this video I'm gonna be sharing with you three tricks of the ego that blocks
success happiness and the law of attraction from working I'm going to
show you exactly how to push through these so that you start to live in a
completely new way welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help
people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you
the three tricks of the ego the ego may have a couple more tricks but these are
the three main tricks that I have acknowledged in the ego that really
blocks success happiness and manifestations from coming into your
life I'm able to being able to perceive of that which you want now let's first
off understand the ego in the process of manifestation itself now the job of the
ego is to focus and is to identify and have a level of awareness with where it
is to quote-unquote where it wants to be the ego tends to be more identified with
goals the ego tends to be identified with outcomes and it's about being aware
that first off you are not just the ego the ego may be part of your human
experience because when we come into this reality we need a vessel for having
an earthly experience and that vessel is our body and then our body has an ego
it's almost like the ego is the avatar in this reality because at a greater
sense you are an unconditional immortal spiritual being unconditional love
immortal spiritual being from the higher dimensional aspects of consciousness
that have projected yourself here into this reality and while being here you
use your body and your ego as the avatar now the thing is is people in their life
many times become overly identified with that avatar or that ego it's almost like
you're playing a video game and you start to think that you are only just
the character itself without realizing that you are also the person that is
playing the game now of course this is the idea of our higher self our higher
self is us and is this balance between the higher self
and the ego the ego snob is to focus the egos job is to pay attention to what it
wants what it doesn't want and the job of the higher self is to guide it the
ego now the thing is is for the process of happiness manifestation even the law
of attraction for us to really be in balance the key to this is having two
sides of that coin so it is having that of having the focus in a certain
direction and moving in a certain direction we could even call this the
action and being aware of how we feel along the process the ego can identify
what that is and pay attention to what it wants and all of that and then the
other side of that though is the key is to let go and let things happen the way
they are meant to happen and this means letting go and giving up
the outcome of how it happens to that of the higher self and then the higher self
can help guide through the experience in a much more powerful way but the thing
that happens is many people get caught up in the ego thinking that they are
only the ego and they think they must do absolutely everything now when we
believe we must do everything we put all of the weight on our back and we carry
it around and by doing so we end up feeling bogs down we end up feeling at
the whims of everyone else we feel like we are at the effect of everything in
life rather than being at the cost now the first trick of the ego that I want
to share with you has to do with the ego thinking that it must do everything the
ego thinks it must do everything that's not the case the job of the ego and what
you can begin to do is become aware of how you are setting your goals what are
your outcomes and then being aware of how you can move in that direction but
also allow the elasticity for your higher self to help bring through the
kind of information to help bring through how things could actually happen
so this is about having that that balance of understanding
what the job of the ego really is the job of the ego is to focus it is to go
in a certain direction and you can think of this as well as the guidance system
for that of your ego is that of the feeling of passion you can use your
emotions when you are doing what you're passionate about that feeling of passion
is your body telling you hey this is who you really are continue to do this thing
and that is the connection to your higher self that is guiding you through
the process but what will happen sometimes is the ego will also go for
goals that it doesn't really want the ego might think it wants it but the
higher self always knows better so it's about being aware of that and having
your goal connected to your passion go from your heart how do you feel that is
what is important because the emotion transcends the intellect the ego is more
concerned with the logical understanding of everything trying to piece it
together in their mind and when you go beyond that of just the ego you go into
your heart you then see that amazing things begin to start so go into your
heart and understand that when you set the intention also do your passion more
of the time you will then start to see more and more of a reflection of that in
your life because the truth is is the more you do what you're passionate about
the more the side-effects come anyways what I mean by that is you may say well
I want money I want a relationship I want this I want that but what you
really want is you want this connection you want this feeling you want the
emotion those things will bring you if you go for your passion you are then
going for the highest probable timeline of you then also having all those other
things if you start following your passion you're gonna meet someone that's
also doing what they love and that you're more vibrational resonance with
if you are doing your passion there's more likelihood that you're going to be
able to add value to other people because you're in a higher vibrational
state and then that money and that financial abundance just comes back to
you in the same way you may find that when it comes to
you're in a high vibrational state you have more vitality you feel like you
want to go out and you want to do more physical exercise therefore you become
even more healthy so be aware of these different facets because when you're
aware of how you feel in the process amazing things happen but it doesn't
have to be purely a mental logical type thing you can make it an emotional thing
and you can tap in your passion but the moment you think that the ego has to do
everything is the moment that you're going to put too much on your back and
you're going to start to feel resistance when that happens observe the ego bring
awareness into your body even right now as I do this we can do this exercise
right now bring the awareness from in your head and into your sense
perceptions into your hands your chest your feet imagine that there's energy
going out of the heels and your feet as you do this right now you probably feel
more present to the moment and then you can observe the thoughts that you have
and as you observe the thoughts that you have you can see and choose whether you
identify with them or you continue to observe them because as you observe them
you neutralize the power that it has over you so instead of I have to control
this I have to do this is this you start to observe it and see that a lot of
times it's just the worrying of the mind now the second trick of the ego has to
do with the self-preservation system of the ego the ego wants to survive the ego
wants to remain the same when you bring a different variable into your life and
the ego sees that the ego will try to sabotage it
the ego will try to make it so that that doesn't happen because it does not want
to go off rail of what it had envisioned in its own mind this is something I've
experienced recently because as I bring a new element into my life I feel this
this inner resistance and it has nothing to do with the element it has to do with
my beliefs about Who I am and how I saw myself
and my blueprint of how I was gonna live my life and that's allowing me to bring
