes with specific set contrast.
And don't forget...
if you're in one of these situations where a choice you have made
makes you a match to a certain set type of unwanted experience,
oftentimes the only way to not experience that,
is to make a different life choice entirely.
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