these things up and then to process it and let it go
you see that's what is powerful when you understand that it's a self preservation
system the ego just wants to survive the ego wants to remain the same so instead
become aware of the ego become aware of the self preservation system ask
yourself this question each time you feel like you have these limiting
beliefs what would I have to believe is true to be having this kind of emotion
there's a lot of times the feelings we have come from some comes from something
we believed to be true be comes from some type of meaning but sometimes those
meanings may be kind of buried in with the ego because I was feeling this
resistance when I was bringing this other element in and as I do I feel this
resistance I'm like why am I feeling this and I ask myself the question well
what I have to believe is true to be feeling this and I got down to believing
that it would derail a certain level of financial abundance or this or that all
of this stuff and I realize that it's false it's not even true it's just the
ego is trying to preserve itself so then that happens once again you can observe
it and you can move more into your heart move it to your heart and understand it
for what it is it's just doing its job there's no you know sometimes they say
these things they have the book you know this book called ego is the enemy the
ego is still something you are using to have a physical type experience so
instead of fighting the ego be like screw you for having these limiting
beliefs understand yes maybe the ego will try to put self reserve itself but
instead what you can do is you can look at the ego and you could say listen it's
gonna be okay it's gonna be okay yes maybe this is a little bit different but
it's going to be okay yes you can still do this and this it's not gonna be as
rigid as you think it's okay just trust this process and the next time that
belief comes up that feeling comes up observe it observe the feeling emotions
dissipate when you observe them with the attachment because then you see them for
what they are they're only painful when we identify with them and we think that
they are who we are and we think they shouldn't be there allow those emotions
to be there as you do that they will then begin to go away more and more so
this is about it this really everything I'm sharing with you right now is about
the same kind of process awareness become aware of what your ego is
thinking then choose to detach from it that is what will really help you to go
beyond that of the ego structure because remember you also have a self-image in a
certain way you see yourself and that self-image is what is called a
cybernetic mechanism meaning it'll always go back to its base point so if
you see yourself is only able to make 50,000 per year only able capable of
having a certain type of relationship all of these things the self-image and
the ego will start to get a little bit freaky because it's like what are you
doing this is out of alignment with the way that you saw yourself forever
instead you observe that you become aware of it and then you process the
emotions and you let them go and then you will move beyond it and you start to
transcend it and then you start to exist in a higher state of consciousness you
start to exist in a higher vibrational State
now the third trick of the ego is the egos rules that it has for what it takes
you to be happy many times the ego will tell you that you can feel happy win
some external benchmark and because of that external benchmark you will always
be looking for it and think about how funny that is we say when we get this
specific type of financial abundance when I have this certain career when I
have this when I have that then I'll be happy if then is a rule in the mind and
we can give ourselves permission to feel that right now because all we experience
in our life is more of our own energy we may use certain people as a symbol for
that and they can feel the same emotion that can be a love there can be a
connection there there can be a passion for what you do for a living
however it's about understanding that there's this alignment that takes place
when use more so soak into the moment now and you give yourself permission to
be happy now now as you give yourself to be happy now permission you begin to
increase your vibration and you experience a reality that is equal
to that high vibrational state so it's about the awareness of what rules are in
your mind what rules are in your mind right now that says that you can be
happy win when can you be happy why not now why not be happy now and understand
that by being happy now you will actually attract the things in your life
quicker than you can imagine another funny paradox we say when I get the car
the relationship the money then I'll be happy but the key is when you'll be
happy when you are happy those things will come anyways so it's about
understanding the trick of the ego of the if-then scenario and instead
choosing to be happy now because remember we experience in life that
which we are the vibration of so the more that you allow yourself to be in
that vibration of what you love doing of giving yourself permission to be happy
now the more that you do all of these things the more that you embody that
vibrational frequency and the more that you then start to perceive of the
reality that as equal to that vibration your vibration is a combination which
you think act and feel so give yourself permission now even right now as you
watch this can you give yourself permission now to be happy
a lot of times I can come from focus as well what are you focused on you focus
on the gratitude you have for what's in your life right now you could be and I
said well I don't have a lot in my life well you probably are watching this on a
mobile phone or a computer maybe you're listening to this why you driving your
car which gets you from point A to point B maybe you're watching this with your
the family member or a friend you have things to be grateful for and the more
that you pay attention to what you are grateful for the more you will then
start to be in that higher vibrational state and you will start to experience a
reality that is equal to that vibration so the three tricks of the ego and how
to transcend every single one of them is about first off understanding you don't
have to control everything give it up let go understand that you
can just follow your path and when you're when you're in a high
vibrational state you are aligned to who you really are and that half the
equation is focusing the other half maybe it's even more than half is
trusting the process and having your higher self bringing you what you need
trusting that it will work out if you do that then things will smooth out so much
easier you will take all that weight off your back and understand that things can
be given to you at the same time remember that you have a
self-preservation system inside of you that's trying to remain the same when
the resistance comes up be aware of it observe it let it go
notice that you just have to a lot of times dissolve those negative emotions
gives it just dissolve those negative beliefs by being aware of them and
observing them with detachment they just are what they are do that exercise every
day bring the awareness from out of your head into your hands into your feet and
notice how you become more aware present to the moment and then at the same time
know that for this whole process the more that you give yourself permission
to be happy now the more you will experience what you want your life this
is about letting go of all the rules and giving yourself permission to be in the
present moment and as you're in the present moment you observe the ego and
the ego begins to cooperate that's where the power is now a lot of what the ego
will will cause there's a lot of sometimes emotional disturbances now
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